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Originally Posted by Sinclar
I inquired about snowballing........
So my first question, is it really that unknown of a procedure?
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Its not so unknown. Easily googleable. Its just real fetishy, and very PSE/BDSM dominant for her. But I will say this is one of those actvities which really requires a lady who not only does cim.............but one who loves cumplay, taste, texture of it. Then have the wear with all to fulfill your fantasy. The spitting part for some ladies might be easy. Maybe even a relief. The journey and time frame, display, is where most will lose you. Otherwse you could just cum in her hand, and she could put her fingers in your mouth.
The GFE preferred providers used to being more submissive to your wants may be turned off to it......cause it places them in a dominant position.
What you want to avoid is the lady that just tolerates it. Go with the lady that truthfully enjoys it. Most times this will be a lady PSE oriented. For an act like this...... can guarantee you her GFE majority would be a lot more contrived. Some would never tell you this......but its demasculating. Same as being pegged or seeing a TS in session. Don't think so......brng it up at your local barbershop, or on a guys night out with the fellas.
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Originally Posted by Sinclar
I get that question almost every time I inquire about it. Then when I explain the request I get a range of results. Some are grossed out, some are amazed that'd I'd be into that, most simply reply they don't do CIM at all. However, what I find confusing is those providers that do CIM but won't snowball or even think it's gross.
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Well this is partially your fault. If you are asking this inquiry to providers that you know fully well don't do cim.....or you didnt ask beforehand.......some may be grossed out. Just because a lady does cim doesn't mean see enjoys it. She may just tolerate it.......ask a swallower and you may get better results.
Don't know the difference between toleration and really enjoyng it. Next time you book a mere cim session, ask her if she continues to keep sucking, stroking, and milking your cock while your cumming and keep her mouth closed and not spilling a drop like the golden child holding a cup of precious fluid. If she says no.......she tolerated taking a shot to the mouth....but doesn't like it. Nothng is more annoyng than booking a lady who has cim on her menu.....and watching her (1) drip it on me, (2) stop the technique and any and all actions she used to get me there, (3) spit it in a towel in front of me within mere seconds of catching it......and swallow it with a pepsi chaser, (4) or you pull out during CFS......riping your condom off in antcipation of a nice full mouth cim.......then she's suddenly like Helen Keller and she connect the dick into her mouth.
For all that fake effort she should have just swallowed it.......sheed with msog she's gonna be doing that anyway......although not as much.
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Originally Posted by Sinclar
Next question...what's the difference between CIM and spitting in a sink and CIM and snowballing during a DFK? or am I just odd?
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Cim in a sink presents the illusion of intimacy after the guy achieves.....where she's retrieves him a warm towel......while she slyly spits his hard work out. Its the proper thing to do. Spares feelings. She seems less repulsed by your presence. Lol If a chick spits my nutt out in front of me......it does sorta hurt my feelings.....and makes it less intimate for me. But who cares.....that's all emotional.....and she won't be exposed to that side of it for me lol.
Snowballing during DFK is defintely much different. I'm not personally into snowballing myself. But after a lady has swallowed my ejaculate, or done cim. I would kiss her after with no issue. I just don't want a volume of man sperm (even my own) going into my mouth. This is a service, if I wanted to play with my own cum it could be free. I personally would consider snowballing a heterosexually challenged activity. I group it same as pegging and fucking a TS. That in no way is an insult to you as a man or a hobbyist OP.....its just my opinion....and many others.....who might or might not be too chicken shit to post their opinions on it.
There's a majority of guys......and some ladies who feel the same way. What you can do to change the stigma of it is write a review of it occuring. Don't be in the closet about your fantacies. I can honestly say.......if I saw guy reviewing ladys while getting pegged, snowballing, or smashing a TS........I would not feel as though ther review would be of particular service interest to me. It might point to a partcular lady I don't want to see.......and also may make me think a particular hobbyist kinks and picks are not in conjunction with mine for a good time.
Like for example.........a weekend or so ago. I was on the cusp of booking a provider who advertised here. I noticed she had a wide open menu which I thought was awesome. After a bit of research...... noticed she was known for doing TUMA with many clients review for review. My personal interests was lost because I knew Id want to partake in more GFE kissing than most. Had those guys not posted their inquiry and interest I would not have been aware.
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Originally Posted by Sinclar
Also, how unusual is it to not want FS from a FS provider but only want a whole 60 to 90 minutes of oral?
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This seems more like a PSE catered activity. Not many ladies have the skill to be cock worshipers this long. Its usually sort of a catch 22 most times. (1) You will ether luck up and find a lady that great n all attributes of sex.....but she will still want her comparable rate unless your a regular. (2) Or one not so good at sex and positions......but gets the bulk of her clients based on her oral only. (3) or one people see only based on their oral for many specific reasons they won't tell you. Usually cheap price.......or the vagina and sex is not good at all....or she's not known for it........
Good oral to me feels like continuous sex. If she's taking breaks to lick my cock and smile at it.........I wouldn't book an oral only session. She still needs to bring it.
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Originally Posted by Sinclar
More often then not that's what I'd really like but I get the impression most providers are looking to get to FS and the BJ is just a warm up.
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Yep. Even the rank amatuers can last 15 to 20 minutes before due to shtty technique they complain of sore necks and tired jaws. Lol This is tolerance versus enjoying.
Not many ladies are gifted enough to make a man cum early. The pussy is tried and true........in certain positions she doesn't have to do anything but adhere to your thrust.......which will make you cum faster. During oral she has to be a little more creative. Its more work and strenuous lol. Taxing on the hands......oh her carpel tunnel.......
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Are there any providers out there who are really into oral, really like it? Who will lick and nibble and teeth.........
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You lost me at teeth. Oh hells nah. Nothing more annoying than a chick who uses teeth. Ask her if she would like a lil teeth on her clit and see what she says though.......
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Now of course I'm not selfish here, I'd give as well as I got. DATY, DATO, if it oral I'll do it and enjoy it.
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They shouldn't even need this as motivation to perform besides the money. If they want to do it they will. What you do, or say you might do won't make much dfference most times.
What I will say though..........if you are very good at oral. Go down on her first to set the bar very high for her to perform. Try not to make her cum more than three times......unless she's the greedy type of cummer (my favorite). I like to lterally drain those types of all ther little energy. Then when the pussy is nce and relaxed and they ready to take a nap......time to fuck lol. If she gets lethargic and too relaxed her skill will falter maybe. Or she will take it as a oral challenge....and she will use her turn to put you in your place.......so u can't lose here.
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As I get older I seem to get weirder...sexually. Is that normal?
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No not weird, very normal. You just running out of stuff to do and try. Have fun and do you.
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