For the ladies requiring references

[That_guy_over_there]

I'm sure this has been asked, possibly by myself, but no recollection. When you are a very light hobbyist like myself who might set up 1 visit every few months, it's a pain to keep up to date references. Quite a few people I'd like to visit require them, so obviously I can't see them. I'm not looking for anyone to bemd their rules, I'm just seeing if there is another option. Tia.

[Nikkilove91]

See girls that see newbies or don't care about references. Personally I have had shitty references. So yes I accept them but that's not the only thing I look at...haven't I seen you?

[Roboz]

Try a verification service like Preferred 411. It was helpful to me

[Nikkilove91]

Yeah but they are changing all that come January I believe. Maybe just see someone so you can get a recent reference

[That_guy_over_there]

Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

See girls that see newbies or don't care about references. Personally I have had shitty references. So yes I accept them but that's not the only thing I look at...haven't I seen you?

I don't believe I've had the pleasure of meeting you as of yet. Thank you for the responses too.

[That_guy_over_there]

I now realize I haven't visited you because you're mainly outcall. When you post incall available next, I intend to try and change that though.

[xomissmiab]

I’ve seen a lot of Providers say they honor references if you’ve seen them in the last 6-12 months , most only require 2.. for future reference maybe ask your providers pretty close to when you’ve visited with them if you can use them for a reference, keep their information stored in a email or something & you should be good (when someone asks me for a reference, they only have to ask once lol not everytime)

Might also just need to contact directly & see if they have alternative screening methods

[SweetSuzanna]

I hear this a lot. I often will see someone if they email me about their situation. Especially if they are forthcoming with info, such as where they work, etc. Dont give up!💋






QUOTE=That_guy_over_there;1060 811606]I'm sure this has been asked, possibly by myself, but no recollection. When you are a very light hobbyist like myself who might set up 1 visit every few months, it's a pain to keep up to date references. Quite a few people I'd like to visit require them, so obviously I can't see them. I'm not looking for anyone to bemd their rules, I'm just seeing if there is another option. Tia.[/QUOTE]

[southeasternvixen]

Considering the shut down and personal schedules I try to be flexible. There are a handful of women from oklahoma that I accept their references no matter how old because we have met and they’ve been wonderful friends outside the community

[KayC_K]

You can try low volume providers who don't keep a huge backlog of clients or calls. Making a good first impression can be as simple as dressing really well or telling a funny joke. You may even find one you'll see more often than just one time. good luck to you