My suggestion is to make sure you SCREEN which im sure you already hopefully do.
Also, Most of the 'men' that post here dont ever make actual appointments so dont worry about ever having to run into the assholes. They are all talk, no play.
You will get fabulous guys that dont endulge in the petty drama of the board that just because they only lurk or dont have many reviews or post are still usually able to be screened via references.
Also I think a lot of the NO Reviews come from back page girls and the guys taking nasty risks.
Good luck!