whats wrong with a sd versus random guys every day

[essence]

Originally Posted by Kay2Day

I wouldnt go loooking for one on a hooker board .

Exactly. More likely to find one working for minimum wage at a bar. Do you want to work 60 hours a week and make $600, or work 30 hours, go out for dinner and watch a film once a week, and I will make up the difference.

Not a difficult decision if you are a gentleman and not creepy.

[Lucas McCain]

Originally Posted by essence

Exactly. More likely to find one working for minimum wage at a bar. Do you want to work 60 hours a week and make $600, or work 30 hours, go out for dinner and watch a film once a week, and I will make up the difference.

Not a difficult decision if you are a gentleman and not creepy.

Don't fool yourself. You're creepy. You just want to act like you are doing dumb ass kids a favor for paying for shit and they're too dumb to know it because they think a thousand bucks is a lot of money.

SB's are no different than hookers. They're just too dumb and naive to know the difference in how they earn their money....The smart ones know the difference and charge accordingly because they know they are just a paid pussy on call for lonely clowns.

[cr76]

Originally Posted by essence

Exactly. More likely to find one working for minimum wage at a bar. Do you want to work 60 hours a week and make $600, or work 30 hours, go out for dinner and watch a film once a week, and I will make up the difference.

Not a difficult decision if you are a gentleman and not creepy.

That still doesn't seem like a ton of money.

Even at that reasoning, your still paying 300 for dinner, movie and some play. Once a week, you might as well just be reg. customer. She could do that every other night and still make more money.

[essence]

I'm out. It's a different world. The two worlds will never understand each other.

There may be some overlap in some cases, but in other cases there is no overlap at all.

[cr76]

Oh I understand the world perfectly,

I just don't see how paying for some groceries and a date night is any different from just having a regular provider and her having a regular customer.

to me a Sugar Daddy is going to spoil the girl. Another poster said you need several to keep the cash going. Some girls have several sugar daddies.

Pay for school, pay her rent, pay a car note, Weekly allowance. Shopping trips. Some sugar daddies put their babies up in an apartment. SPOIL THE GIRL!!!

Dateline Episode on Sugar Daddies
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQRDqAqwGAk

the First daddy bought his girl boob job, Drops about $5000 a month on his girl ( they didn;t specify if that was total or her shopping bill alone), and can spends about $150,000.00 on babies.

[essence]

I find all this discussion about money quite sordid. Is that how you set a value on something? So sad.

[landon]

Originally Posted by Bustybiracial25

i mean ne personally would love that one honest guy i can enjoy time to time without any screening or worries. a guy i know that will take care of me mentally,physically.and financially so i wont have to look else where..much safer too huh guys??

The reality is there are very few guys in Houston who make the money to take 100% financial care of SB say in the 5-20K a month range assuming a budget 10% of income. On Seeking Arrangement the potential Sugar Babies outnumber the guys 8-1. If the guy does make that then he would have a girl living w him he could do 24/7. My pick wb a ruf n fun girl like Rebecca on the TV show Banshee. My hobbying activity has been w one girl for sometime for various reasons, but mainly it eliminates unpleasant surprises and reduces certain risks vs doing a different one every time.

[Tony Gambino]

Originally Posted by essence

I'm out. It's a different world. The two worlds will never understand each other.

There may be some overlap in some cases, but in other cases there is no overlap at all.

in your world....its ok to be a cheap fuckin creep, do you REALLY think a twenty year old fantasizes about you're old cheap ass?? shes so excited you brought some doritoes and cheese whiz!....and now you want to bareback her........how lucky can she get?? .....creep......its apparent you don't have a daughter

[Lucas McCain]

Originally Posted by essence

Exactly. More likely to find one working for minimum wage at a bar. Do you want to work 60 hours a week and make $600, or work 30 hours, go out for dinner and watch a film once a week, and I will make up the difference.

Not a difficult decision if you are a gentleman and not creepy.

Originally Posted by essence

I find all this discussion about money quite sordid. Is that how you set a value on something? So sad.

I think you stated your own opinion of the relative value with your own example, creepy guy.

[cr76]

Originally Posted by essence

I find all this discussion about money quite sordid. Is that how you set a value on something? So sad.

the whole key to a sugar daddy and escorts relationship is money.

especially when it comes to being a sugar daddy.

this is pay to play.

[essence]

Originally Posted by cr76

the whole key to a sugar daddy and escorts relationship is money.

especially when it comes to being a sugar daddy.

this is pay to play.

In that case I am no sugar daddy.

Look, these attempts at defining and categorising are doomed for failure. Many different kinds of escorts, hookers and sugar daddies.

I'm not saying money isn't important. If my daughter went out with a boy who didn't work or go to college, in order to be able to support her now or in the future, I would not be happy. If my son went out with a girl who didn't work or go to college, same thing, unless she was at home looking after babies.

The lowest of the low are those who expect somebody else to support them, whether hookers or married women, while they go shopping or get their nails/hair done.

[essence]

Originally Posted by Tony Gambino

in your world....its ok to be a cheap fuckin creep, do you REALLY think a twenty year old fantasizes about you're old cheap ass?? shes so excited you brought some doritoes and cheese whiz!....and now you want to bareback her........how lucky can she get?? .....creep......its apparent you don't have a daughter

It's funny when johns get all moralistic and judgemental. Almost as funny when hookers (or any woman) talk about 'I'm not like them other cheap hoes'.

[TravelingGentleman]

Jumping in to stir the pot.

Hookers vs. Sugar Babies.

My education on the topic (from ECCIE, and undoubtedly some of you fine folks - and elsewhere) - is this (boiled down to a nutshell)

A hooker wants $300 to spend an hour having sex. Then you leave. If you want to spend an hour chatting, that's another $300.

A sugar baby wants $300 to spend an hour having sex. But she also wants to learn from you and experience new things - so taking her to the Houston Opera to watch "The Marriage of Figaro" (4 hours) followed by a nice dinner (2 hours) BEFORE the hour of sex doesn't cost an additional $1800.

[Guest021817-2]

^^^

Good luck with that .....

Go find a fat girl that likes vodka and chocolate cake... Drag her to that shit... You will have more fun.

[essence]

Good one TG!

As I say, it is not all about sex and money. I spent a few hours with a girl on Friday, she called me and said she wanted some cake, so we met and had tea and cake. Now she wants to go watch a movie, so we will meet for that next week, and maybe dinner too. Haven't had sex for 18 months, since she started seeing a bf, but the bf is now an ex, so maybe she needs satisfying.

Another girl, we don't hang out so much, apart from maybe re energising during a break, but we would have sex all day and night if I had the time and energy, and my outgoings are, as you say, similar to an hour of hourly play.

Different folks, different strokes. I can never enjoy an hour by itself, and many hours becomes far too expensive with an hourly provider.