Ref's given ONLY if a hobbyist gives a review?

[Jessika Sweetz]

Originally Posted by charlotteblue

We all know you don't care. For anyone. Providers, clients, and most importantly, YOURSELF. My comment on your Sig pic wasn't a dig.

It was an observation.

I will quote the old and wise sage Dr.Phil..."We treat people how to treat us." This was a hard learned lesson for myself. Honestly, conduct your business however you see fit. If for you it is all about $$$ more power to you. I hope you are saving and working your way up to your dream.

I am older, 36, and I can promise you I know a whole hell of a lot more than I knew when I was in my 20's. Did I gain that knowledge the easy way? Nope! I had a selfish ass attitude and thought everything was about me and my needs.

Guess what?! Reality sucks and will hit you hard as hell in the face.

You, are welcome to conduct yourself in any manner you see fit. And...since you say you are in your early 20's I am assuming you are pretty clueless (as I was). I would highly suggest that you save yourself the trouble and start to listen more than you talk. Honestly, a lot of the things you say don't make it seem as if you are a mature or educated lady.

Well said and with class!!

[DarkeyKong]

Originally Posted by !VI!

the review doesn't HAVE to be a good one, but it does show testament that it did happen

No one said it "had" to be a good review. However, as you may know, most of us guys here are pretty decent people in person (even the online assholes). This is why I said we would feel "compelled" to write a good one. We have no interest in doing something unfavorable towards the gals.

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by charlotteblue

You, are welcome to conduct yourself in any manner you see fit.

So what's your problem then, besides telling me how to run my business?

[Guest092216]

Originally Posted by !VI!

that's true and i agree... but then in that case you WOULDN'T provide a refrence for someone you did not see.... because that's not only stupid but it's dangerous

But if all you go off of is reviews then how do you know?

And I don't mean 'you' personally. I mean 'you' in general. As in the girls who only verify via reviews and the guys who think a few reviews makes them an established hobbyist.

Reviews are flimsy confirmations of a session at best. Handles can even have hidden characters to make them look like other handles. However phone numbers and emails cannot be faked. The history attached to them also cannot be faked.

Using a review as proof of a session is like using a rubberband for a seatbelt.

[Guest092216]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

Oh she's met her match.

Hardly.

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

A reference is a privilege. There's no where stating that I HAVE to give out references. Just because I decided to run my business different its wrong?

THn you really need to take a chill pill. Your way is correct & mines isn't?! Get over yourself. You can bitch & moan all you want on what I do but at the end of the day you just wasting time cause ain't nothing gone change. Its funny though

You missed the part where I said to keep doing what you do, didn't you?

That's okay, I'll say it again: Keep doing what you do girl. All day long.

[charlotteblue]

Never said I had a problem with you. If you lack reading comprehension, I said you have a right to conduct your business however you see fit. My issue is this:

I am not a "ho" "whore" "slut" or whatever ghetto slang lexicox you find yourself identifying with. Thanks, but I will excuse myself. I, as a woman, and human being resent those terms. If that's how you identify yourself, so be it. In my opinion, it represents a lack of knowledge and empowerment. You, my dear, are a prime example of why men refer to you as a "ho".

[Kayleehotchick]

I'm all for a lively discussion but this thread is getting nasty.

Starting to cut on a woman's age or calling each other names is NOT the intention of the thread. To bad some people can't agree to disagree like adults.

MOD'S can we close this before it gets super ugly?

[charlotteblue]

And I sit here and listen to:
https://youtu.be/Ttk3IUKfn4U

[Luke Skywalker]

Originally Posted by charlotteblue

Never said I had a problem with you. If you lack reading comprehension, I said you have a right to conduct your business however you see fit. My issue is this:

I am not a "ho" "whore" "slut" or whatever ghetto slang lexicox you find yourself identifying with. Thanks, but I will excuse myself. I, as a woman, and human being resent those terms. If that's how you identify yourself, so be it. In my opinion, it represents a lack of knowledge and empowerment. You, my dear, are a prime example of why men refer to you as a "ho".

I agree with you sweetheart.

Edit: I didn't realize the dicknapper was on this thread, I would have taken precautions otherwise.

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by charlotteblue

Never said I had a problem with you. If you lack reading comprehension, I said you have a right to conduct your business however you see fit. My issue is this:

I am not a "ho" "whore" "slut" or whatever ghetto slang lexicox you find yourself identifying with. Thanks, but I will excuse myself. I, as a woman, and human being resent those terms. If that's how you identify yourself, so be it. In my opinion, it represents a lack of knowledge and empowerment. You, my dear, are a prime example of why men refer to you as a "ho".

Do you boo. I could care less. Your business your rules. Keep being in denial. Your problem, not mines.

And I sit here & listen to: https://youtu.be/8FVpSkHsU5E

[Stanfeld]

A long time ago in a city far,
far away....

WHORE
WARS

[Kayleehotchick]

Originally Posted by Stanfeld

A long time ago in a city far,
far away....

WHORE
WARS

Now that is funny as hell.

[Guest092216]

Here you go, Kaylee.

[izzy32]

Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

I'm all for a lively discussion but this thread is getting nasty.

Starting to cut on a woman's age or calling each other names is NOT the intention of the thread. To bad some people can't agree to disagree like adults.

MOD'S can we close this before it gets super ugly?

This is true and I know it wasn't your intentions for it to be this way. Unfortunately it all got that way because a person wanted to come in and show their attitude.

[Kayleehotchick]

Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Here you go, Kaylee.

Hahahahahaha. Girl, I love you.