TCB Question

[Flybynight68]

Over the past week, using this sight and P411, I have sent messages to 18 lovely ladies. All of said ladies have logged into the site(s), some multiple times, yet I have received replies from only 3-5.

My questions: Is this normal? Should I expect such a low response rate? Is there some magic word I am not using that helps get responses?

Just looking for a little insight.

Cheers.

[i'va biggen]

They get a lot of PM'S here and on 411, may take a while till they get back, You can handle 18? Kudos.

[BigDeal]

Ive been told by providers that they prefer to be messaged in other ways other than 411. Not sure if they are hit with charges or what?

[woody4eroticfun]

Tell them that you have a smokin hot wife...lol

[Flybynight68]

I know right.....

Originally Posted by woody4eroticfun

Tell them that you have a smokin hot wife...lol

[Flybynight68]

Originally Posted by BigDeal

Ive been told by providers that they prefer to be messaged in other ways other than 411. Not sure if they are hit with charges or what?

Thats good to know. I have presumed since the "okays" reside on that site it would be easier for them to respond.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by woody4eroticfun

Tell them that you have a smokin hot wife...lol

Thanks for the spit-take, woody...

[Mizzou82]

Originally Posted by Flybynight68

Over the past week, using this sight and P411, I have sent messages to 18 lovely ladies. All of said ladies have logged into the site(s), some multiple times, yet I have received replies from only 3-5.

My questions: Is this normal? Should I expect such a low response rate? Is there some magic word I am not using that helps get responses?

Just looking for a little insight.

Cheers.

Don't know what your 411 profile looks like, but I think the fact that you have no reviews here in almost 2 yrs as a member may be the reason you have such a low response rate. They may see that and consider you a newbie, a lurker, or worse. Just a thought

[ScubaBad]

Originally Posted by Mizzou82

Don't know what your 411 profile looks like, but I think the fact that you have no reviews here in almost 2 yrs as a member may be the reason you have such a low response rate. They may see that and consider you a newbie, a lurker, or worse. Just a thought

+1
And maybe some of them know each other and realize that you have sent out requests to nearly 20 different gals in 1 week. If I was a provider and knew that, I would 100% think that you are just a troll and a time waster. When I'm "hunting", I contact 2, maybe 3 gals, NOT 18.

Were you planning to see them all this week if they did respond? I think not, so be more respectful of their time and maybe you will have a higher PERCENTAGE of response, not more responses. Send 3-5 and get 2-3.

[Guest090920]

In addition to the suggestions and other explanations, I will add that with 26 posts, no one knows you yet. As scuba said, why contact 18 in one week? Did you send any references with the 18 requests for meetings?

It is a holiday weekend and the girls may be taking some time off or working the messages from guys with references or regulars knowing it will be an easier process to get those gentlemen screened and scheduled.

Hope you hear from some of them soon.

Have fun and play safe!

[DallasRain]

I have noticed that when I send ladies "verification requests" on P411,several of them never answer back...so I always go behind it & send an email to their work email listed there.Alot of ladies don't check P411 as frequently as some....so best way to communicate is the work email.

[Flybynight68]

I appreciate all the feed back.

Upon the recommendation of a couple of fellows here I emailed multiple providers over the course of several days. I guess its possible ladies check my profile without even reading the message but that seems a bit odd.

Certainly not planning to see 18 providers in one week. My situation is very specific and unique. Currently my fun ends before the session begins. Along side my wife I "shop" and arrange the meet up for her.

P411 we have 4 okays. Reviews are not in the cards thus far. If we can arrange a date perhaps I can pursued my wife to write one.

Originally Posted by ScubaBad

+1
And maybe some of them know each other and realize that you have sent out requests to nearly 20 different gals in 1 week. If I was a provider and knew that, I would 100% think that you are just a troll and a time waster. When I'm "hunting", I contact 2, maybe 3 gals, NOT 18.

Were you planning to see them all this week if they did respond? I think not, so be more respectful of their time and maybe you will have a higher PERCENTAGE of response, not more responses. Send 3-5 and get 2-3.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by woody4eroticfun

Tell them that you have a smokin hot wife...lol

Originally Posted by ScubaBad

And maybe some of them know each other and realize that you have sent out requests to nearly 20 different gals in 1 week. If I was a provider and knew that, I would 100% think that you are just a troll and a time waster.

Originally Posted by scorpio31

In addition to the suggestions and other explanations, I will add that with 26 posts, no one knows you yet.

All we know is that this guy (presumably) has this "smokin' hot wife" that he can't seem to find a hook-up for in over two years of trolling.

Dude, maybe you are the problem!!

If, in fact, you do have such a wife, maybe you should let her look for herself! And leave us the fuck alone...

[Flybynight68]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I have noticed that when I send ladies "verification requests" on P411,several of them never answer back...so I always go behind it & send an email to their work email listed there.Alot of ladies don't check P411 as frequently as some....so best way to communicate is the work email.

Dallas, thanks for your feedback. I debated using all modes of communication for the same people. My fear was that ladies would see that as overly aggressive. I have followed up with a few ladies through different channels.

[Emmie]

Well, also you are asking for a couple. A lot of us don't do couples, so that might be why you're not getting a response.