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elghund · 03-09-2011, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by China Doll

Hmm.

Go get 'em China!!!!

elg.....

Chellablaine · 03-09-2011, 01:41 PM

Biggest challenge...DUMBASSES!

Naomi4u · 03-09-2011, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by China Doll

Hmm.

Lmfao!

MaxiMilyen · 03-09-2011, 02:24 PM

I hope you're making phenomenal amounts for all the pain and suffering you must endure. If not, raise your rates and go see a psych professional. I'm usually not quite so insensitive to those with "issues", but anyone who describes having feelings as you do, needs a professional outlet and possibly medication.

Since you're not representing who you are already known as in this world, it's hard to give your statements any credence. I smell Troll! That may or may not be the case here, but they seem to be coming out of the woodwork these days and some of what you've stated is quite sensational and inflammatory, which is what trolls are known for. I'm with China....hmmm

Naomi4u · 03-09-2011, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by M A X

Now, Naomi....You can't fool us. We know ya hate feeling adored, sexy, and beautiful while getting paid to do so! Don't even try to make us think otherwise, cause I ain't fallin' for it!

LOL

Hahahahahaaha!

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Originally Posted by M A X

I hope you're making phenomenal amounts for all the pain and suffering you must endure. If not, raise your rates and go see a psych professional. I'm usually not quite so insensitive to those with "issues", but anyone who describes feelings as you do, needs a professional outlet and possibly medication.

I wholeheartedly agree with this.

incognito isis · 03-09-2011, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by M A X

I hope you're making phenomenal amounts for all the pain and suffering you must endure. If not, raise your rates and go see a psych professional. I'm usually not quite so insensitive to those with "issues", but anyone who describes having feelings as you do, needs a professional outlet and possibly medication.

Since you're not representing who you are already known as in this world, it's hard to give your statements any credence. I smell Troll! That may or may not be the case here, but they seem to be coming out of the woodwork these days and some of what you've stated is quite sensational and inflammatory, which is what trolls are known for. I'm with China....hmmm

Max, what you say is true. I do need someone to talk to. So thats why I've joined these boards to express myself. I understand, there are trolls everywhere. If you want to say I'm a troll simply because I decide to remain under cover, then so be it. I will apologize yet again, for thinking that all you ladies must feel the way I do. That is obviously not the case and I was wrong for thinking that. But isn't that what these boards are for? Communication, enlightenment, understanding and of course, entertainment? Thats why I've come here and joined. My intention is not to upset or hurt anyones feelings. I think our lives are hard enough as it is. I don't want to start trouble. But if somethings on my mind, I do want to hear your guy(s) opinions. I've been on these boards for months and just recently decided to open up an annonymous handle. Not because I want to start trouble, but there are some things I NEED to get off my chest but I wish to do it annonymously.

By me expressing how i feel just prior to the appointment, IT WAS WRONG FOR ME TO SAY ALL YOU LADIES FEEL THE SAME WAY. Thank you for coming forth and explaining your views. I understand now, that not everyone feels the way I do. However, I have a right to express myself, just like you do.
Also: when I first started doing this, it didn't bother me at all. The reaction I have now, is not how I've always felt. In the beginning, I felt like what I was doing was the most natural thing in the world. After all, sex is what makes the world go round. As time went on, I guess my views have changes. Nothing in particular happened, no violence, etc. I just started to hate what I do. But yes, I still do it. Why? Because for me, I can't let go of making easy money. Does that mean I'm unstable?? Well, maybe to you but I don't think so. Oh and by the way, I AM on medication for anxiety. Anxiety has always been an issue for me every since i was a kid. It just seems like, in the past year, the medication isn't helping. In the beginning there was ZERO anxiety to escorting. Now, I get panick attacks and nauseous even with meeting regulars. Who knows.

I am one who takes care of myself and takes breaks. I am going to the Bahamas for 2 weeks soon. This will be my 3rd vacation to the Bahamas in the past 12 months. So yes, I do suffer from burn outs. I also try to enjoy life and see how beautiful it can be also. To the clients: not all of you are fat, old, smelly. Yet, I still get anxiety.

Did you know that I've had clients give me flowers?!?! FLOWERS! If that doesn't tell you how sweet some of you hobbyists can be, then I don't know what does. So I would also like to apologize if I've offended any gentlemen here, because clearly your not all repulsive. Obviously, this is something in ME. If I have issues, or anxiety, then it's a war within myself. It was close minded of me to think you all feel the same way. You see this is a double life for me. NO ONE knows I do this. Not my friends, or family. Not having an outlet can destroy you. I do discuss things with a few clients who I'm pen pals with. But no ladies. So I think perhaps, having someone to talk to will ease my anxiety. I don't know

MaxiMilyen · 03-09-2011, 03:22 PM

You've explained yourself much better than in either of your first two posts. You should try meeting the requirements and then getting access to the Ladies Powder Room, as it's a much better outlet and you actually can get quite a bit of support from the ladies when things seem tough. If that is not within reach, then please seek assistance with someone you can talk to. It is very obvious that you need some kind of outlet. Also, if your meds for anxiety no longer work, then there may be others that might help. If none of this works for you, then ya don't really need any of us to tell you it's time to get out. No amount of money is worth losing your marbles over and subjecting yourself to the anguish you've described. Best of luck!

GotCondomz · 03-09-2011, 03:29 PM

Everyone has a choice in life to be or pursue any profession they see fit! When anyone in the "adult" industry says the "love" their job. I to laugh!!! Anyone that doesn't have "square job" working 9 to 5 and is just sitting in a incall 24/7 or waiting for someone to call to pay for companionship has serious issues about what they will do for money. What that comes down to, now some do it cause they say they enjoy sex, fair enough but the envelopes don't hurt either. Everyone has a self worth, everyone has a breaking point on what they will do for money period!!! These women have chosen this profession because it was their choice. They all found something that they could market and sell to the general public, their time for money, plain and simple. Although they might stress or loathe what they do and say its not easy well plenty of professions aren't easy. Most of ladies have had pimps, most have worked in agencies, some just watched "Pretty Women" as a child and said Mommie I wana be a Ho...lol They have learned from many mistakes and in this "game your going to make many. Regardless in any profession one chooses their is "RISK" v.s."REWARD" and in the end if you don't loose any sleep over it then KUDOS to YOU!!!!!

Paradise4me · 03-09-2011, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by GotCondomz

Everyone has a choice in life to be or pursue any profession they see fit! When anyone in the "adult" industry says the "love" their job. I to laugh!!! Anyone that doesn't have "square job" working 9 to 5 and is just sitting in a incall 24/7 or waiting for someone to call to pay for companionship has serious issues about what they will do for money. What that comes down to, now some do it cause they say they enjoy sex, fair enough but the envelopes don't hurt either. Everyone has a self worth, everyone has a breaking point on what they will do for money period!!! These women have chosen this profession because it was their choice. They all found something that they could market and sell to the general public, their time for money, plain and simple. Although they might stress or loathe what they do and say its not easy well plenty of professions aren't easy. Most of ladies have had pimps, most have worked in agencies, some just watched "Pretty Women" as a child and said Mommie I wana be a Ho...lol They have learned from many mistakes and in this "game your going to make many. Regardless in any profession one chooses their is "RISK" v.s."REWARD" and in the end if you don't loose any sleep over it then KUDOS to YOU!!!!!

Sounds like you also have a problem. How about having that therapy session together? So which one of the lovely ladies here broke your heart?

"Mama I wanna be a ho?" Clearly you have no respect for women........

GotCondomz · 03-09-2011, 04:26 PM

Hahahaha broke my heart are you serious!!! Nor my wallet...

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Originally Posted by Paradise4me

Sounds like you also have a problem. How about having that therapy session together? So which one of the lovely ladies here broke your heart?

"Mama I wanna be a ho?" Clearly you have no respect for women........

I have up most respect for women in and out of this industry..
whom ever reads this can't take a joke and takes offense, then so be it!!!!!

London Rayne · 03-09-2011, 04:37 PM

Don't feed the Trolls Paradise.

Naomi4u · 03-09-2011, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by GotCondomz

Everyone has a choice in life to be or pursue any profession they see fit! When anyone in the "adult" industry says the "love" their job. I to laugh!!! Anyone that doesn't have "square job" working 9 to 5 and is just sitting in a incall 24/7 or waiting for someone to call to pay for companionship has serious issues about what they will do for money. What that comes down to, now some do it cause they say they enjoy sex, fair enough but the envelopes don't hurt either. Everyone has a self worth, everyone has a breaking point on what they will do for money period!!! These women have chosen this profession because it was their choice. They all found something that they could market and sell to the general public, their time for money, plain and simple. Although they might stress or loathe what they do and say its not easy well plenty of professions aren't easy. Most of ladies have had pimps, most have worked in agencies, some just watched "Pretty Women" as a child and said Mommie I wana be a Ho...lol They have learned from many mistakes and in this "game your going to make many. Regardless in any profession one chooses their is "RISK" v.s."REWARD" and in the end if you don't loose any sleep over it then KUDOS to YOU!!!!!

There are so many things wrong with this post. You judge us by what we do and call us names but yet you don't know how to spell or use proper punctuation.

GotCondomz · 03-09-2011, 05:18 PM

Judge YOU!!!! Call You names!!! Are you serious!!!!! You really need tougher skin. If that offended you. Wow...lol Didnt know this was a English 101 and Punctuation 101 course as well. Thank You for pointing that out.

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Originally Posted by Naomi4u

There are so many things wrong with this post. You judge us by what we do and call us names but yet you don't know how to spell or use proper punctuation.

Naomi4u · 03-09-2011, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by GotCondomz

Judge YOU!!!! Call You names!!! Are you serious!!!!! You really need tougher skin. If that offended you. Wow...lol Didnt know this was a English 101 and Punctuation 101 course as well. Thank You for pointing that out.

This is not punctuation 101 nor is it English 101 BUT for one to understand what you are writing, it is best to use proper punctuation. I got over it. I have very thick skin. All you did was alert the board.

lil_michelle · 03-09-2011, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by GotCondomz

Everyone has a choice in life to be or pursue any profession they see fit! When anyone in the "adult" industry says the "love" their job. I to laugh!!! Anyone that doesn't have "square job" working 9 to 5 and is just sitting in a incall 24/7 or waiting for someone to call to pay for companionship has serious issues about what they will do for money. What that comes down to, now some do it cause they say they enjoy sex, fair enough but the envelopes don't hurt either. Everyone has a self worth, everyone has a breaking point on what they will do for money period!!! These women have chosen this profession because it was their choice. They all found something that they could market and sell to the general public, their time for money, plain and simple. Although they might stress or loathe what they do and say its not easy well plenty of professions aren't easy. Most of ladies have had pimps, most have worked in agencies, some just watched "Pretty Women" as a child and said Mommie I wana be a Ho...lol They have learned from many mistakes and in this "game your going to make many. Regardless in any profession one chooses their is "RISK" v.s."REWARD" and in the end if you don't loose any sleep over it then KUDOS to YOU!!!!!

WOW... seriously, please get some help. I am sure there is a reason for your hatred of women but there is medication and people to talk to. Please, I am dead serious... after reading more of your posts...please get help.