I miss the days of date-n-play

[SweetSuzanna]

When i started in the hobby i was so scared! Of everything!

I only saw a client if he would meet in person first for drinks or dinner.

I met some great guys and got to know some of them well.

I think i can say his handle it had "red" in it..lol

It was fun. The flirting and vocal foreplay, for lack of a better term.

People seem so busy lately. Or afraid to be seen maybe.

[biztravel]

Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

When i started in the hobby i was so scared! Of everything!

I only saw a client if he would meet in person first for drinks or dinner.

I met some great guys and got to know some of them well.

I think i can say his handle it had "red" in it..lol

It was fun. The flirting and vocal foreplay, for lack of a better term.

People seem so busy lately. Or afraid to be seen maybe.

I love the idea! I'm definitely afraid of being seen in public though. If I knew a place that offered a little privacy I'd be game for it.

[Enchanterlingum]

I've done that on occasion. Tonight I even skipped the play part and just went with dinner. IDGAF about being seen in public, I have nobody to hide anything from.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

.... It was fun. The flirting and vocal foreplay....

A fair portion of my pro dates, are extended time dates.
Dinners, etc.
For exactly the reason Suzanna mentions.

[TailHooked]

I did a lunch with a girl once. It was like a blind date. It made the play part more relaxing. Being seen out in public isn't a problem for me. Being I work a lot, the only surprise would be that I was out in public.
Some simply might not have the extra time to do this.

[jjenkc]

This is pretty interesting. I guess I always thought it would be disrespectful to ask a provider to provide more time besides the appointment time? As a client, would I pay for that time? Is it understood that I need to pay? Or is this just something a provider would do to make the appointment more GFE like, provided she found her client worthy of such an arrangement? I will say one of my coolest encounters I ever had in the hobby was with a provider that I genuinely hit it off with and she offered to buy us dinner after the appointment. We ate, drank, laughed and enjoyed our time together. She asked me to stay though. Just didn’t know what the protocol was for such a situation. Very interesting topic...

[Guest083119]

I totally agree, Suzanna! I'm lucky that I live in a city with lots of out of town gents who would otherwise dine alone. Plus, for the locals, lots of out of the way places if that is a concern.

Lunch and Dinner dates are my favorites. Total foreplay...

[SweetSuzanna]

I think the providers time is worth something. Some would say. Not the full donation though.
For me, as long as i had the time, i wouldn't require any extra.
It just adds to the mystique of the experience. And you have a secret nobody else knows.

Now if it was 'just dinner' i guess you would come to an agreement on a donation.

Short on time? Grab a quick drink. Believe me there are places you never knew existed off the beaten path.

I am game this weekend. I bet other ladies would be too.

I might even wear a short skirt without panties...wink

[TailHooked]

See, you might have a answer to your Monday problem. Just lunch or dinner Mondays. Smaller donation.
Well the long range forecast says the highs will only get to 32 and teens at night. You might re-think your wardrobe. Maybe snow bunny. If I was one of you girls in this weather, I would dress like the abominable snow woman!

[Ripclaw25]

I love the date before the play! I still often try to do it every encounter I can. Especially with a provider I've never met before, I feel it allows us both to relax more when we get to the play portion.

Suzanna, short skirt, no panties and dinner foreplay beforehand, you've gotten my attention!

[SweetSuzanna]

Good call! I could wear a snowsuit without panties!

Originally Posted by TailHooked

See, you might have a answer to your Monday problem. Just lunch or dinner Mondays. Smaller donation.
Well the long range forecast says the highs will only get to 32 and teens at night. You might re-think your wardrobe. Maybe snow bunny. If I was one of you girls in this weather, I would dress like the abominable snow woman!

[SweetSuzanna]

Glad to know there are other who like this too! Maybe remote control bullet?

Originally Posted by Ripclaw25

I love the date before the play! I still often try to do it every encounter I can. Especially with a provider I've never met before, I feel it allows us both to relax more when we get to the play portion.

Suzanna, short skirt, no panties and dinner foreplay beforehand, you've gotten my attention!

[BigDeal]

The problem is Suzanna is the hobby has changed and the guys that participate now to a degree are wanting to get something for nothing.
And the ladies would get taken advantage of by far to many of the guys.
Not saying that never happened before but its just different now imo.
Its like the guys rejoice when they report she wasnt a clock watcher and the time went way over...only to announce that to every other hobbyist to make it appear they are a hero to say so.
But in the end they hurt the girl and she has to deal with every other nutball when they say "well ya let joe blow me stay over extra time!! Why not me?

[biztravel]

Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

Maybe remote control bullet?

[Guest083119]

Luckily my city is still filled with guys who buy ladies’ drinks and aren’t looking for a bargain, lol. That said, do my extended lunch and dinner dates for a damn good deal. Abpberages out to $100 or less an hour. I’m not comfortable separating it out to public vs. BCD, it’s just one amount regardless of how it all plays out. I love it and guys do as well. No rush...good convo, etc. Everyone wins.

And like UC mentioned, there are also times when guys are in town and simply don’t want to dine or have drinks alone. No BCD at all. That works too, In those cases, yes, you can give me my consulting fee from my RW business as well.