Clients’ opinion on an office versus apartment for incall?

[DallasBella]

Leaving hotels out of this discussion entirely, does anyone have a preference on an office versus an apartment? Personally, I enjoy having an apartment for the full shower available. I have instant hot water and soap available in my current office set up, but some guys might be laborers and would really appreciate a full rinse during the summertime.

I am at Crosspoint, trying to decide on keeping my Addison apartment that I’ve had for many years, or leaving there and going to a smaller more affordable office in the area. If any of you guys are coming to see me regularly, what do you think?
(I have a house now, yay! But I’m not taking clients there for my privacy. Going down to only one apartment instead of two cut my business in half: which is why I now have an office back in Tarrant county. But rent for all three is over 4000 a month …I just can’t do that alone anymore with all of my other bills and business being slow due to inflation. Trying to downsize.)

[Financeman22]

I prefer hotel, or apartment, in an office building u never know who u might
Bump into.

[DallasBella]

Originally Posted by Financeman22

I prefer hotel, or apartment, in an office building u never know who u might
Bump into.

If I were a married man, I would be far more concerned about someone recognizing me in a hotel versus an office building lol. Thank you for your input!

[Aalanson99]

I prefer offices since there is always plausible deniability.

[ahab11]

Definitely Apartment, of course your office environment might be different IDK but my experience you are fucking on a table or inflatable mattress if you got to an office location.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Offices can be set up nicely.
However, bathroom and shower concepts kills the idea.
Really have got to have those.

[ProFun]

Apartment simply for safety and attracting attention. Have you considered splitting an apartment with another well known provider ?

[Sir Lancehernot]

One of the advantages of not having many friends is that you can go just about anywhere without running into someone you know. I've never worried about being recognized or seen, even on date nights with the ex-SB in downtown. (What I have worried about is having my car break down in a place I have no good explanation for being in -- like when I popped two tires on a curb visiting the ex-SB in Burleson. Thank goodness for AAA and a nearby tire shop!)


But I do understand that others may have legitimate concerns, and it's easier to justify being seen coming out of an office building or parking lot than an apartment complex or hotel. So, on balance, I think an office wins the maintains-anonymity-better argument.


As far as what's inside, the type of session has some bearing on what I might prefer. If WE are having fun, there's more flexibility in a bed than on a table, and that tends to suggest an apartment or hotel. If I'm there primarily to be taken care of, a table in an office is fine.


I may be leaning in the office/table direction anyway. The last few times I had sex, 25+ months ago, I noticed it was getting harder to achieve liftoff. In missionary, it was becoming WORK; on my back or sitting, with her in control, it just wasn't happening. I can't imagine things would be any better now. And I've noticed lately in my discussions with Hand Solo that I feel more fulfilled when I'm flat on my back, as opposed to, say, in the sitting position.


Obviously, if the lady wants me to shower and doesn't have a table suitable for that, she's probably not going to have one in an office. But if you start the day clean, generally, a little hot water, some soap and a washrag, along with some baby wipes for touch-ups, can address anything that's accumulated during the day.


Each has its pros and cons. As long as the location isn't in a rough part of town, I'm easy.

[ISpeakTruth]

I prefer an apartment because of the reasons mentioned above but I'll add that personally I feel I can be more myself especially vocally if you know what I mean. Within reason of course. Office settings often hinder that freedom.

[Joddxxx]

It depends on the provider’s life style and economic situation. I’ve seen all three; office, hotels, and offices. Some providers have a terrible FICO score and they live out of a hotel and move around, unable to get an apartment. Other providers have an office, (very cheap and private), which they separate their private life from business. And other providers have their own apartment mix their lifestyle with this business. Therfore, it depends on your goals and needs. inflation is still a problem, so I would ditch the apartments and get an office. You can have a two room office one for couch and cocktails , and the second room the cozy bedroom. It’s a lot cheaper, but one thing is you will not have a shower.

[DallasBella]

Thank you, everyone lots of good information and valid arguments

I am not tech savvy enough to reply to everyone specifically using my phone, but I’ll paste some of my responses here:

My new office would ideally be set up similarly to my current office that I have in Tarrant county, like a one bedroom dorm: so there is an entry room with a hallway and a door that closes leading to the back room. Nice and private, no issues with noise or being heard.
A mini fridge for refreshments :-)
Lots of lamps, feels comfortable
I use a futon that looks like a couch and can be folded down to a bed. I have tried to do the sitting up position using it like a couch, but as someone mentioned not everyone’s blood flows well that way, and it didn’t always work out lol. Learning curves!

I keep a hot water dispenser so I can have scolding hot water in an instant to use with soap and wash cloths. It’s not a full shower, but it’s good for cleanups and for me to be able to wash my hands at a moments notice. I am very clean.


Of course I have considered sharing with another reputable provider. The problem is there aren’t many reputable ladies in the area looking to share. Women that don’t screen, on drugs, don’t take care of themselves, etc. They can also be personality conflicts and I have to admit it’s not always one-sided. I can contribute. If I feel someone is disrespecting me or my space It’s hard to contain my attitude.
But my most recent issue with sharing is women don’t want to split the bills with me 50-50. They want to use me and pay “per appointment. “Which means that they still have access to half of everything while paying a fraction of the bills(this is not aimed at one person in particular if you may be reading this.). I realize that it is considered socially distasteful, to discuss money. I just don’t see a reason in being dishonest or hiding the truth.

[DallasBella]

Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

One of the advantages of not having many friends is that you can go just about anywhere without running into someone you know. I've never worried about being recognized or seen, even on date nights with the ex-SB in downtown. (What I have worried about is having my car break down in a place I have no good explanation for being in -- like when I popped two tires on a curb visiting the ex-SB in Burleson. Thank goodness for AAA and a nearby tire shop!)

Well “someone” refused to come see me at my new office because they said it would be too close to home. Even when I offered a free session.

[TBONE]

Originally Posted by DallasBella

Well “someone” refused to come see me at my new office because they said it would be too close to home. Even when I offered a free session.

It's close to my home too

T

[TalliaThomas]

What I would do is get a feel for how many of your Addison clientele go for a full shower-- if its the majority, then it would probably be problematic to move away from that. I know you focus on FBSM, so there may be more of a split than with a traditional FS provider.

[TalliaThomas]

Originally Posted by DallasBella

But my most recent issue with sharing is women don’t want to split the bills with me 50-50. They want to use me and pay “per appointment. “Which means that they still have access to half of everything while paying a fraction of the bills(this is not aimed at one person in particular if you may be reading this.). I realize that it is considered socially distasteful, to discuss money. I just don’t see a reason in being dishonest or hiding the truth.

Ok-- I'm someone who has managed to successfully share more than one incall over the years with more than one provider. It works very well to split the bills--- IF-- there are either multiple rooms OR you are on opposite schedules.


Example one-- the infamous Naughtyville. There were 3-4 of us sharing that location at any given time-- BUT-- it was a 3br and the known culture was that there was a good chance that more than one of us would be entertaining at the same time. We'd coordinate entrance and exit times to avoid "crossing the stream"... We each paid the owner a set fee for rent per week.


Example two-- my old Preston incall. I shared that with a lovely lady. She was primarily a nighttime provider and I was primarily a daytime provider. It was a 1br... but worked well because we never needed the space at the same time. We split the cost down the middle.


Having said all of that.... if you are the sort who prefers to have access to your space when you specifically need it-- its almost better to have ladies pay "by session"... that way, if you have a person who wants to see you at a specific time-- its much easier to say "nope-- I have an appointment then" than if they were paying half of everything.