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Old 06-17-2016, 11:24 PM   #31
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Old 06-20-2016, 12:30 AM   #32
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Old 06-20-2016, 06:49 AM   #33
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I think the definition of low volume depends on the provider(including) location/tours/rates/lifestyle etc, and also the client's expectations. I think that providers change professionally, as well as hobbyists in their thinking.

My best suggestion is to try to get to know providers and see what you are comfortable with as far as their work and your desires.

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Thanks, Elizabeth

You hit the nail right on the head...

My best suggestion is to try to get to know providers and see what you are comfortable with as far as their work and your desires.
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Old 06-20-2016, 10:55 PM   #34
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Thanks, Elizabeth

You hit the nail right on the head...

My best suggestion is to try to get to know providers and see what you are comfortable with as far as their work and your desires.
You're welcome! Have fun!
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Old 06-29-2016, 05:30 AM   #35
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I consider myself low volume because I have a "Day"job as well. Therefore, when I meet someone I prefer to show up for one "Date" at a time.... shower and get ready. If I happen to see more than one in a day, though rare....They are at least an hour apart. Its just what works for me. As for advertising increased availability at times, it's just in hopes that I may meet another to add to my list if "Favs."
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Old 06-29-2016, 07:17 AM   #36
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I consider myself low volume because I have a "Day"job as well. Therefore, when I meet someone I prefer to show up for one "Date" at a time.... shower and get ready. If I happen to see more than one in a day, though rare....They are at least an hour apart. Its just what works for me. As for advertising increased availability at times, it's just in hopes that I may meet another to add to my list if "Favs."
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Old 06-29-2016, 07:26 AM   #37
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I have considered myself low volume in the past, but realized awhile ago it was subjective and that I may not be, according to others definitions. So I stopped saying I was. I'm a sex addict, so while I'm paying bills I'm also fulfilling those needs.

When I'm home, I limit myself to seeing three gentlemen a day, and schedule myself an hour minimum in between to shower etc. When I travel, different story. Not only is it about making the trip worthwhile, but also just avoiding boredom. Because when I'm home and end up with really spaced out dates I can go run errands rather than sit in a hotel doing nothing. I'd rather be busy than bored.

I always say there's a method to my madness when it comes to considering my overhead costs etc. I will say that my 3 a day limit started early on when I first joined eccie and was the flavor of the month, because sometimes I have a hard time saying no (people pleaser), so I ended up seeing 8 guys one of my first days. It was a great day, but the next day...not so much haha, couldn't walk. Told myself never again.

So to each their own, but that's my take on it.
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Thanks Tori,

Those are the answers I'm looking for.
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Old 06-29-2016, 08:15 AM   #39
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Thanks Tori,

Those are the answers I'm looking for.
No problem
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Old 07-20-2016, 12:21 AM   #40
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My personal "low volume" on weeks I tour and weeks I don't are 2 different things.
Low-volume when I don't tour is 3 GFE/PSE dates max in a whole week.
Low-volume touring no more than 2 GFE/PSE dates max in a day (a tour 'day' to me is typically 7am to 11pm). I've entertained more than 2 in a day if they were just FBSM or NURU dates but mentally I can't allow foot traffic of more than 3 in a day (even if i'm in a big hotel where no one will probably notice).

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What exactly is considered "Low Volume"? I've seen some providers who specifically say that they are low volume...but they constantly advertise that they have additional hours or are taking appointments. Available now or whatever.

Being new to this...it's very confusing, especially if your not into car dates, quick stops or anything outside the realm of the multi hour GFE.

I've avoided some providers because of this question and it may not be fair because i'm assuming they have a turnstile front door that is constantly spinning Jimmies in and out.

I understand the travelers needing to justify a trip, and I have wanted to see a couple of them...but you tell me I'm one of many gents that day...sorry...no deal. Then I read that the ladies had multi-pal cancellations and sat idle twiddling their thumbs all alone in their rooms without appointments. These situations would have been perfect for me.
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Old 07-22-2016, 10:52 AM   #41
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Low volume means less than the rest ,I guess. Whatever that is. I do think that economics dictate the rate of volume to a certain degree. A local provider charging $$$/hr is probably lower volume than someone charging say $.8/hr. jmo
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I do agree that girls doing forty dollar dates are most likely more high volume than girls charging $300/hr with a one hour minimum.

But there are too many variables. UTR, part-time, full-time, or survival sex worker? Is this her only income? Is she on five different sites posting ads daily or does she only post occasionally? Location. Is she in a small area where it would be difficult to fill her schedule even if she wanted to do so. Does she tour other areas? Does she have a permanent incall (not including her home)? Is she freshly cleaned and showered everytime you meet her? Do you see other clients coming or going before or after your appointment? If you're running a little late does she offer flexibility (some girls just aren't flexible with late comers for a variety of reasons but some can't overextend the visit because she has an appt right after you).

I would consider all of these things before assuming that the $300/hr girl is lower volume than the $180 girl. Maybe the $180 girl has a full time vanilla job.

Sometimes it's assumed that girls who offer QS are higher volume. But think about it. Higher quality girls, even when they offer short appts, are still generally booked for 1+ hour. How often do you see a review of Amber Does for a QS? Not often because everyone knows they will want more time. I don't wanna call anyone out but we see Niagara Falls Bp girls getting one $40 QS review after another but often no one bothers to get an hour, let alone multi-hour.
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Old 07-22-2016, 10:15 PM   #43
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In the big picture its all in the 'eye of the beholder' on volume.

Also assumptions made in this business. If some only had a clue on how it works for some of us. I made my own assumptions getting into this business, I was certainly enlightened. Its much different than one thinks most of the time.
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Old 07-23-2016, 07:11 AM   #44
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In the big picture its all in the 'eye of the beholder' on volume.

Also assumptions made in this business. If some only had a clue on how it works for some of us. I made my own assumptions getting into this business, I was certainly enlightened. Its much different than one thinks most of the time.
Enlighten us please
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Old 07-23-2016, 10:06 AM   #45
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Every girl has their own definition. To me it's one a day with a max of three a week. I'm only back for a short time right now so it'll likely be even less. Just ask the girls you're interested in specifically. Although I think half the fun is the "illusion". Better to not know sometimes n enjoy the fantasy of GFE.
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