After trying sugaring, I have no interest in escorts

[Brownboi2394]

I have been seeing escorts for several years. I usually preferred seeing the upper middle tier and for several hours. I preferred being able to go out to eat, enjoy time together, rather than end up in the bedroom. If I was in the bedroom- 30 minutes was more than enough.

I didn't really know about sugaring until recently but now that I have, I realized- escorts are the most ungrateful people I have run into.

I was booking 24 hour dates with "reputable" escorts in the Austin area for $3500-$5000 a night and they would always leave early with some excuse. Of course no refunds.

I had a list of escorts I was comfortable with, but every time I try someone new in Houston it's someone who is heavier than their pictures, smelly, no make up, and has a bunch of ridiculous rules that make no sense for the premiums they are charging ($800 an hour even if I just want to go out to lunch!!!). Funny enough, they usually end up texting me a few days later- hey would you like to book an appointment? I am stupid and didn't realize for years it's probably because no one wants to pay their absurd rates. Yes- it is my fault for feeding into their delusions- I didnt know any better.

You ask 2-3 short questions on the phone to an escort and suddenly they want to charge $200 + for 2 minutes of their time.

Anyway I got into sugaring with the same budget I had for escorting and maintained the same respect for rules/boundaries. The women are actually attractive, they are incredibly thankful for the same $1-2K, and they don't watch the clock. I will never go see an escort again.

[Mplay]

Nice. I’ve developed escort relationships where it becomes similar to a sb. Glad you found a situation that makes you happy.

[takedacannoli]

Originally Posted by Brownboi2394

I have been seeing escorts for several years. I usually preferred seeing the upper middle tier and for several hours. I preferred being able to go out to eat, enjoy time together, rather than end up in the bedroom. If I was in the bedroom- 30 minutes was more than enough.

I didn't really know about sugaring until recently but now that I have, I realized- escorts are the most ungrateful people I have run into.

I was booking 24 hour dates with "reputable" escorts in the Austin area for $3500-$5000 a night and they would always leave early with some excuse. Of course no refunds.

I had a list of escorts I was comfortable with, but every time I try someone new in Houston it's someone who is heavier than their pictures, smelly, no make up, and has a bunch of ridiculous rules that make no sense for the premiums they are charging ($800 an hour even if I just want to go out to lunch!!!). Funny enough, they usually end up texting me a few days later- hey would you like to book an appointment? I am stupid and didn't realize for years it's probably because no one wants to pay their absurd rates. Yes- it is my fault for feeding into their delusions- I didnt know any better.

You ask 2-3 short questions on the phone to an escort and suddenly they want to charge $200 + for 2 minutes of their time.

Anyway I got into sugaring with the same budget I had for escorting and maintained the same respect for rules/boundaries. The women are actually attractive, they are incredibly thankful for the same $1-2K, and they don't watch the clock. I will never go see an escort again.

What city are you doing sugaring in now

[SomeRandomGuy88]

Sugar babies are definitely a lot of fun but they will find other ways to drain your wallet, you just have to remain vigilant. Have fun!

[TailHooked]

I was on Seeking for years. Back when you didn't have to go through all the hoops. It was great. I could spend hours or even a night for the cost of a hours worth of a escorts time. As all good things come to a end, one I messaged was wanting a lot for a dinner and a hug. No sex included. Told her I would rather go to the local strip club and enjoy my money. Next thing you know, prematurely banned without any chance to get a answer from them.

[Mr69Jones]

Sugar babies are like a courtesan. She likes spending time with you, but at the end of the day she needs her retainer fee. For me the arrangement is beneficial, I'm not looking all over the place for sex. At my age I don't want civil relationship, hard to find for my taste. These days I will only see an escort if she's looks or has a service that I want.

[grayturner]

Originally Posted by SomeRandomGuy88

Sugar babies are definitely a lot of fun but they will find other ways to drain your wallet, you just have to remain vigilant. Have fun!

You are correct about that. I had 2 or 3 for a very short time that seemed to have a new emergency every 3 days.