room or naw?

[ShelaMarie]

Thanks for everyone's input. I was just curious if I was the only one battling with this. It's nice to know everyone's point of view

[TechOne]

Originally Posted by TaraBlonde

i totall feel you! i had to weigh my options. i hate the insecurity of a hotel as far as being monitored by hotel staff and the possibility of LE presence. Then you have drug dealers and pimps and random dumb shits hangin out at in the parking lot, hallways, lobby, etc @ any given time. I was very apprehensive to bring my professional life into my home. I live in a very quiet neighborhood and my privacy was a concern but i am extremely selective about who i see and it is so much more safe and convenient for me, not to mention the money and time i save not having to get a room. If you see alotta clients, especially people you dont know, hotel is probably best. Either way, some people are always gonna have something negative to say about whatever we do, so i just go with my instincts & do what feels right to me.

Well stated...and, oh, by the way, your instincts feel fantastic to me! The idea about the clipboard or a brief case is ok, but I'd rather walk up to a girls house or apartment with lunch or dessert or a gift bag and balloon, instead! Tara, you do like cheesecake don't you?

[TaraBlonde]

Originally Posted by TechOne

Well stated...and, oh, by the way, your instincts feel fantastic to me! The idea about the clipboard or a brief case is ok, but I'd rather walk up to a girls house or apartment with lunch or dessert or a gift bag and balloon, instead! Tara, you do like cheesecake don't you?

do i?! the question is WHEN?!

[bawdyboy]

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[Moto1971]

Personally I like either, as long as it is clean and does not smell of smoke. There are certain hotels here in LR that I refuse to go to mainly because the smoke is so bad that I can't breath and that just makes for a bad time for all.

[scooter]

i prefer you cum to my place...scoot

[#SarahLynn]

i would only c someone at my place if i have met them a lot never would I put my twins at risk of a stocker ! Sorry not sorry but my kids safety is worth way more then $250
I keep my business life complete separated from my home life .
I have 2 phones as well .
But u learn as u go girl . If I was u I would consider sharing a studio apartment with a local lady if u trust anyone well enough .

[niteswimmer1]

This is definitely a double edge sword. I have visited with ladies in both places and both have their good and bad points. Personally I hate like hell having to walk through a hotel lobby. I met with both Felina and Sandra Dee in what I would call an up-scale hotel and I was still nervous as hell until I got in the room, the door was locked and I was sure we were alone. I have also made those visits to what most would say are lower quality hotels, and I was the same kind of nervous. On the other side of this I was once at a private residence and the lady and I both heard what sounded like a door close, Damn near scared me limp. She assured me that no one was there but I felt uncomfortable for the rest of my time there. Due to being a local that has been around for years I am very cautious who I see and where, Normally visits will be after the sun goes down and for me to be seen by friends, the SO's friends or family going or leaving a hotel would be hard as hell to explain. Plus hotels to me are just a mecca for LE. It would be a lot easier for me to explain being at a residence but then there is the risk of some one else being there or someone coming in during the meeting. Damned if you do, and Damned if you don't! It would probably be better for me to find one local trusted lady that knows how to take care of herself, her business and that loves her work, but I come on here and 411 and see all these beautiful ladies and I just can't keep from wondering what it would be like to be with her. I know in my real life world they would never give me a second look but in my hobby world most anything is possible. Have fun friends but most of all Play Safe and Play Smart.