New to the hobby

[BigDeal]

I want to chime in but can't because if Katiforyou's avatar pic...I try and then I just start to stare and drool....

[Unique_Carpenter]

Well BD, if you see her in person, will you fall out of your shoes as well?

seahound, two of KC's pro gals have mentioned the key issues.
Have fun, and as a newbie, you will be screened heavily.

So, your current objective is to find a gal that we all trust, let them do their heavy newbie screening, and have a fun date.

So where can you find a pro gal you can trust?
Coincidentally, a couple have posted in this thread.

[HotKinkyCougar]

1) Get a disposable phone number, I suggest Google voice you can keep the app on your phone it doesn't look suspicious you can uninstall it and reinstall it your conversation stay there... You can text from it and make phone calls.. You pick a new phone number that's not affiliated with your life .
..never use your personal phone number!


2) If she seems too good to be true and has no references...then she is.

3) Always look for references.. ECCiE.. TER.. p411 .. OH2 stay safe

4) Only play with established providers.

5) Upon entering the room... set it on the desk, so it's out of your mind and it's out of hers. Don't have those conversations When you get to the room ..
.... You already know where to find that info

6) If it feels sketchy it probably is