Is OP still safe?

[cmdrvimes76]

Hey all,

Very new to the hobby, had a few encounters over the years but trying to be more regular at it. I've seen 2 or 3 headlines the last 6 months about busts in Overland Park. Is this a worry? They seem to be from reputable news sites but undated which makes me wonder. A lot of action in OP seems to be the same hotel as well. I'm probably being overly cautious since I'm new but lately I don't even look at ads that say OP.

[DallasRain]

Also safety is in who you're seeing!
If it's a reputable and well reviewed gal who knows how to conduct business and be discrete then it will be ok

[cmdrvimes76]

That's the rub isn't it. Being new(ish) into this and figuring out where to even look can be harder than any other part of it

[Unique_Carpenter]

There's no rub, it's simply being careful.
Research folks you're thinking of asking for a date, stay with reputable gals, and be aware of your surroundings.

[jp1947]

Getting verified by the chosen provider can be a problem.

[royamcr]

Originally Posted by jp1947

Getting verified by the chosen provider can be a problem.

Ya I had one girl the other day ask the common age/race question. Then it was height, weight, haircolor, eye color. I was like do you want my fucking SS# also???.....

[Cherokeechief]

Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

There's no rub, it's simply being careful.
Research folks you're thinking of asking for a date, stay with reputable gals, and be aware of your surroundings.

UC is absolutely right. No trick to it. Research a bunch and think with the big head.

[Boredinop]

Originally Posted by royamcr

Ya I had one girl the other day ask the common age/race question. Then it was height, weight, haircolor, eye color. I was like do you want my fucking SS# also???.....

I think I contacted the same one. She asked the exact same questions and also where do I live and what kind of car do I drive.

[cmdrvimes76]

I had someone ask for my linkedin Profile the other day.

[yourdesire]

Linkedin isn't so uncommon really. I'll go to Op but am low volume & discreet

[DallasRain]

Yep ditto w sexy miss Yd

[Unique_Carpenter]

The chair scene from the Dustin Hoffman movie Marathon Man comes to mind: Is it safe?

[dumars]

OP and JoCo in general have been LE friendly for years!

Basic rule of thumb, if she got no kind of reputation, STAY AWAY!!!!

It is written, therefore it is so!

[BigDeal]

I run my appts right from OP and the girls that beg to see me schedule with me cause they know Im verified and a good time!!

Lol

[KCGator]

They have the right to ask for anything they want...getting it is a different story. Anything IRL is a no go for me in a hobby predicated on anonymity. But to each his/her own.

And to the OP, as others have stated...the area is like most any other. Keep your head on a swivel and you’ll be fine.

KCGator