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Originally Posted by MorganOBM
Lol that’s certainly fair signa.I know you guys don’t have it easy either. I’m not saying to write a love letter, just more than avail or location. I also can’t speak for every lady but texts with intent help a lot. Something like hi, saw your ad on tryst I’d love to see you. Thursday at noon would be perfect but I’m flexible, please only text M-F 9a-3p I look forward to hearing from you..... that really sets you apart from the other jagoffs if you are serious. It’s a big help to me to know when it is safe to text back, otherwise if I’m busy when you text for safety’s sake I won’t after a few hours.
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My initial texts are very similar to that. I'll say something like "Hi, I saw your ad on XYZ site. Looking for appointment tomorrow around 6:00pm. Can be flexible depending upon how far away. Please let me know if you're avail. and in what part of city you'll be in. Text any time."
If there's even a response, 9 times out of 10, it's "Hey baby" or "When?". Just like they never read my text. If I reply, most of the time, I never get another response to any further communication.
I always felt like communication should be the easy part of coordinating a meeting, but very basic communication always seems to be the most difficult part. It's clearly that way on both sides of the equation!
