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From a providers point of view. I appreciate both. I've had some beyond amazing guys absolutely shock me with their generosity and I was in no way "creeped" out. Many are good friends. Genuine friends. I love talking before n after. Just like in other jobs, you can keep business n friendship seperate.
I have never given a gift and very rarely tip. A couple times I have been pressured to give a tip and have caved. I set a limit for myself on how much I can justify spending on this stuff. Could I spend more sure, can I justify it no.
So its simple for me. If I like seeing a provider then she will make alot of money off me in the future because I usually only see one provider until things go south. So no need for a tip. If I don't like her no need to tip. And iI will be damned if I go over my budget and not be able to hobby as much as i want because I am giving out tips.
Did someone really post that he is of the theory that we are paying providers for their time and not their activities?
Yes, why yes I did. I don't pay an Attorney to "suck my cock", or a Physician to give me a "prostate exam".....Although the latter may be true given my age and family history. I would rather pay a Provider $$$ per hour to spend time with me and make me feel like I matter, the activities that we do simply validate the whole thing. Hell all the providers I have seen look a whole lot better then my Attorney and my Physician, and the "time" I spend with them is a hell of alot more fun. Does it warrant a "Gift or Tip", why not, my budget allows for the occasional gratuity in the form of a gift, and I won't sweat it or feel wierd about giving it.
From a providers point of view. I appreciate both. I've had some beyond amazing guys absolutely shock me with their generosity and I was in no way "creeped" out. Many are good friends. Genuine friends. I love talking before n after. Just like in other jobs, you can keep business n friendship seperate.
Anyone is going to appreciate being given something for nothing. Anyone.
The whinging and complaining starts when the victim who foolishly gives unnecessary gifts or tips starts to feel entitled and starts stalking, harassing, or worse, when the hook finds someone else who is even looser with his money than the dumb, original victim is with his.
This happens all the time. I've sat there and listened to hooks mock the suckers who take this for more than it is, on numerous occasions. I've also listened to them complain about being deluged by phone calls, emails, and text messages, when it finally dawns on the victim that he has been milked silly by a semi-pro hook.
I like being given shit that I have done nothing to earn as well. It's awesomeness.
I see your point, NBT. When someone expects something extra bc of a gift then issues arise.I've been so lucky to say I've truly met wonderful ppl so far who would never behave like that. I think some girls might lead guys on to believe untrue things to encourage more gifts but then get upset when the guy starts to believe it's more than business. I don't encounter those situations bc if I felt accepting something would lead someone on then I'd politely decline and explain the nature of our relationship. I see both sides, but it's completely possible to build friendships in this field that don't cross boundaries (I'll also admit some men can't handle it n assume bc you're more friendly than other providers that it must mean you're interested. I cut those ppl off. I refuse to become "hardened" bc a few ppl act like children)
. I would rather pay a Provider $$$ per hour to spend time with me and make me feel like I matter, the activities that we do simply validate the whole thing.t.
Paying someone alot of money to spend time with you makes you feel like you matter?
Of course... you both always miss the obvious....
Scholarship baby, scholarship....
Some have called Kayla and I the odd couple... and strange bedfellows....
These two though, seem made for each other.....
The only kind of couple you two are is what exists in your head, not in the real world. She sees who she wants to, but at the end of the day (that day anyway) I think you were pretty much a huge oops. Anyone can make a mistake though, she is entitled too. Get back to reality. If you can.
She's a provider making dates for money. And yours will spend like anyone's.
But it's sounding like you don't want her to get any of mine....
Are you like that with her with ALL of her guys? Or just me? Should I feel special?
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It has absolutely nothing to do with me and her.
Seems like it has an awful LOT to do with that.... How long did it take you to get in touch with her after my last post??? Seconds?? Did you beg and plead with her to not see me??? Do you thinck it worked???
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And cuntiness? No that's just me making you aware of all you should already know.
I forgot what that is.... can you tell me again?
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The only kind of couple you two are is what exists in your head, not in the real world.
Are you sure of that? Is that what she told you.... Did you stop your snivelling yet?
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She sees who she wants to.
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but i think you were pretty much an oops. Get back to reality.
So much of an opps that we did it again.....
I know the bar shook the first time....
The whole planet the second....
I think I did it again
I made you believe we're more than just friends
Oh baby
It might seem like a crush
But it doesn't mean that I'm serious
'Cause to lose all my senses
That is just so typically me
Oh baby, baby
Oops, I did it again
I played with your heart, got lost in the game
Oh baby, baby
Oops, you think I'm in love
That I'm sent from above
I'm not that innocent
You see my problem is this
I'm dreaming away
Wishing that heroes, they truly exist
I cry, watching the days
Can't you see I'm a fool in so many ways
But to lose all my senses
That is just so typically me
Oh baby, oh
Oops, I did it again
I played with your heart, got lost in the game
Oh baby, baby
Oops, you think I'm in love
She just needed a rockstar to be able to make beautiful music together.....
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cculvr69 you've allowed Paul to become a real estate investor. He owns the 6 inch space between your ears. OMFG.....
Perry... I don't care if it's worth Baltic Ave or Boardwalk.... it's just fun owning it.....
But it's sounding like you don't want her to get any of mine....
Are you like that with her with ALL of her guys? Or just me? Should I feel special?
Seems like it has an awful LOT to do with that.... How long did it take you to get in touch with her after my last post??? Seconds?? Did you beg and plead with her to not see me??? Do you thinck it worked???
I forgot what that is.... can you tell me again?
Are you sure of that? Is that what she told you.... Did you stop your snivelling yet?
So much of an opps that we did it again.....
I know the bar shook the first time....
The whole planet the second....
I think I did it again
I made you believe we're more than just friends
Oh baby
It might seem like a crush
But it doesn't mean that I'm serious
'Cause to lose all my senses
That is just so typically me
Oh baby, baby
Oops, I did it again
I played with your heart, got lost in the game
Oh baby, baby
Oops, you think I'm in love
That I'm sent from above
I'm not that innocent
You see my problem is this
I'm dreaming away
Wishing that heroes, they truly exist
I cry, watching the days
Can't you see I'm a fool in so many ways
But to lose all my senses
That is just so typically me
Oh baby, oh
Oops, I did it again
I played with your heart, got lost in the game
Oh baby, baby
Oops, you think I'm in love
She just needed a rockstar to be able to make beautiful music together.....
Perry... I don't care if it's worth Baltic Ave or Boardwalk.... it's just fun owning it.....
Just another big old load of crap. Spew on wannabe. Cocktard.
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