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Old 04-07-2025, 06:42 PM   #1
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OMG, you can’t do bareback you will catch something and pass it on to the community.
In addition to actually Verbalize it is a huge stigma and looked upon as taboo.

That seems to be the logic in our hobby. However, after doing research, I know everyone knows you can catch STD’S from DATY, BBBJ’S, AND CIM SO please help me out what is the difference since so MANY providers offer the ladder and most men participate in them. Please weigh in as I am looking to education and information.
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Old 04-07-2025, 06:52 PM   #2
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Before 1988, every house in NV is BB.
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Old 04-07-2025, 08:32 PM   #3
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Right. HIV/AIDS changed everything. Instead of being treatable or an annoyance STDs could be deadly. Though it is considered theoretically possible there is no confirmed case of someone getting HIV from oral under normal circumstances.

PreP now makes you immune to HIV. Hiv itself is very treatable. Things are starting to loosen up again.

Like with vaccines, HIV mutates though. Stopping support to control HIV in Africa is certain to result in the virus running rampant, resulting in new strains that PreP/cocktail is not as effective against. You don't treat pandemics by the individual. It's herd immunity you need. Hope you all enjoy suiting up or risking your life again. MAGA!
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Old 04-07-2025, 09:35 PM   #4
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I literally had a provider tell me last week she can see ROS dont ask me how and IDC and she stated she looks to see who is BB providers and in doing so listed names of people she wouldnt see..
Its your business, your reputation.
But I do ask ya if you catch HIV how are you going to explain that to family?
How would any of us explain it?
Some will will claim this is fear mongering, its not, its a fact of what we risk in this subculture.

I feel the moderators closing in on this thread.
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Old 04-08-2025, 05:40 AM   #5
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Not just this subculture, also an issue in the civie pick-up dating subculture.
ECG mentions that her friends have run into this concept as they retire from p4p to rw dating, and she tells them they're lucky they have a built in habit to always carry spare tires.
Basically, and simply, it's a health risk regardless of which world folks go bcd in.
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Old 04-14-2025, 08:03 PM   #6
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Successful STD-trouble-free mongering and the avoidance of various other contagions ... is all about discernment and selectivity in whom you procure as an ATF!
To me: DATY is rather tame stuff!
I'm a shameless DATO Aficionado!
I've rendezvoused with My ATF (a prime, mint-condition, impeccably-groomed, DDG K-Girl) 78x!
Never caught nothin'!
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OMG, you can’t do bareback you will catch something and pass it on to the community.
In addition to actually Verbalize it is a huge stigma and looked upon as taboo.

That seems to be the logic in our hobby. However, after doing research, I know everyone knows you can catch STD’S from DATY, BBBJ’S, AND CIM SO please help me out what is the difference since so MANY providers offer the ladder and most men participate in them. Please weigh in as I am looking to education and information.
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Bare back is anything without protection. I’m sure while doing your “research’, by the 1 minute mark in your search you would know the difference. Thread closed.
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Old 04-17-2025, 12:32 PM   #8
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Ok Thug has appointed himself a moderator with the “thread closed” comment
So to carry on the conversation…
I’ve been fortunate through all the sugar babies I’ve plowed thru.
I was more worried about pregnancy.
Some of my buddies that sugar haven’t been.
There are times I walked away from a sugar baby and said to myself
“Why did I do that” with that girl and did sweat it a little.
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If you can't handle the risk they simply don't play in the hobby scene
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Old 04-26-2025, 11:39 AM   #10
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OMG, you can’t do bareback you will catch something and pass it on to the community.
In addition to actually Verbalize it is a huge stigma and looked upon as taboo.

That seems to be the logic in our hobby. However, after doing research, I know everyone knows you can catch STD’S from DATY, BBBJ’S, AND CIM SO please help me out what is the difference since so MANY providers offer the ladder and most men participate in them. Please weigh in as I am looking to education and information.
Thanks
This is why I don’t like to do DATY and certainly it’s an absolute NO to CIM I’ve never ever done that and cannot see how it’s worth it. If a CBJ is acceptable Im all in on that. I’m very in tune with my body and if any provider says it’s not on there mind or exhibits any sort of behavior she doesn’t care then beware. It’s definitely something I never wanna deal with. I do my due diligence to protect myself. If I’m ever asked to do anything against my boundaries they’ve gotta listen to me on the “why” I won’t and why he shouldn’t be doing what he’s asking…
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Old 04-26-2025, 11:40 AM   #11
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OMG, you can’t do bareback you will catch something and pass it on to the community.
In addition to actually Verbalize it is a huge stigma and looked upon as taboo.

That seems to be the logic in our hobby. However, after doing research, I know everyone knows you can catch STD’S from DATY, BBBJ’S, AND CIM SO please help me out what is the difference since so MANY providers offer the ladder and most men participate in them. Please weigh in as I am looking to education and information.
Thanks
This is why I don’t like to do DATY and certainly it’s an absolute NO to CIM I’ve never ever done that and cannot see how it’s worth it. If a CBJ is acceptable Im all in on that. I’m very in tune with my body and if any provider says it’s not on there mind or exhibits any sort of behavior she doesn’t care then beware. It’s definitely something I never wanna deal with. I do my due diligence to protect myself. If I’m ever asked to do anything against my boundaries they’ve gotta listen to me on the “why” I won’t and why he shouldn’t be doing what he’s asking…
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This is why I don’t like to do DATY and certainly it’s an absolute NO to CIM I’ve never ever done that and cannot see how it’s worth it. If a CBJ is acceptable Im all in on that. I’m very in tune with my body and if any provider says it’s not on there mind or exhibits any sort of behavior she doesn’t care then beware. It’s definitely something I never wanna deal with. I do my due diligence to protect myself. If I’m ever asked to do anything against my boundaries they’ve gotta listen to me on the “why” I won’t and why he shouldn’t be doing what he’s asking…
No DATY… Then I guess frenching the starfish is off the table?
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This is why I don’t like to do DATY and certainly it’s an absolute NO to CIM I’ve never ever done that and cannot see how it’s worth it. If a CBJ is acceptable Im all in on that. I’m very in tune with my body and if any provider says it’s not on there mind or exhibits any sort of behavior she doesn’t care then beware. It’s definitely something I never wanna deal with. I do my due diligence to protect myself. If I’m ever asked to do anything against my boundaries they’ve gotta listen to me on the “why” I won’t and why he shouldn’t be doing what he’s asking…
No DATY… Then I guess frenching the starfish is off the table?
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