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Nicky Wayne · 06-14-2015, 08:35 PM

How long would you give a provider to get ready for a session. Where why I am asking had a 5 30pm appointment set up text her about 15 after 5 pm said she was running late would 6 30 be ok text back yes. So now I have to kill a hour after driving a 100 miles to Shreveport 6 30 pm get another text could we make it 7 30 pm I need to go eat. I text back I am going back to Texas. Need some feed back on this from both sides provider & clients. How long would you wait ?

DallasRain · 06-14-2015, 08:55 PM

MOST reputable providers should be time efficient! Time management is an importatnt part of a successful & fun session.

jwood · 06-14-2015, 08:56 PM

That's too long but I would have confirmed before I left.

Nicky Wayne · 06-14-2015, 09:18 PM

Needed to go buy some stuff at bass pro shop anyways there biting at the power plant & some BBQ at one of my favorite place. It is the curse of Staff edit: Removed ref to forbidden topic.

drinkindreamin · 06-14-2015, 09:59 PM

I'm just a rookie but I've had this happen,where we had a time on a Fri or Sat night. When it got to be that time. I Got a text that she was running late or something run over. She was tired or started her period....Some bullshit and Im a fairly understanding guy but don't lie to me. Honestly I think she over booked or caught a bigger fish. Therefore she cancelled or rescheduled with me. This bullshit ain't rocket science. I just wished we could be honest with one another. Don't waste my time and I wont waste yours.

Guest123018 · 06-14-2015, 11:07 PM

Her TCB skills are horrible

BigAceVegas · 06-15-2015, 04:00 AM

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Originally Posted by lil nicky

Needed to go buy some stuff at bass pro shop anyways there biting at the power plant & some BBQ at one of my favorite place. It is the curse of Staff edit: Removed ref of forbidden topic.

Is specialk out of retirement?

Nicky Wayne · 06-15-2015, 05:47 AM

Nope but it does sound like her crap

MuffinMan · 06-15-2015, 08:39 AM

specialk....is this who y'all are talking about? http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=95595

Spell it with all lowercase and it's a provider. Throw in some uppercase letters and it becomes a forbidden topic. Just FYI.
MM

Harley Diablo · 06-15-2015, 08:45 AM

Does not sound like special K. She is always super on top of things when I talk with her.
Top notch lady and a good friend.

Headkeeper · 06-15-2015, 09:02 AM

I believe lil nicky is make a reference to the often late but always loved specailk behaviour to the lady he is trying to see and not specailk herself.

This has always been a problem in the hobby, cancellations and ncns by hobbyist and providers alike. Communication and respect goes a long way on both side of the fence.

How long would I wait? It depends. If I know the habits of the lady (thanks to those who put them in the reviews) and I really want to see her I'll chill with a cold beverage until I get the "I'm ready" text or until my time has run out.

Nicky Wayne · 06-15-2015, 10:52 AM

Thank you HK for the correct answer

Harley Diablo · 06-15-2015, 11:04 AM

Most are on time if they are mature and take care of business. I have gotten to the point if they are 10 mins late, I leave. Sure they bitch and moan but it is a business and I am a business man.
I always book at least a few hours ahead of time so I see no reason not to be ready.
It is my money and if they don't want it, there is always a better one down the road.
Still lots around to take up the slack.

drinkindreamin · 06-15-2015, 02:08 PM

Question was how long is too long to wait? Guess the answer to that depends on how bad you NEED to see her. Honestly when I get a text that a provider is running late. I feel like I wasn't important enough for her to be on time. That may not be her fault being that things do happen but in my case I feel like there was a bigger fish involved and that's a turn off for me. I have a hard enough time with real life women and relationships and all the bullshit that comes along with that. I damn sure don't need to be rejected or dicked around in something I'm paying for.

bertro6543 · 06-17-2015, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by drinkindreamin

Question was how long is too long to wait? Guess the answer to that depends on how bad you NEED to see her. Honestly when I get a text that a provider is running late. I feel like I wasn't important enough for her to be on time. That may not be her fault being that things do happen but in my case I feel like there was a bigger fish involved and that's a turn off for me. I have a hard enough time with real life women and relationships and all the bullshit that comes along with that. I damn sure don't need to be rejected or dicked around in something I'm paying for.

exactly!