What make ladies cut off contact.

[BigDeal]

OK so this has happened to me...Ill have 2-3 providers I see fairly regularly text me and say "heys lets hookup"
Ill reply with a when and where and then......nutin

Teasers!

[zeejoe]

Originally Posted by edwinrfletcher

What about the potential income left on the table? Does that effect your seeing / not seeing a client?

Might not be a perfect analogy comparing strippers to escorts, but-

I have a friend with an automotive service business. Long time ago, he sells some stuff to an old guy who owned a strip club in North KC- made him a really good deal - all cash. Over the next few months, my friend has more than a half-dozen of the club owners' strippers show up for similar deals for stuff for their cars. It was a joke after a while- these hot young girls would show up, get all the guys who worked there all "sprung", and pay in cash- tens and twenties folded up lengthwise. LOL. My friend eventually called the club owner and thanked him for sending all the business his way. The guy invited him out to a night at the club, and he invited me to go along.
Pretty typical experience- had some drinks on the house, and the owner sat down and talked to us most of the night. The guy was completely full of shit about almost everything, except how his business really ran.

He taught us a class about strippers. These are his thoughts, not mine....but man, a lot of it rings pretty true. He said all girls with money attract bullshit in their lives like gravity. He said there are three kinds of girls who worked there- the percentages of each can change, but they're always the same types.

The majority are bad employees and just generally sketchy people- being a stripper in the first place is usually not conducive to having your shit together in general.

There's a minority of girls in the middle who are more or less normal- kid or 2, pay their bills, show up for work, etc.

Then there's the smaller minority of girls at the top of the food chain- either smoking hot or killer personality- or both- who can compel guys to spend. Make them want to keep buying watered-down drinks and get up and hit the ATM machine and want to "tip the DJ" just to keep that girl happy. He said the problem with those girls is you can't find enough of them, and the ones you do have, eventually, just don't want to come to work. They make so much money so fast, and the job is such a grind sometimes, that eventually they say 'fuck it' and take a week or two off. It drove him crazy, but he put up with it because they earned. Sometimes.

I don't want to assume too much about strippers and escorts overlapping, but man, a whole lot of that has looked pretty familiar over the years.

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by BigDeal

OK so this has happened and say "heys lets hookup"
reply with a when and where and then......nutin

Teasers!

Maybe it's your impeccable grammar/ spelling . .. Lmaoooo
Just offer them candy, we ♡♡♡♡ candy
While you're at it BD...Remove the titty clamps from( Hmmmm where were they last) and put one on each side of your BUTTOCKS!!! PRONTO MUSAFA!!!

[Unique_Carpenter]

ohh, a candystore...


But for Mikey: It's just scheduling stuff. Don't sweat it, seriously. Even happens in the civie world.

[SpinnerSarah619]

I cut guys off when they send me countless pm's/text messages about hooking up, and keep saying they're wanting to come see me, but then don't.. Doesn't bother me if you don't want to see me, but don't send me a pm or text wasting my time in those messages. Just like you guys don't like your time wasted, I don't like mine wasted as well.. I'm as nice as can be, and when I feel like it's too much, I just ignore the person altogether, because I'd rather be the sweet person that I am, then be a b***h. That is not in my nature to mean, but do not take my niceness for weakness

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by SpinnerSarah619

I cut guys off when they send me countless pm's/text messages about hooking up, and keep saying they're wanting to come see me, but then don't.. Doesn't bother me if you don't want to see me, but don't send me a pm or text wasting my time in those messages. Just like you guys don't like your time wasted, I don't like mine wasted as well.. I'm as nice as can be, and when I feel like it's too much, I just ignore the person altogether, because I'd rather be the sweet person that I am, then be a b***h. That is not in my nature to mean, but do not take my niceness for weakness

Several things to point out:

1) This hobby aint cheap...financial situations change all the time
2) I think some guys get the illusion there is a friendship there...
3) Life sometimes happens
4) Don't take it so personal....

I for one was one of those guys that wished to see ya but my work and money both caught up with me...We may text only a few times when you initially get into town....but in no way overwhelming.

That being said you are a great girl...very hot and a great time BCD and worth every penny

[SpinnerSarah619]

Originally Posted by BigDeal

Several things to point out:

1) This hobby aint cheap...financial situations change all the time
2) I think some guys get the illusion there is a friendship there...
3) Life sometimes happens
4) Don't take it so personal....

I for one was one of those guys that wished to see ya but my work and money both caught up with me...We may text only a few times when you initially get into town....but in no way overwhelming.

That being said you are a great girl...very hot and a great time BCD and worth every penny

BD, as I mentioned in my text, this was not toward you on bit luv.. As you mentioned, we've only text a few times, not countless times. So how could I possibly talking about you?

I'm just answering the question asked.. Anywhere I visit, not just KC. And honestly, I find myself having more fun out here, then I do my own city, which is why I try to visit as much as I can

Please do not take what I say personal, as it has nothing to do with anyone here. Again, I was just answering the question...

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by SpinnerSarah619

BD, as I mentioned in my text, this was not toward you on bit luv.. As you mentioned, we've only text a few times, not countless times. So how could I possibly talking about you?

I'm just answering the question asked.. Anywhere I visit, not just KC. And honestly, I find myself having more fun out here, then I do my own city, which is why I try to visit as much as I can

Please do not take what I say personal, as it has nothing to do with anyone here. Again, I was just answering the question...

All good sweetheart!!

[Emmie]

Originally Posted by SpinnerSarah619

I cut guys off when they send me countless pm's/text messages about hooking up, and keep saying they're wanting to come see me, but then don't.. Doesn't bother me if you don't want to see me, but don't send me a pm or text wasting my time in those messages. Just like you guys don't like your time wasted, I don't like mine wasted as well.. I'm as nice as can be, and when I feel like it's too much, I just ignore the person altogether, because I'd rather be the sweet person that I am, then be a b***h. That is not in my nature to mean, but do not take my niceness for weakness

Sarah, I agree 100% with this statement!!

[goud2geaux]

So what about confirming and getting a guy to a particular location then abruptly cutting off contact? I've had that multiple times. Even tried to connect with one of the same ladies again and she simply had no explanation or idea why she stopped responding. So common that I end up staying away for months. Then when I try again the issue is just compounded cuz I have no recent contacts/references. I'm convinced it can't be the ladies. Must be me lol.

[Emmie]

Originally Posted by goud2geaux

So what about confirming and getting a guy to a particular location then abruptly cutting off contact? I've had that multiple times. Even tried to connect with one of the same ladies again and she simply had no explanation or idea why she stopped responding. So common that I end up staying away for months. Then when I try again the issue is just compounded cuz I have no recent contacts/references. I'm convinced it can't be the ladies. Must be me lol.

Oh no, I would be pissed if I got to a location and then NOTHING! That right there is just plain rude and unprofessional!

[Guest090620-1]

Originally Posted by Emmie

Oh no, I would be pissed if I got to a location and then NOTHING! That right there is just plain rude and unprofessional!

+1

[Mizzou82]

I have got to the location twice, once knocking on the door to the room and had communication cut off. Found out later in both cases the girls,,,,how should I say,,,,,were more controlled by what they spend their hobby money on than the $ they would get from me that night