What make ladies cut off contact.

[BigMikeinKC]

Ladies - what make you cut off contact with a potential client or current client?

I'm not trying to be paranoid, but this has happened 3 times in the past two weeks. Made initial contact, received a response, then BOOM, no more responses. Nothing inappropriate in my messages - no vulgar language or pics, talk of money or anything else I can think of.

Okay, maybe I am being paranoid - is there a common blacklist that one can be put on - even if for no reason?

[skbinks]

It "might" depend on the provider you are trying to contact. They might have a habit of that and it might not be anything you did or said. I found out one provider did that to me because of my area code and that I lived in Johnson county. Since I would have had to travel to MO to see her.

[BigDeal]

I had this exact same thing this past weekend with Jordanxxx. I reached out to see if she was available.
She replied "yes absolutely send me references!"
I sent them along with my 411 and then she went dark.

I reached out to the providers I referenced and they all said never heard a word..

Complete waste of my time

[BigMikeinKC]

Shit happens, but I like the courtesy of a call, text or PM. I'll just move on and strike them off my to do list. Too bad for them as I can be a loyal client if we hit it off.

[Savannah Moon]

I have been guilty of that..
1.) Personal life.. especially my offspring/ family, life happens.
2.) Several clients connect in a short period ( can be overwhelming at times)
3.) Messages don't come through on eccie.
4.) USE TO..over book
5.)OCCASIONALLY. .if bitch mode kicks in, I am going UTR.
6.) Reached my limit. Sometimes we can't see EVERYONE.
I communicate much better than I used to when I first began...much better.
I don't know if this was helpful. Don't take it personally, 94.3% of the time it isn't about YOU. Oxoxxx

[Guest090620-1]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

Don't take it personally, 94.3% of the time it isn't about YOU. Oxoxxx

Agreed , we all have our days. Usually if I am refusing to see someone I try to say that... hey you were a dick last time or you know, whatever the case may be. If you just don't hear back from me I'm usually just busy or taking time for myself. Also If I miss a call or text message and it's been over an hour, I don't call or text back for their discretion. Say I was busy so you just went home instead. Two hours later I call back and your wife wonders who's calling... that's not cool. Keep your head up babe and play safe :-*

[edwinrfletcher]

What about the potential income left on the table? Does that effect your seeing / not seeing a client?

[DestinyInKC]

Originally Posted by JessicaKCRabbit

Agreed , we all have our days. Usually if I am refusing to see someone I try to say that... hey you were a dick last time or you know, whatever the case may be. If you just don't hear back from me I'm usually just busy or taking time for myself. Also If I miss a call or text message and it's been over an hour, I don't call or text back for their discretion. Say I was busy so you just went home instead. Two hours later I call back and your wife wonders who's calling... that's not cool. Keep your head up babe and play safe :-*

I agree 100% with you and savannah! Most of the time its not the client, but so much goes on in my personal life sometimes its hard to keep up with work.

[BigMikeinKC]

First, I have never seen or contacted the ladies that have posted to this thread so far, but I do appreciate their input.

In the particular situations I was referring to, I sent an email or PM that the provider responded positively to, I sent a follow up email or PM to make arrangements and heard nothing. It is not an instance where the provider saw me before and I was a dick. (To which providers who have seen me will state I am always a gentleman with impeccable hygiene.) "The something came up and I don't have time to respond" excuse doesn't fly as I have seen the providers reading the PM or emails and posting on the board (numerous times) and at least a couple of days have passed.

It is not about me initially, but in this instance the providers don't respond leaving mt scratching my head and holding my dick in my hand, they have made it so. Is it that big of an issue to respond with a simply "sorry, but no."?

I guess what I am talking about is common courtesy.

Last time this happened is when I posted an honest review, which basically said the gal was not my type but nothing was horribly wrong, so I did not give a No recommendation, but a Yes instead. The provider ripped me a new one for a review where I said I wouldn't see her again. I could not find any provider in St. Louis (where this happened) who would see me for over a year after that. Finally, one did who was hesitant because she "heard bad things". That's why I asked about a blacklist.

[DestinyInKC]

Originally Posted by BigMikeinKC

First, I have never seen or contacted the ladies that have posted to this thread so far, but I do appreciate their input.

In the particular situations I was referring to, I sent an email or PM that the provider responded positively to, I sent a follow up email or PM to make arrangements and heard nothing. It is not an instance where the provider saw me before and I was a dick. (To which providers who have seen me will state I am always a gentleman with impeccable hygiene.) "The something came up and I don't have time to respond" excuse doesn't fly as I have seen the providers reading the PM or emails and posting on the board (numerous times) and at least a couple of days have passed.

It is not about me initially, but in this instance the providers don't respond leaving mt scratching my head and holding my dick in my hand, they have made it so. Is it that big of an issue to respond with a simply "sorry, but no."?

I guess what I am talking about is common courtesy.

Last time this happened is when I posted an honest review, which basically said the gal was not my type but nothing was horribly wrong, so I did not give a No recommendation, but a Yes instead. The provider ripped me a new one for a review where I said I wouldn't see her again. I could not find any provider in St. Louis (where this happened) who would see me for over a year after that. Finally, one did who was hesitant because she "heard bad things". That's why I asked about a blacklist.

Well, I personally have never heard your name or any alerts about you Just keep trying hun

[6ULDV8]

BigMike I know you've been around for a long time so you know this runs hot and cold. Can't tell you how many times I've shown up at a predetermined destination only to have the second call go to voice mail. I don't take it personally anymore. It's just the yin and yang of things. For the most part there's no sense of obligation nor is it organized. If you pop up on the radar and it's rent time or car payment time, or they're just in the mood, batter up.

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by 6ULDV8

BigMike I know you've been around for a long time so you know this runs hot and cold. Can't tell you how many times I've shown up at a predetermined destination only to have the second call go to voice mail. I don't take it personally anymore. It's just the yin and yang of things. For the most part there's no sense of obligation nor is it organized. If you pop up on the radar and it's rent time or car payment time, or they're just in the mood, batter up.

It may be that way for some providers...IDK.
Not everyone is the same, that is what the DNS list is for, I believe.

I have had my fair share of setting up dates ( incalls) paying for an upscale location 120&up PLUS INCIDENTALS (25,50,100) & BOOM..DISAPPEAR. .

That RARELY happens anymore. And most clients I see now would NEVER do that to me. BUT, time and ass burns have taught me how to eliminate that...
Either way. ..completely boils down to respect & Common courtesy.
Some people (male & female ) HAVE IT
Some Don't
Brush your buns off and find someone to kiss your boo boo & make it better

[Enchanterlingum]

I had the same sort of thing happen to me while I was on vacation in FL. I left my hotel a day early to have a nice and long no rush appointment on the way back home. After the appointment was made, crickets. I said to hell with it, and brought my money home to spend here instead. Pretty much the same thing happened again with someone in this very thread. Once again, I said to hell with it, and made another phone call. That bad luck money didn't stick with me for long.

[Savannah Moon]

ALWAYS OTHER OPTIONS..
Always oxoxxx

[onewayhighway]

I have thought the same thing the last 2 weeks... each time it was we are on then no text or return call... I just took it as they aren't as dependable or professional as I would like my lady to be... communication is everything and yet no response, tells me they don't care about keeping clients as much as they say... yet a lot of out of town girls are prompt in responding, on time and have a lot better attitude than some of the locals... and it sucks because there are some local ladies i have really wanted to have fun with... i feel your frustration man