BAD EXPERIENCES....!

[Luvs2Purrr]

I much needed that whole day, mentally. Possibly another day physically. I appreciate all those that reached out too me and a special thanks to a lady on the board who personally called me to talk with me. As I really didn't want to talk about it, it did help some just getting it out.

To clear up some confusing. It was a hobbyist, but no one from Eccie. It was my second bad experience in over 5 years. So, I (knock on wood) for myself and for anyone else that has been in a bad situation, whether female or male.

I will not go into full details, but a twenty something, 300 lb hobbyist had tied me up pretty damn tight and sat on my upper chest by my neck. As I was in a panic mode he took his sweet ass time getting off of me and few minutes later bit me in a very sensitive area close to my tunnel of love area. In which was extremely painful. That is all I will say about this.

His actions during the session has been reported by the lady that made contact with me on a different site, for those ladies that use all resources for screening.

One lesson that I took from this is...... I WILL NOT OFFER ANY TYPE OF SUBMISSION APPTS UNLESS I HAVE SEEN A HOBBYIST SEVERAL TIMES AND HAVE MORE TRUST IN WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN.
I have met a lot of great folks while in the hobby world and as there are a few bad apples....There are more great ones out there and I look forward to meeting those types of gentleman.

Originally Posted by lookn4boobies

As much as I like to pick on the Heffa lumps here.....I still respect them as humans...... It amazes me to what humans can to to other humans.

That's a "skinny heffalump" to you l4b....but thank you for the kindness.

Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Put the combination FROG rice down. Sleep It off.
If there was enough time to post this but not enough time to post an alert In the womens area for the rest us ladies to be aware of some nutjob out there then I'm calling bullshit.

Cut the theatricals

It's comments like these that I will most likely never post in private forums anymore. But I appreciate the PM of Apology.

[umpire1974]

It cracks me up what some people do on here. Someone post a thread and they don't believe it and then they start in with their put downs and blasting the OP for it being bullshit. And it's always the same people. Why don't you'll get a life and shut the fuck up and keep your nose out of other people's business til you know what's going on before you jump to conclusions.

Now that you know what actually happened you still think it's bullshit. Now you probably think it's a fabrication of her imagination. Better yet, just keep your comments and bs to yourself. Your wooden nickel opinion isn't worth even reading. I hope that nothing ever happens to any of you'll but if it does don't post it cause all that's gonna happen is your gonna be blasted and ridiculed for it.

[FoxyNC]

That's exactly why I don't even offer/allow anyone to even talk about "tying me up"...
I'll be damned if I allow my ability to (literally) defend myself to be taken away.

I am so so sorry L2P...

You are a braver soul than I to do so.
There is a lot of wisdom in your "building trust" thought.
Trust has to be earned, not freely given, in this day & age, sadly;
Especially when it comes to bondage...

I hope you can shake this off...
I'm sorry you had an encounter with a "bad apple."

They aren't all like that, but you know this!


<3
Foxy

P.S. Don't you use a safety word?

My safety word is "Banana."

:-P

[SpiceItUp]

My safeword is "pineapples"

[HobbyNinja]

Damn! I am sorry you had to experience that bullshit!

[FoxyNC]

Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

My safeword is "pineapples"

[Luvs2Purrr]

I'm normally the one issuing a safe word, not having to be given one. But I think kicking & then screaming that it fucking hurt should of been more then enough to completely stop!
I'd rather eat/bite a banana and pineapple. Red / Orange / Green are more common.

Thank you everyone for your replies and thoughtfulness on the matter. Just thank god it wasn't more serious. I've been down that road and hope to hell I never see that road again.
(knock on wood(y))