FYI

[Diamond_xoxo]

According to Chat gbt: A random face photo by itself is useless to police or anyone else.

Without:
• Full legal name
• DOB
• Address
• ID number
• Phone tied to records

…it cannot be used for anything official.

Police cannot run someone off a selfie. That’s not how systems work.

[405Newguy]

Diamond, dont feed the trolls.

[Diamond_xoxo]

I'm really trying not to but even though everyone on here knows when something obviously makes no sense and isn't true, my client base is primarily first time newbies who are already nervous and paranoid about every little thing it's not okay for anyone to go around insinuating things about me that make me look sketchy just because i didn't text back after they sent me a face pic. Now all of a sudden everybody has an issue with sending a face pic and there's no chance in hell Im seeing anyone without one. The last time I saw someone who "wasn't comfortable sending face pics." Was in 2020 and it ended up costing me 5k in fines, court costs, and legal fees. It's just unbelievable to me that there are actually grown men being that petty and spiteful over nothing.

[Diamond_xoxo]

If someone says they have a terrible experience with me, doesn't like my attitude etc that's fine to each their own, but lying to make others think I'm not safe to see, thats not okay.

[Sooner Ray]

Diamond is a jewel, trustworthy and a great time. I can attest first hand. If you don’t trust her or her business model, move on and forget about it. Don’t lie and discredit someone who does a good job just to feed your own ego.

[Diamond_xoxo]

Originally Posted by Sooner Ray

Diamond is a jewel, trustworthy and a great time. I can attest first hand. If you don’t trust her or her business model, move on and forget about it. Don’t lie and discredit someone who does a good job just to feed your own ego.

You're so sweet, Thankyou 🩷

[405Newguy]

It looks like the post that got your attention said, "Diamond Doll is at it again there is a bunch of reviews she is collecting guys photos with no want in seeing them".
Hopefully you can take constructive criticism. From a guys pov. If they send you a pic and you block them for any reason without warning it looks bad. They may just look suspect and your not comfortable. They're still texting you. "Diamond are you there" "Diamond are you interested". From their pov it does look like your just collecting pics. Now they're thinking, "this must be LE collecting pics". Why else woukd you stop replying when they were willing to send a pic after you asked them to?

[Diamond_xoxo]

Okay you are taking one of several examples I gave of why someone would not get a response from me after sending a pic I don't block respectful people. For example if you send a face pic then ask "Bb ok?" Or any other, crude, explicit message, which my ad clearly says not to do, I'm immediately blocking you and deleting the whole conversation and your face pic. The vast majority of numbers I block is for that reason, a face pic is not a deposit, it's not valuable to me in any way I only ask for it when I'm ready to send my address I don't just ask for a face pic immediately when I'm contacted then block them because I don't like how they look... if someone is respectful and polite and then I realize they are AA I don't just block them with no response I tell them hey I'm sorry but I don't see AA clients, but typically when I'm contacted by AA they are not being classy or respectful and that would be why they get blocked without a response. I could go on and on but you have to realize I'm not being contacted by a few people a day I have multiple new numbers contacting me at the same time through out the entire day and i don't owe respect or a response to disrespectful people

[HarelDavid]

Diamond sweetie I seen the other persons post about you on my original posts. I am sorry that was done without a shred of proof mind you. I offered the person some sage advice such as 405newguy did. You keep doing you Diamond and all will be good sweetie. I guess I need to come see you since its only been about 6 yrs....lol

[405Newguy]

Originally Posted by Diamond_xoxo

Okay you are taking one of several examples I gave of why someone would not get a response from me after sending a pic I don't block respectful people. For example if you send a face pic then ask "Bb ok?" Or any other, crude, explicit message, which my ad clearly says not to do, I'm immediately blocking you and deleting the whole conversation and your face pic. The vast majority of numbers I block is for that reason, a face pic is not a deposit, it's not valuable to me in any way I only ask for it when I'm ready to send my address I don't just ask for a face pic immediately when I'm contacted then block them because I don't like how they look... if someone is respectful and polite and then I realize they are AA I don't just block them with no response I tell them hey I'm sorry but I don't see AA clients, but typically when I'm contacted by AA they are not being classy or respectful and that would be why they get blocked without a response. I could go on and on but you have to realize I'm not being contacted by a few people a day I have multiple new numbers contacting me at the same time through out the entire day and i don't owe respect or a response to disrespectful people

I dont pick any specific example I said, "If they send you a pic and you block them for any reason without warning it looks bad".
You can block anyone for any reason. You pointed out that they all aren't respectful gentleman. What about the ones that are and they have no idea why you blocked them.
To a certain extent you have to look at both sides and for some reason you dont want to.

[miketokc]

I expressed an observation or two and then thought better of it so I deleted it.

[Diamond_xoxo]

Originally Posted by 405Newguy

I dont pick any specific example I said, "If they send you a pic and you block them for any reason without warning it looks bad".
You can block anyone for any reason. You pointed out that they all aren't respectful gentleman. What about the ones that are and they have no idea why you blocked them.
To a certain extent you have to look at both sides and for some reason you dont want to.

I've literally said twice that I don't block respectful people

[BadAssSass]

Hi, newbie of Eccie here but not new to the hobby and I can relate with you in many ways Diamond! I want to also thank 405New and HarelD (I use the 1st part of a username only with utmost respect and kindness for shorter and its kinda been my thing on another interaction site) you guys made me consider maybe I was being a bit too harsh in my responses or strict in my block reactions. I too get multiple messages a day not following the requests of my requirements listed as such in my Tryst for newbies and also some disrespectful reach outs Then it clearly also says in my bio to not do or that it's required so I get it. I understand completely. May I ask why you want a picture instead of making sure they're not LE another way and just simply asking race and age because most of them don't mind saying race/age. I personally don't have a limit on race or age I take the newbies that are young as long as they're over 21 even though I prefer them older all the way up to my oldest I think is 82 because I love the interaction and men in general lol. you know ages can teach you things from both angles. However I also had the consequences of 5K in fees and fines from court consequences in 2020 because I was busted. someone who was LE but said he wasnt (because they can do that) but all I was doing was asking "are you affiliated with any kind of LE?" before I would invite them into my home. But as soon as I opened my door he said hi my real name not working one) and told me that I was busted as he was taking his badge out from his pocket.I am extremely careful now I mean extremely and selective in a way of respect but maybe maybe we are being a little strict in certain matters? I would love to talk more on this if you're interested feel free to reach out and PM me and I will try to figure out how to work this site to make sure my settings allow because Im only an hour into this but I do have something that may help. It just may help you too and I once in a great while if they are respectful especially bend the rules of what I require in one way or another. The fact of the matter is even if they go through screening sometimes you still don't know the things you are looking for. Before discussing any kind of details I have a pretty much failproof way to put both minds at ease and have fun in the process ya jusy have to get a little creative is flawless in that matter not sure of your state laws but I'm very familiar with mine and my city and my county and my state Start there Know what you can say and not say do and not do what Le can do and not do in a sting or a bust and that's the important part.So if you can do and follow that and get creative good vibes will flow irl.Just think how you might be turning away or blocking some really amazing guys that turn out to be a regular, a friend, or even just a great connection/interaction. I want to thank you for expressing this in a public thread, and guys again thank you for the other perspective you gave. Oh and also thanks Sooner for the kind words you had for her because I bet it made her smile and it looks like smiles look great on her so she should be sharing them with the world. Have a great day all!