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but I can tell you its cheaper so far than where we use to run into each other for me.
Yup really taint a lie.
See there I have not had to even once pay lady just to get rid of her and go bother others please.
You know what sayin right shhhhh was no begging for buck shhhhhhh so far
that's awesome osd
really , my points are about me casue that's my main concern
at the "old" place
just seeing the small interaction of chicks with the other clientel was enough to turn me away from her
if intensifying the experience is going to help you get more of a hard on for the girls
then that's abolutly your prerogative...
I'm not really understanding how my personal views can hold so much weight
but ill gladly occupy the space up in peoples craniums , lol
True I am sure its not your kinda place for why you stated.
That is part I like, watching interaction
and no on the
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if intensifying the experience is going to help you get more of a hard on for the girls
for a long time at the now gone place and now this place so far. Other than one the first time I was there.
Not even one lady gave me the problem of
but if I thought about one of who I do see well yes "IT MOVED"
The one at the this new place where "IT MOVED" yes she was there but I was thinking about after.
And she is/was one of the few I see.
so I understand your point, but for me its not the opposite of your point.
as i just like to watch the interaction, but it does not kill nor help it for me.
mmm other than if I would or not if I wanted
This time at this new place the interaction of lady and client was a bit to much for me and a turn off for me. Guessing I don't someone watching me have sex with a lady. Seeing others in a way did kill it for me. The lady on lady it part of a lot of strip clubs. But the as Das put it "the train" of guys for a lick killed it for me.
How do you figure? He said that people got in thru the "Backdoor" and didn't pay the cover. You can't regulate that at all. Unless you post security and have some type of way to know who paid and who didn't pay. Not saying that one of the club members did it, but can't always assume it's a BF/pimp/working girl stripper what ever
Only based on Bens update, more of an assumption then anything else. But agree, if I'm paying and others aren't, how right is that? Whether members of said club or not?
Thank you Ben dover and everyone that came last night. I was informed that a 2people got in the porch door and did not pay. They will not be invited to the next party..!! This party was done by me and major.. The next one will be back to me again.. Lots of girls.. Naked witch was awesome.. Chloe did amazing.. The majority of guys were active.. Tipping.. Watching.. Playing.. Eating. Lol.
I enjoyed my self and can't wait till the new party Jan 9th.. My bday party and chloe bday party as well.. A lot more girls and guysaalready RSVP for that..
I am sorry ben dover about your camera.. I thought u had them when I didn't see them or you.. If you.inbox me I would like to.make that up to.you because it is not fair.. And I Dont like that someone took from you..
For those who didn't attend.. You were missed and I hope that you have a great holiday.!!!
Jonballs would have funny to.see you there..and u were talked about , XL (or whatever handle u go by), you were missed and talked about.. Thank you.
Thank you Ben dover and everyone that came last night. I was informed that a 2people got in the porch door and did not pay. They will not be invited to the next party..!! This party was done by me and major.. The next one will be back to me again.. Lots of girls.. Naked witch was awesome.. Chloe did amazing.. The majority of guys were active.. Tipping.. Watching.. Playing.. Eating. Lol.
I enjoyed my self and can't wait till the new party Jan 9th.. My bday party and chloe bday party as well.. A lot more girls and guysaalready RSVP for that..
I am sorry ben dover about your camera.. I thought u had them when I didn't see them or you.. If you.inbox me I would like to.make that up to.you because it is not fair.. And I Dont like that someone took from you..
For those who didn't attend.. You were missed and I hope that you have a great holiday.!!!
Jonballs would have funny to.see you there..and u were talked about , XL (or whatever handle u go by), you were missed and talked about.. Thank you.
So...a few things to respond to...BD, really mad that anyone would pull such a douche move, but I didn't hear about it until today. (The flashlight in the closet was to look for a coat that was left behind at the November party). I would have liked to know last night to canvas other attendees to see if anyone saw anything.
At this point I don't know exactly who got in without paying, except for one guy who found me later to pay the cover. He was on the list but came in with another guy as a vouched guest and don't think he knew there was a cover. There were supposedly 1 or 2 members who may have not paid the cover (members did get a discount and only had to pay 20 - nobody was allowed in for free). I will look into it to see if I can confirm. There were only 2 or 3 members there who were not part of the hobby too...the hobby members were accounted for. I like the idea of the wrist bands, and will probably try something like that next time.
There will always be a cover. These events are not affiliated with the venue's organization...the facility is rented and a cover is essential to meet that obligation. The general consensus is that the cover is not only reasonable, but a great value. Our goal is to build on the things that worked so far and continue to build value for the people who attend.
These parties are a work in progress and we are trying different things. This being more stripper oriented, the hobby culture was not prominent (don't really need a lengthy explanation about strippers). Because of this we opened the invitation to allow dancers to invite regulars (or in one case I know of, a casual client with a keen interest in the proceedings) and some guys accepted and on the list asked to bring friends, who were added to the list.
In January, it's back to a hobby party and invitations/admission will be more exclusive and will require some level of screening for everyone who attends.
As for levels of comfort and appeal for the amount and type of display; people have different tastes and preferences. I'm of the opinion that given a sense of what is possible, more guys will be interactive and more adventurous. I expect the girls to get more daring and comfortable cutting loose. It may not be for everyone, but I think there will be, pardon the pun, broad appeal to most of us.
A final word on hygiene. Absent a shower, there is only so much to do to address the issue, but aside from a bathroom with mouthwash /paper cups, all the dance areas had paper towels, wet naps, hand sanitizer, protection and a waste can. If that doesn't suffice, there are plenty of options that wouldn't require that stuff. It's up to each person to figure what works for them, but those measures strike me as pretty reasonable.
not my problem 
