Please Note: Eccie is NOT a dating site.

[cinderbella]

Apparently, there are some out there who
think Eccie is a dating site. That texting
us "Hey Beautiful" is somehow going to make
us immediately yearn to find out all about
the one lone male who is interested enough
to text. I blocked you, here is the reason:

Thanks to our illustrious and ever helpful
'Small Government', we cannot advertise on
Eccie. We have to be creative with our social
media presence. All of the hosting platforms
where we can advertise, are hosted overseas.
(talk about taking jobs away from U.S.).

These advertising hosting platforms are overwhelmed
with other ladies, all over the world, applying
to advertise. They instruct us how to provide
information, in order to prove that it is a real
person, advertising themselves, and it takes a
while to go thru several thousand of these advertising
applications a day. So, while waiting for my own
advertising request to be approved, I have to get
creative with my posting, where I cannot advertise.

Again, Eccie is not an dating site. Being complimented
does not pay my bills. I am well aware that many
American citizens like myself, are not independently
wealthy. We all want satisfaction. We are all
concerned about laws, stings, false advertising, etc.

Rant over. Moral of the story, if you cannot clarify
what you want, or what you are willing to ask for,
in three texts that actually get to the point, you
will probably get yourself blocked by a very frustrated
Eccie poster who knows a thing or two about all this.

Happy fucking new year. I am NOT looking forward to
this January, which is promising so far to look like
an entire fucking month of Mondays from hell.

P.S. Yes, I KNOW that I have been impossible to
reach in the past, in 2024, for appointments. I
was not available, I was not advertising. I am
now. My hobby phone is back on, I am taking calls.
My rant was NOT directed at people I have met, it
was directed at new, younger people who probably
are not seasoned Eccie posters, and just new lurkers.

[winn dixie]

Somehow, I feel better to

[cinderbella]

[QUOTE=winn dixie;1063679748]

Hey winn dixie...I think it may be something that younger guys do.
I think older guys like you know what's up.

As an older person myself, I will say that these younger guys
tend to be very considerate and extremely polite texters. That's
why I assumed they thought it was a dating site. I won't block
anyone who is polite to me, until they just refuse to get to the
point about whether of not they are actually planning on visiting
as in an actual appointment.

Personally, I never reach out to any client. If they want to
see me, they can contact me. Otherwise, I see it as an invasion
of their privacy. Just like my private dating life is that, private.

[winn dixie]

This ain't no dating site. I agree a hunert percent. I've dated whookers.
Used to get pm's and texts of whookers wanting to go out or straight up booty calls off clock. I stopped that long ago. Yet, ever once Ina while I still get these kinda messages. I ignore them.

[cinderbella]

Edit:

Now I regret making the post. Guy did not
deserve it, he was a very nice person. I am not
a fan of texting people that I do not know. It
is way easier for me to talk to someone briefly
on a phone call, but nobody likes to do that
anymore.

Perhaps this is a problem, I'm sure from a
male perspective, they are hoping to get a reply,
so they are super polite. A super polite, younger
person would probably be uncomfortable to use words
like appointment, I don't know. I'm kind of annoying,
I try to be polite while to the point. It's always
a guessing game, trying to field calls, nowadays with
all the crazy times we are living in.

[winn dixie]

[mrredcat43]

It’s the guy’s fault for not doing his homework

[Just a normal guy]

What do you mean it's not a dating site.... I met my wife on here..

[LadyAnastasia]

...but I like to date by the hour

[Just a normal guy]

Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

...but I like to date by the hour

Lady Anastasia,
I would love to date you by the hour!!!