With one review and little else to go on, kind of hard to recommend based on your "type". Not a knock, mind you, just what is good for one is not always good for another.
That said, scroll through honest_abe's reviews and throw a dart...it would be hard to go wrong doing that...for instance, I am certain this would play quite nicely:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1842064
I will add, and again this is just me, but the old adage always applies: you pay them as much to leave as you do for their time!!! If I was going to go out with a bang, I would be more inclined to pick four or five (or more) and schedule 1-2 hour sessions rather than one for overnight. She would have to be REALLY COOL outside of BCD activities to want to spend 8-10 hours with her. Hell, there aren't many people I want to spend that much time with, knocking boots or otherwise!