Etiquette with providers.
I can't speak for all men who are in the hobby, but I try to be as kind and loving during a session as possible. I've had a lot of these women confide in me stories of just how bad some clients can be. Either just being very cold, not talkative, downright violent and or abusive, and then there's the horror stories about dudes that go in there smelling like a port a pottie, even with skid marks on there underwear. It blows my mind that some guys don't realize that a. This can pretty much put the cabosh on your meetup, probably get you blacklisted and it's just a bad look. I always go out of my way to take the time to properly groom , shower extensively, brush and rinse with mouthwash, put on nice cologne, a good layer of fresh deodorant, and then of course dress well. I just don't get how dense someone has to be to think they could show up looking and smelling like a bum and expecting to get any. But on a more important note, while I know these are working girls and I have no interest in anything other than just our sessions, I do end up caring quite a bit for a lot of them. Most are very sweet, and Ive never been into rough intercourse, so I like making them feel almost like they're being shown love as corny as it sounds. I prefer it to be sensual and delicate as well as loving, as I feel you get more of a connection. Now I'm sure some of these girls forcefully try to come off as sweet. But I've already had quite a few encounters and can tell the difference from when the reaction is forced and when the person genuinely is sweet and is enjoying my kindness and gentle nature. At the end of the day, were all humans, and we enjoy the company of good people. I just feel bad that there are clients who treat these women like throwaway sex objects....I mean I get what they offer, but they're still human beings and it just makes me feel like trash to not give someone proper respect and affection especially when it comes to an intimate moment. Like I said, these women have just come off so sweet, id feel like dog shit if I was to mistreat them. Thankfully, this way of thinking is the reason why I never get denied for a return visit and always seem to be a client they'll be more likely to prioritize. In many ways these women have been like therapists for me. They've helped me manage some personal issues I had, and they've also provided great joy. I couldn't imagine treating them any other way than like the most important person to me when I spend my time with them.
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