Bad Review Mssassy Interesting Read

[Mr.Chan]

You are of course quite correct. After following post on more than one thread, I have become confused. Please excuse. Of course, as stated integrity in hobby indispensible, and like petroleum usually in short supply.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

...as stated integrity in hobby indispensible, and like petroleum usually in short supply.

Quite true, Mr.Chan. And when one is lucky enough to find it, they should keep on drilling that particular oil well. Pun intended.

[Mr.Chan]

...and hope for gusher

[MrGiz]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

. . . .
Lack of integrity is a permanent affliction, in my opinion.

A person puts themselves in quite a precarious situation when they choose to trust someone like that with their personal information, or safety. In our industry, trust in each other is paramount...or at least, it should be. It's all we've got.

I understand the point you were trying to make.... but that first sentence quoted could be considered extremely restrictive! Many of us have begged forgiveness for being Human!!

[mssassy]

Ouch How in the hell did my defending a bad review turn into drama and the question of my past mistakes and integrity?

Hey Everyone once again I have made my share of mistakes . I didnt come into the hobby and have someone teach me the correct way to do things. Which is why I probably made the shit load of mistakes that I did make. Not all of us of perfect providers .

However after reading this past few posts Let me make this perfectly clear I am a good provider. I dont bad mouth other providers behind closed doors .
Anyone who has seen me will tell you that

Also I am done I mean done trying to fit in on here. I am done trying to prove myself to make up for any past mistakes I have made.

I am one of the sweetest , down to earth , honest ,reliable providers around. Those who see me regularly will tell you that. The only question they have is why someone like me is in the business where so much cattiness and drama exist. I am so opposite of that.
So
Either you like me or you dont (your lose if you dont )
Either you chose to see me or you dont
If you dont its your lose not mine

My reviews speak for themselves

Now this thread was my defending a bad review from a gentleman I do not remember seeing at all.

Perhaps we should all get back on topic Ugh

Dreams thanks for your support

[guest071811-3]

This is a prime example of

#1 more bullshit

#2 why providers need to learn that if they are gonna say "look at my past reviews" and that is suppose to x out a negative one..and thats what post like this will be based on then there really is NO NEED for a reply and let the good reviews stand on their own..

nothing good as proven yet again EVER comes from trying to dispute what appears to be a honest review.. one that gave his opinion on the subject..all that keeps getting said is "check my other reviews"..SO WHAT.. doesn't mean someone didn't have a screw up this time.. it happens.. move on..

ask for this thread to be closed or don't start it at all if you don't want, seek the drama and hope for the WK'S..(if any do exist)

rarely do this get accomplished unless the dispute is FACT BASED..and apparently the only real facts are.. his opinion was you didn't match the photos.. he is entitled to that opinion..or perhaps the pics weren't accurate IN HIS VIEW..he is entitled to that..

and still even after being encouraged to do so.. nothing has been mentioned about the 30/90 minute bull crap

either way...it won't effect nor impact the majority of providers NOR hobbyiest either the rebuttal or the actual review.. most already know all they need too

[Lily Blair]

Seriously, answer the real questions, or don't post anything at all. And if you don't remember this person, you should check in with him to see if he can remind you of anything that may jog your memory. You want credibility? We're asking you for it. Answer the questions or apologize and say what you did was wrong. I don't mean to seem like I'm always attacking you ms. Sassy. For a brief second i actually started to think you had turned over a new leaf. I just wish you'd learn to play by the rules. You haven't just made mistakes, you've actually broken cardinal rules. Your screening is lacking, you dont care about your own physical safety, by your own admission your sexual practices are not always safe, you seem to charge every guy a different price, you obviously have access to the ROS, you refuse to answer questions when disputing a review, I can only guess how messed up your arrest record is, and then you want a big pat on the back for losing weight and buying new lingerie. Good for you but that isn't enough to cut it.

I may come across as a real bitch sometimes, but I've never been arrested, I have no history of drug use, I've never cheated anyone, I help and give advice to anyone who asks for it, and I do everything I can to uphold a high standard for the best safety measures. I don't just say I get tested, I actually get tested. I don't put myself in danger, I don't put any clients in danger. I live in a neighborhood that nobody is nervous to visit. My house is clean and often smells like baked goods. A client said once that I was the only provider he would trust with his ATM pin.

I was new at one time. When I started I didn't screen, I didn't know what to charge, I advertised in the worst possible places, and I generally made mistakes. But I got better....and better, and better, and better. In a short amount of time I might add. But you've been in this business for how long? We'll just say much longer than I have. You're also much older than I am and are supposed to be wiser for it.

I don't pick on people out of randomness or jealousy. I call people out for being a danger to the community because as cheesy as it sounds, I really give a damn. Not screening, unsafe sex, stupid ideas, being delusional, providing while completely intoxicated, drug use, or being arrested from greed and stupidity--these things set me off, and in my opinion should set everyone off. Deanna thinks I worry too much about what I can't control. Maybe I do. But I do believe that like a drill sergeant, constant berating is often the only way to get through to some people. And I think that sometimes I do get through. I know a couple of girls who screen better because I'm such an asshole about it.

You don't want any more dredging up of the past? You don't want any more criticism? Just play by the rules. Care about yourself a little more as well as the rest of us. Accept that this is a community and that there really is a right way and a wrong way to provide. Learn. Listen. Stop arguing with every single little thing. You can argue and give advice after you've proven yourself. The best advice I ever got was from other providers who had their businesses together. I've made a point to meet all the top ladies in the business in order to draw from their experience. When you're following all the rules, that's actually when things get better and easier for a provider, not the other way around.

[guest071811-3]

ya.. i say don't worry about the shit you can't control cuz to me...to some you can talk till your blue in the face..it won't make a damn.. perhaps im old and crabby and generally a bitch.. who knows..

however..this thread has served no purpose as the real issues in the review weren't even argued.. thats ashame and kinda what arklookin was talkin about in his post..

oh well.. as i said.. the greatest thing that could be done was to have never had the thread started..it is.. so the second best thing would now for it to be ask to be locked by the op as nothing has been gained.. in fact i think she got right the opposite reaction she hoped for.. sorry sassy..many of us here have very very short memories and forgive many things.. however in regards to some.. we simply do not and offer no slack just cuz it says "verified provider" next to your name..

also..you shouldn't be here trying to fit in..there is no club with a secret pussy wiggle or anything.. there is no stamp or card to carry around.. its a damn whore board.. where guys come to chest thump and share info and girls come to advertise and in the middle of all that hopefully share some funny times, keep people safe and in general allow each other to escape the normal day to day grind.. however all to often recently its just crap most guys could deal with at home and most drama and crap some ladies, girls or whatever just can't seem to get out of

[MacTheKnife]

Originally Posted by mssassy

....Now this thread was my defending a bad review from a gentleman I do not remember seeing at all.
Perhaps we should all get back on topic Ugh...

That is one solution.

There is another solution.

Since you are the OP, you could ask the mods to close this thread and stop the drama and madness that has ensued.

Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv

This is a prime example of

#1 more bullshit

#2 why providers need to learn that if they are gonna say "look at my past reviews" and that is suppose to x out a negative one..and thats what post like this will be based on then there really is NO NEED for a reply and let the good reviews stand on their own..

nothing good as proven yet again EVER comes from trying to dispute what appears to be a honest review.. one that gave his opinion on the subject..all that keeps getting said is "check my other reviews"..SO WHAT.. doesn't mean someone didn't have a screw up this time.. it happens.. move on..

ask for this thread to be closed or don't start it at all if you don't want, seek the drama and hope for the WK'S..(if any do exist)

rarely do this get accomplished unless the dispute is FACT BASED..and apparently the only real facts are.. his opinion was you didn't match the photos.. he is entitled to that opinion..or perhaps the pics weren't accurate IN HIS VIEW..he is entitled to that..

and still even after being encouraged to do so.. nothing has been mentioned about the 30/90 minute bull crap

either way...it won't effect nor impact the majority of providers NOR hobbyiest either the rebuttal or the actual review.. most already know all they need too

The other reason to close this thread is so that Hell will not thaw out.

For some strange reason, I agree with DeAnna's post.

Hell MUST be frozen over.

[urhuckleberry]

Originally Posted by MacTheKnife

That is one solution.

There is another solution.

Since you are the OP, you could ask the mods to close this thread and stop the drama and madness that has ensued.

I for one would be amenable to that request.

Huck

[mssassy]

Huck close it then please.

[mssassy]

Deanna your right which why after talking late into the night with my inner circle I made a decision the mods as well as the rest of the community will be advised as soon I see fit.

Lily you pick on aka you have a negative comment about every provider that comes thru here. Not just me Every bit of drama that is on the boards has you involved in it somewhere somehow. Either you start it or you stir it up. Thats the truth and we all know it. Now do you do it intentionally ? Maybe maybe not however that is how it pans out.

Deanna I posted a rebuttal on a bad review which has been done by other providers in the past including Ali Cat. I wasnt sure what to defend on it since I have never had to before. DId I word it wrong probably so but the entire review was bs to be honest . This may be a whore board as you call it but we should all like ladies on here and we are all human beings. I dont bring up everyones past mistakes on here perhaps I should?

I received some advice from a wonderful provider last night who is truly a lady and who in all honesty is what we should all strive to be like. Positive supportive and forgiving and wise. Which describes maybe two providers on this board. Deanna sorry but you and lily are not either of those two but neither am I.

FYI that advice was to love what I do (which I do) become a better provider (which I am working on ) and not to post on here unless I absolutely had to. ALl which I intend to do.

Huck I will pm you my decision

[urhuckleberry]

Closing thread per OP request.

Huck