ASMR, Edging and CW

[CurvyKatie]

You guys that have watched the ASMR videos, what aspects of it do you think would be best to include?

[boardman]

The whispering of a narrative of what is happening or about to happen is pretty stimulating. There is one video of a manicure done in ASMR that is a total turn on. Lots of eye contact, whispering, touching and that's all it is. A manicure. There are only statements so the receiver can get lost and stay lost in what is happening and not ever have to come out of that "trance" to respond or answer questions.

As I've watched these videos and even some on porn channels that claim to be ASMR it seems that ASMR is more foreplay and would be difficult to incorporate into the sex act itself. At least the parts that I like. CW seems impossible to me, at least for the aspects of it that I find stimulating. It would have to be done before hand OR in a double where one doubles partner is doing the narrating while the other is doing the acts. They would have to be in tune. Again, my response is based on where my mind goes when thinking about it sexually.

CK you have a well deserved reputation for your massage sessions. What I think would be a turn on would be a less conventional type of massage incorporating ASMR. Maybe sitting comfortably instead of face down on a table so that eye contact could be maintained. Both totally naked. The provider giving a light touch massage starting with the the hands and arms, narrating the entire time. The only time eye contact would be broken is when she maybe got to my scalp or touching my back from in front of me and put her breasts in my face briefly to give me a scent and feel or when she got to the lower extremities(lower legs and feet) where eye contact might not be practical. The whispering is crucial and, for me, could be mildly sexual to an extent perhaps commenting on my erection, lightly touching it to tell me how hard it is, things like that but nothing over the top. The provider dictates when the massage is over by starting a handjob or a blowjob and moving into other activities more vigorous activities.. I think that some level of eroticism will be maintained simply by how it starts but at some point it no longer is ASMR. It just turns into sensual and erotic sex. More tantric like, if you will.

[Tall Bill]

ASMR is also a technique of inducing hypnotic trance. Imagine a massage with ASMR suggestions followed by the main course. Having the guy totally invested in your pleasure.

[CurvyKatie]

Now, I have been wanting one of these chairs for a while. It could be possible to work some ASMR magic riding very slow sensual cowgirl on one of these.

https://www.amazon.com/Rfhru-Multifu...%2C164&sr=8-34

[CurvyKatie]

Originally Posted by Tall Bill

ASMR is also a technique of inducing hypnotic trance. Imagine a massage with ASMR suggestions followed by the main course. Having the guy totally invested in your pleasure.

Yes, great minds think alike. I think you and I see a perfect vision. I have always tried to make sessions on my table trance-like and hypnotic and I think this takes it up a notch.

[CurvyKatie]

Originally Posted by boardman

The whispering of a narrative of what is happening or about to happen is pretty stimulating. There is one video of a manicure done in ASMR that is a total turn on. Lots of eye contact, whispering, touching and that's all it is. A manicure. There are only statements so the receiver can get lost and stay lost in what is happening and not ever have to come out of that "trance" to respond or answer questions. Where is the manicure video? I wanna see it!

As I've watched these videos and even some on porn channels that claim to be ASMR it seems that ASMR is more foreplay and would be difficult to incorporate into the sex act itself. At least the parts that I like. CW seems impossible to me, at least for the aspects of it that I find stimulating. It would have to be done before hand OR in a double where one doubles partner is doing the narrating while the other is doing the acts. They would have to be in tune. Again, my response is based on where my mind goes when thinking about it sexually. I have been given the suggestion to move around in CW at certain points by using a hand. Some guys won't like that suggestion, but I have done sessions lasting a couple of hours so the variation in stimulation worked out in that situation. But I do think the majority of ASMR would be a foreplay leading up.

CK you have a well deserved reputation for your massage sessions. Thank you What I think would be a turn on would be a less conventional type of massage incorporating ASMR. I agree Maybe sitting comfortably instead of face down on a table so that eye contact could be maintained. Both totally naked. The provider giving a light touch massage starting with the the hands and arms, narrating the entire time. The only time eye contact would be broken is when she maybe got to my scalp or touching my back from in front of me and put her breasts in my face briefly to give me a scent and feel or when she got to the lower extremities(lower legs and feet) where eye contact might not be practical. The whispering is crucial I agree, I think the verbal stimulation of hypnotic suggestion is imperative and, for me, could be mildly sexual to an extent perhaps commenting on my erection, lightly touching it to tell me how hard it is, things like that but nothing over the top. The provider dictates when the massage is over by starting a handjob or a blowjob and moving into other activities more vigorous activities.. I think that some level of eroticism will be maintained simply by how it starts but at some point it no longer is ASMR. It just turns into sensual and erotic sex. More tantric like, if you will. Yes, moving from ASMR into Tantra, and stimulation up to edging and withholding release.

And actually this post has given me ideas to possibly incorporate that I hadn't thought of. Incorporating taste, feathers, ice cubes, and possibly light bondage.

[CurvyKatie]

There is also this chair which might better incorporate some of the aspects you are talking about BM

https://www.amazon.com/Portable-Infl...gateway&sr=8-8

[DallasRain]

wow interesting,....I like it!

[job4u96]

CK, I would like to try any of those chairs. I always wanted to try the swing. https://www.amazon.com/Adult-Indoor-...JV4YTFDDGGS0MA. I would love to install it for you!

[CurvyKatie]

I have always been curious about one of those swings and how well they work. I wonder if there is anyone here who has tried one?

[Snickerdoodle]

Originally Posted by CurvyKatie

And actually this post has given me ideas to possibly incorporate that I hadn't thought of. Incorporating taste, feathers, ice cubes, and possibly light bondage.

I love your ideas here of incorporating taste, feathers, ice cubes, and light bondage. I also think whispering in the ear can be highly sensual. When we meet I hope we can incorporate these things and more.
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[boardman]

Originally Posted by CurvyKatie

And actually this post has given me ideas to possibly incorporate that I hadn't thought of. Incorporating taste, feathers, ice cubes, and possibly light bondage.

I swear, I cant find that particular video I referenced. There are at least 50 others on you tube though. Just search ASMR Manicure.
Glad I could be of help.

[4PawgLovers]

Originally Posted by CurvyKatie

Now, I have been wanting one of these chairs for a while. It could be possible to work some ASMR magic riding very slow sensual cowgirl on one of these.

https://www.amazon.com/Rfhru-Multifu...%2C164&sr=8-34

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[Traveler46]

I’ve been looking for a session such as this! I’d love to try this if you’re available

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by CurvyKatie

ASMR looks so good, if someone did that to me with some DATY I swear I would have to marry them, lol.

I have to figure out the logistics with edging, since there is ear whispering but obviously when edging you are not near the ears.

I am also thinking it would make a great doubles experience with edging as the ladies could move about and switch.

Not near the ear? BBCR is best ...