A Response to Ms Dallas from a Seperate String

[dumars]

I am making this response to Ms Dallas because I feel it is important enough, for a separate string, to see the reality I present that may not be realized by her or others.

I have been in and associated with this "hobby" for a number of years. I have known, liked and loved many women in this hobby with only a few regrettable moments. At the same time I have learned and with that learning process attitudes and opinions have formed.

It is no secret many young(er) women are impressed with the "bad boys" of relationships. It has been my experience that MOST women who embarrass themselves with dishonest, crooked, unethical actions toward those who pay their bills, put food on their table, do so at the suggestion, encouragement, persuasion of their "bad boy" fuck buddies! Of the 10 or so I can think of only 1 did what she did/does on her own initiative.

Sadly, MANY of those end up paying for their fuck buddy associations with prison! Many reading this can recite many past "sweethearts", on their own, who have paid that price! Of the 4 or so I have known personally, 3 became guests of a state, 1 of "Unca Sugar" (fed). All have been released. Some are still living in the KC Metro. One, I believe, moved to Hiawatha! So far as I know, none are associated with the hobby!

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I am so ashamed of some of my so-called "sisters"....... my momma
And daddy taught me true southern hospitality!! And also how to take care of business...that is why,at 56,I am living a good comfy successful life!!

[DallasRain]

Well said baby!

[yourdesire]

Exactly! Daddy says work smart not hard, do it right or not at all, earn what you have don't just take or expect. If it's not yours keep your hands off of it, be respectful & in return you can expect & insist on being respected. Anything less is not worth your time so why entertain it.