African American clients

[Cumflywithme42]

BLM is speaking facts!!

[darkwader]

Originally Posted by VeryClean

Especially pathetic because not only are you crying to see a woman who doesn't want to see you, you're also begging her to take hundreds of dollars of your money too.

Imagine giving your hard earned money to someone who doesn't even like your ethnicity...lol what a chump!

and then you have handles saying they're AA and wont pay AA ladies more than 250 at the top end but are ready to fork over much more for the 'snow bunnies'. pathetic to the nth degree

[darkwader]

Originally Posted by BLM69

It has to be a bummer that you can't even pay to get some, why give them the time? Or worst your $, spend it where you're welcomed with open arms.

exactly. the lack of self respect is astounding to me but I dont have racial baggage to deal with either.

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by darkwader

exactly. the lack of self respect is astounding to me but I dont have racial baggage to deal with either.

first off, thanks for not saying "but then again I don't have..." I get weary of reading sentences that insert the "again", when the idea was not stated previously, thus an improper use of "again".

yeah, guys like Creed don't see they are disrespecting themselves. they think they beat the White Man at his game. a dignified person doesn't sign up to play.

[govtbi]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

"a dignified person doesn't sign up to play."

Well-stated.

[Kendall4U]

I did not read all the comments here because, well I didn't want to. This is a topic that has been beaten to death. Here is my view on it...not that anyone cares, but I am bored this morning.



I do not understand nor agree with NBA as a blanket statement to justify not seeing an entire race based on "bad behavior". That is insane. I have zero issue with the color of anyones skin. I do however have issue with how someone treats me. Respect is a big factor of my accepting dates in the hobby.


We all have "types" we are physically attracted to both here and in the RW. Some ladies may just NOT be attracted to black men. That does NOT make her racist. We are women and can decide who we will or will not see. Just because we get to P4P is a mute point. Our body, our rules. I am an older(48), HWP, curvy woman. No secret there. How fast would I be dogpiled if I jumped on EVERY ISO that was only looking for a 18-22 yr old white spinner....or a curvy MILF under the age of 40....or a black chocolate big booty queen to offer my sevices? You guys specify EXACTLY what you like and often degrade ladies that do not fall into your spectrum of "desirable". If a lady states no NBA, Indian, Asian, white, Mexican...move the hell on. I feel it does make you look bitter and pathetic to constantly keep kicking the dead horse. There are more ladies than not that will see you. Why would you want to see someone who is not interested? Obviously it is not about the money. It is her preference. She does not have to explain it to anyone and it is not up to anyone to try to figure out.



Just my opinion though.

~KK

[lda523287]

Originally Posted by Kendall4U

I did not read all the comments here because, well I didn't want to. This is a topic that has been beaten to death. Here is my view on it...not that anyone cares, but I am bored this morning.



I do not understand nor agree with NBA as a blanket statement to justify not seeing an entire race based on "bad behavior". That is insane. I have zero issue with the color of anyones skin. I do however have issue with how someone treats me. Respect is a big factor of my accepting dates in the hobby.


We all have "types" we are physically attracted to both here and in the RW. Some ladies may just NOT be attracted to black men. That does NOT make her racist. We are women and can decide who we will or will not see. Just because we get to P4P is a mute point. Our body, our rules. I am an older(48), HWP, curvy woman. No secret there. How fast would I be dogpiled if I jumped on EVERY ISO that was only looking for a 18-22 yr old white spinner....or a curvy MILF under the age of 40....or a black chocolate big booty queen to offer my sevices? You guys specify EXACTLY what you like and often degrade ladies that do not fall into your spectrum of "desirable". If a lady states no NBA, Indian, Asian, white, Mexican...move the hell on. I feel it does make you look bitter and pathetic to constantly keep kicking the dead horse. There are more ladies than not that will see you. Why would you want to see someone who is not interested? Obviously it is not about the money. It is her preference. She does not have to explain it to anyone and it is not up to anyone to try to figure out.



Just my opinion though.

~KK

I agree. As I have said before, I don't want to see anyone who doesn't want to see me, regardless of their race.

[Johnnylewisusa]

Originally Posted by Kendall4U

I do not understand nor agree with NBA as a blanket statement to justify not seeing an entire race based on "bad behavior". That is insane. I have zero issue with the color of anyones skin. I do however have issue with how someone treats me. Respect is a big factor of my accepting dates in the hobby.

~KK

This is a very thoughtful post. Kendall. Analese and Chung had some thoughtful remarks as well. I agree with your comment about blanket discrimination based on attributing bad behavior to a whole race. It's bad screening. If you do p411, refs, and tinker with price point, you can avoid most bad actors of any race.

I also agree that ladies shouldnt have to see guys they are not attracted to, including black guys. Some ladies have weight and obesity bans. Those are valid too.

I am a little annoyed by the white knight guys who often jump on these threads pretending to advocate for ladies choices, but don't slam guys who push bbfs on newbie girls and complain about GPS and --oh my--paying girls more than $200. Black guys aren't the only ones who complain. Everybody does. Otherwise delete all the GPS threads, pay these lovely ladies what they are worth, stop shaming them for asking for more, and let's pile on guys who try to force girls into bbfs. Screaming GPS because you're broke is as bit more pathetic in my mind than complaining about signs that say "no blacks allowed."

[Sensational Stacey]

To the OP: and the rest of you avid readers out there:
I just gotta say I've always wondered the same thing! And I liked that GK added the part about white men being just as much of a pain as any other race, if not more.....
Like you said, their money is always green! I couldn't care less what you look like on the outside, it's the inside that matters to me, that's the part i have to deal with. The part I take home with me and sleep on at night, ((WHETHER BAD OR GOOD))I can tell a problem client from the first few minutes of our session and based on his tipping abilities I decide if I'll ever see them again... I had a white man tell me I couldn't see any other races if I was going to continue seeing him, he was a good tipper so I just decided I wouldn't tell him if I did, but then again I never kiss and tell anyways so what's the difference lol. I have not once experienced any problems out of any of the black men that have contacted me, nor have they been threatening or abusive... I have however been ripped off and disrespected by a few white men. Not pointing fingers, dont get me wrong I love white men just as much as the rest of them. I have several regulars of all colors shapes and sizes. I just think theres alot of false info going around about minorities and at this time in our country we need to cut the bull crap and learn to look past our differences and find our similarities,((all men are all pretty much the same anyway right?lol JK))we all need love, we all get mistreated, we all deserve more, not one person on here is innocent, we all could've been better people, now is our big chance to BE different and better people from here on out .
Smile at the guy (OR GAL), be kind, whether they're overweight, overpaid, overly confident, outspoken, ugly, skinny, green, purple, or pink with polka dots... (those do exist btw)
Dont judge a book by its cover, you could be missing out on some really good content !!
Peace and love my wonderful friends!!!
Ms.Stacey😘

[Sophiadoesitbabyy]

I personally have never had an issue from AA customers except at the strip club but that's a different story.
It doesn't matter the race to me as long as your not rough and respect my wishes with hygiene and donation you are more than welcome in my place �� you might even leave with cookies ��

[Randall Creed]

Thank you ladies for speaking out in this thread. I was personally done with it, but your affirmation is so....reassuring.

I must say, both of you are...quite appealing to the eye.

Next time I'm in Dallas, I may need to, ummm, have a word with you two.

[Jetlee]

Guys do you know what 'The Game' is? It the other side of the hobby most of us dont know or dont want to see..

This is real and may answer alot of questions on why certain girls dont see cwrtain guys

THAT being said i see alot of girls not seeing Indian Guys now too.

[Sophiadoesitbabyy]

Are you talking about the movie 'The Game'

[TinMan]

Yahtzee?

[BLM69]

This guys don't know about having game, they think it's a sport or tv show