Why use backpage???

[brianjackson]

Originally Posted by trojantide

I almost always schedule in advance and don't seem to have a problem getting in the mood. I'm a dude so Faaack I'm always horny. Yea, there's been times I'm stressed out or something but just ask for a massage or something to get things going. .

So you weren't actually in the mood but forced it.

[Guest011124]

I don't want to knock any girls but girls who don't require screening are either new and don't know any better or they don't care about their safety. I didn't require references my first month of whoring but then I did some research and smartened up and started screening.

Most men prefer a provider who actually has a life outside of this. I know girls who do this to supplement their income are preferred. I can't always do short notice. I do same day requests when possible and I never give someone a hard time for asking.

The question is, do you honestly want to be with a girl who will see anyone, no questions asked? Or who is "available 24-7, 5 minutes notice!"

[trojantide]

Originally Posted by brianjackson

So you weren't actually in the mood but forced it.

Nope

[brianjackson]

Originally Posted by bustybabygirl

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The question is, do you honestly want to be with a girl who will see anyone, no questions asked? Or who is "available 24-7, 5 minutes notice!"

Instead of someone who can't get me in when I want? Yes. Not even a tough choice for me personally. And again I am not knocking anyone. But alot of guys are like me. It could just come down to a sex drive issue. IF I am not in the mood all the time why would I ever want a future appointment?

[Next Best Thing]

How is backpage any different from this board.

This board is free - anyone can participate.

These are test tube conditions for unreliability. They're test tube conditions for mayhem really.

If you want to weed out the substandard hooks and the trash, you have to require a price of admission.

That lowers the bullshit quotient dramatically.

[jokacz]

The problem with boards that require a price for admission, is that the boards become skewed in favor of the paying customers to the detriment of the clients. TERB and SP411 are glaring examples. E.com, back in the day, was far too pro hooker, pulled any bad reviews the hooker asked for.

[Next Best Thing]

Originally Posted by jokacz

The problem with boards that require a price for admission, is that the boards become skewed in favor of the paying customers to the detriment of the clients. TERB and SP411 are glaring examples. E.com, back in the day, was far too pro hooker, pulled any bad reviews the hooker asked for.

Maybe it's just an impossible situation.

I guess when people misbehave, and there's no big brother to keep them in line, they regress back to their prehistoric selves.

Fuck this. I'm just going to continue to be unreasonably discriminating.

[Seanross26]

Most girls on bp are spending there day in a hotel room getting trolled by weirdos asking for naked pics and getting low balled all day by guys who have no intention on seeing them lol

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by Smithdoe

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One of the main reasons I've stayed away from backpage is because I keep running into them..... Either at stores or when I was at turning stone or other places. Hell a verified provider came in to my work a few days after I saw her for a session. That was awkward.

Other guys have mentioned seeing these gals outside of hobbying. In all this time I haven't bumped into one out side of the hobby. It would be a bit awkward.

[Next Best Thing]

Originally Posted by Seanross26

Most girls on bp are spending there day in a hotel room getting trolled by weirdos asking for naked pics and getting low balled all day by guys who have no intention on seeing them lol

I don't doubt this, and have even heard them say the same thing to me personally, but I always assumed they were overstating in some microaggressive attempt to apply guilt.

Could be though.

[Guest011124]

Many men I know are either always in the mood, or always just one touch away from being in the mood. I can see how it can be an issue for men who don't always want it or have difficult schedules to work around.

[wotbaby]

Originally Posted by brianjackson

Instead of someone who can't get me in when I want? Yes. Not even a tough choice for me personally. And again I am not knocking anyone. But alot of guys are like me. It could just come down to a sex drive issue. IF I am not in the mood all the time why would I ever want a future appointment?

Exactly. I don't like sex on a schedule. It makes it feel like I'm prepping for an exam. What do I do when the date is impending? Start eating pineapples and ban myself from jacking off till I see the girl? The human body ages terribly when it's forced into boxes, including feeding schedules that might be outside of what it needs. That's the essence of stress for me.

I also don't like screening of any sort, especially those that involve giving pictures. Too many hoops and loops, and evidence. I want my encounters to be ephemeral. In fact, it's why I don't think I'll be posting another review again.

[jokacz]

Originally Posted by bustybabygirl

Many men I know are either always in the mood, or always just one touch away from being in the mood. I can see how it can be an issue for men who don't always want it or have difficult schedules to work around.

That's the problem with most providers, they assume that we are all a bunch of horny bastards and all they have to do is show up. This may be true for some poor bastards whose wives won't put out anymore. But I don't see a hooker because I'm horny, I see them to make me horny. Like Jack Nicholson said in "The Departed", "I don't need pussy, but I like it." Maybe that's why Sara of Albany gets the big bucks, she gets it.

[Next Best Thing]

Normal men are like this.

Men are also visual creatures.

If I'm not turned on immediately, forget it. There is literally nothing quite a few of the loudest hooks on here could do to get my juices flowing.

I would 100% prefer to just beat myself off.

[brianjackson]

Originally Posted by wotbaby

Exactly. I don't like sex on a schedule. It makes it feel like I'm prepping for an exam. What do I do when the date is impending? Start eating pineapples and ban myself from jacking off till I see the girl? The human body ages terribly when it's forced into boxes, including feeding schedules that might be outside of what it needs. That's the essence of stress for me.

I also don't like screening of any sort, especially those that involve giving pictures. Too many hoops and loops, and evidence. I want my encounters to be ephemeral. In fact, it's why I don't think I'll be posting another review again.

Yeap. The more I read this board the more I am of the opinion that alot of guys do this because they have serious sex additions, despite blaming it on their wives.

I have lately seen guys who have said they finished one appointment and then started looking for another right after.I have seen guys suggest that the way to last longer is to jerk off before they see a provider. WTF to both of those. Why would you want to see a provider right after jerking off? OF course guys who demand multiple shots per session are WTF to me.

But everyone is different. 15 to 20 days a months I would have very little interested in seeing a provider. For me maybe for 4 days after seeing a provider I usually have no interest at all. If I was offered a free session it wouldn't be worth the drive to me. And I have been offered really really good prices by regulars and I just tell them I don't have the time.

And its totally unpredictable when the mood is going to hit. It usually happens when I am walking around a store or something and see a hottie with her ass hanging out or something. Then I start making calls.

I am actually really glad I am not one of those guys who is obsessed with sex all of the time. That would be torture.