the hookering rules

[quick draw mc graw]

Having to patience to wait for a provider, rather than the little head making the decision for you, it can cause bad experiences and waste of time.

Knowing when to walk or run away

Stick to eccie ladies

[john_deere]

that's just not always possible. at least if you're looking for certain things.

[mayala03]

Great thread...I guess some if not all of mine are the same or similar to what others have said already....

1. I always do my best to treat any lady I see...like a lady...I have found this makes her feel comfortable around you and helps take the edge off for her if she's meeting you for the first time.

2. I believe BMM stated about making it feel like more than a transaction. I couldn't agree more with this. This helps build a raport and if you're lucky enough you make a friend out of that lady over time and that to me makes the experience all that much better. Of course, to each their own and not everyone sees it that way. I guess this is also why I like longer appts. Helps you get to know one another and your likes or dislikes for future meetings.

3. Going in, especially on the first time meeting, that you have to go in with no preconceived notions or judgements of that lady. Lady A and Lady B may have similarities but they're in no way shape or form the same person.

4. Don't take reviews as 100% gospel as to what that particular lady offers. She may have a different way of connecting with you than she does some other guy. This ties into respecting her boundaries.

5. Last but not least...stay away from BP lol.

[john_deere]

excellent rules, especially about reviews. half of everything you read in them is bullshit....and you don't know which half.

[Zgirl2]

Originally Posted by mayala03

Great thread...I guess some if not all of mine are the same or similar to what others have said already....

1. I always do my best to treat any lady I see...like a lady...I have found this makes her feel comfortable around you and helps take the edge off for her if she's meeting you for the first time.

2. I believe BMM stated about making it feel like more than a transaction. I couldn't agree more with this. This helps build a raport and if you're lucky enough you make a friend out of that lady over time and that to me makes the experience all that much better. Of course, to each their own and not everyone sees it that way. I guess this is also why I like longer appts. Helps you get to know one another and your likes or dislikes for future meetings.

3. Going in, especially on the first time meeting, that you have to go in with no preconceived notions or judgements of that lady. Lady A and Lady B may have similarities but they're in no way shape or form the same person.

4. Don't take reviews as 100% gospel as to what that particular lady offers. She may have a different way of connecting with you than she does some other guy. This ties into respecting her boundaries.

5. Last but not least...stay away from BP lol.

Well stated mayala

[Zgirl2]

Originally Posted by john_deere

excellent rules, especially about reviews. half of everything you read in them is bullshit....and you don't know which half.

Oh, but i think u do

[john_deere]

heh. i figure i can make a good guess.

[busternutzs]

Originally Posted by TxyellowBone

i like JD's rules.

they worked with me. =)

I hope you like the guys I have recommended you to and their rules.

If contacted to asked for a meeting behind closed doors my approach would be completely different than they would be for an unknown provider from backpage.

[spacecowboy]

Rule #1.....If im gonna turn one down.....i turn them face down.....

[Zgirl2]

Originally Posted by spacecowboy

Rule #1.....If im gonna turn one down.....i turn them face down.....

Genius...ur rule is genius!¡!

[FBSMLUVR]

Rules? How about doing your fucking research, find what you're looking for and go for it? Seems pretty simple to me. This doesn't need to be rocket science.

[westtexasbrowser]

Rules I've learned... most the hard way.

1) Trust your instincts/gut. If it don't feel right, GTFO!
IF your brain says yes ANDIF and your gut says yes RESULT = Yes.
IF your brain says no ANDIF and your gut says no RESULT = No.
IF your brain says no ANDIF and your gut says yes RESULT = No.

2) We're all lying. Girls, guys. Everybody is lying.

3) Guys: don't loan money or pre-pay. Girls: don't give it up on credit, even if he promises to run out to the truck and get the money as soon as the session is over.

4) When in doubt about ANY SITUATION, see rule #1.

[john_deere]

excellent, browser.

although, i always pay up front. even though there's risk, i don't want her thinking about the money.....

[westtexasbrowser]

Originally Posted by john_deere

excellent, browser.

although, i always pay up front. even though there's risk, i don't want her thinking about the money.....

Yes, always pay up front. That's the first order of business, agreed.

In my rules I'm saying don't PRE-pay. Don't forward the money ahead of time. Don't loan money.

[john_deere]

oh, hell no. if you know someone that's actually ever done that, tell him to punch himself in the face for being stupid. lol