Why use backpage???

[ah1320]

Tori your post makes good business sense
Bob

[boyscoutnomore]

elle w ur face would have 2 b a 2 bagger 4 me to reject ur body and attitude ! buff trip please

[boyscoutnomore]

BP is always risky unless u croos check with eccie. all of my few bad sexperiences have been BP. the worst of my eccie have been average. all of my best have been eccie.
4 health reasons my participation in the hobby is sporadic. I like appointments which I can schedule around other events since I am 45-60 minutes away from most providers. But the reference thing is a hassle since it may have been 3-4 months since my last session with a provider.
I understand the need for safety but will never provide a photo or detailed personal info for reasons stated by others. Given the length of time I have been here the reference thing is annoying if I want to see a hot, new or visiting provider. But, if the solution is that I need to see Tori or faith again I guess I will just have to swallow my pride (and her clit !!) To update my references. LOL

[brasil]

I have found that with providers who are on ECCIE one's reviews on this site confer some credibility, such that references are often not required. By initiating contact through a PM on this site, the provider knows you are a member and can easily check your reviews/posts, etc.

[Next Best Thing]

The idea of providing a hook with personal information, particularly employment information, is laughable to me. Preposterous.

Interestingly, I have never once been asked to provide this information to bang out a hook.

I once had a hook from Dallas, who is a member of this site, ask me to provide a reference from a hook. The hook from Dallas contacted my regular by email, my regular told her to fuck off (literally sent a reply email with the words fuck off in caps and nothing more), and the Dallas hook still did an overnight outcall with me.

I would far sooner just pay an upcharge to avoid self disclosing.

Does anyone really tell the hooks who they are and where they work? This seems like a form of suicide.

[JONBALLS]

i don't care who knows...

we had to go to "diversity" class at a job for an overnight "debate"

whats cheaper, a whore or a wife?

over two way radios...... we got new radios out of the deal


on our OWN frequency ..

[JONBALLS]

i try to take credit for theclass

but that's fought over


i believe the class had an opposite affct

[bustybabygirl]

An upcharge isn't going to help when LE nails us or when a rapist who never intended on paying anyways sees us. I totally get why men don't want to give personal information. I respect that. But we are just trying to protect ourselves.

[Next Best Thing]

But it will help you if you want to buy nice stuff or pay your bills.

Regardless I would as soon hand a hook a pistol when I walk in the room as provide her with delicate personal information.

Can we reverse verify?

Let me have your social security number and mother's maiden name and we can talk.

[JONBALLS]

I don't need music


or the typed word


not sure what sucks worse

[Next Best Thing]

Originally Posted by boyscoutnomore

elle w ur face would have 2 b a 2 bagger 4 me to reject ur body and attitude ! buff trip please

The hook appears to have an excellent body.

Whenever I hear people say that all they need to see is a tight belly, sweet rearend, etc, I think of Sandra Bernhard. She has an outstanding body as well.

[bustybabygirl]

Reverse verify by looking for reviews. Most girls only want delicate info if they can't screen any other way. Or set up an appt with a girl whose screening is easier to pass and then use her as a reference. I don't blame someone for not wanting to give personal info! I respect that. But then sometimes it leaves us at an impasse.

And hell yeah Elle is hot!

[Next Best Thing]

I have never once had to work that hard.

That includes dates with pornstars as well as women in foreign countries and quite a few states in the USA including Alaska.

I would really love to know if anyone actually gives hooks legitimate identifying information. Employment info especially is the kiss of death.

[bustybabygirl]

Well then you must be extra special.

Yes men give whores employment information all the time.

I've also seen licenses and passports.

[Next Best Thing]

I'm going to conduct a silent poll on this. Undercover.

My money is special, yes.