room or naw?

[ShelaMarie]

What's the big deal an rooms? I'm starting to like it more then my home. I feel my home is a bit too much info. THINK AB IT, the guys know where we live, what we look like, what we drive.....etc..and all we known is their appointment time.... I dunno but I like them room nidea...YOUR THOUGHTS???

[scottprestons]

An incall is just a place to meet. Either a hotel or your residence is fine by me.

If I were you I would only do the house on regulars that you trust ,if at all. Imho.

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

"I feel my home is a bit too much info. THINK AB IT, the guys know where we live, what we look like, what we drive.....".

And you are just now starting to think about this?

[ShelaMarie]

Right, I know its a little late

[Sexyladyneeded]

From a gentleman seeking like minded lady for a mutual great time, I agree 100%. The obvious, to make sure on a few things before meeting anyone or anywhere.

[TaraBlonde]

i totall feel you! i had to weigh my options. i hate the insecurity of a hotel as far as being monitored by hotel staff and the possibility of LE presence. Then you have drug dealers and pimps and random dumb shits hangin out at in the parking lot, hallways, lobby, etc @ any given time. I was very apprehensive to bring my professional life into my home. I live in a very quiet neighborhood and my privacy was a concern but i am extremely selective about who i see and it is so much more safe and convenient for me, not to mention the money and time i save not having to get a room. If you see alotta clients, especially people you dont know, hotel is probably best. Either way, some people are always gonna have something negative to say about whatever we do, so i just go with my instincts & do what feels right to me.

[notequiteatroll]

interesting to hear the different sides.
i always thought bringing the hobby home seems way to risky on both sides.

if i go to a lady's house i wonder if someone else is in the house (or somebody could just come in during) and it's a setup to rob me. though of course we always hear of it in the motel setting too.

but mostly just thought it'd be too risky for the ladies. guys that seem nice (or even start out nice) can get pretty fuckin looney over a woman that smiles and sucks their dick.

[Hogfan69]

My biggest concern about going to a lady's home is I don't know how much traffic she normally has and if her neighbors are nosy because of it. Especially going in and out during the day.

[frenchozarkie]

Just carry a clipboard or brief. Selling that insurance.

[ShelaMarie]

The only bad part of a room is if your clients all cancel. Then u have a room for nothing. Example yesterday, I had 4 gentleman cancel back to back.all because i was n a roomSo there I was with this room. So making enough to cover the room is good, but hell, momma needs a new pair of shoes...

[Riverseeker]

I am usually very nervous in a hotel. The only exception was the hotel Saralynn was in when I met her. I didn't even know it was there and it was more upscale than I've met lady's in. I was very nervous initially, because it was only my second "date" and my first in a hotel, but after I arrived the thing I was the most nervous about was not the location, but seeing her. The second time I met her there, I walked in like I owned the place. LOL

On the other hand, a residential incall can be nerve racking as well. What if LE is watching and pull me over when I leave? What if another client drops by unexpectedly? What if a boyfriend/husband comes home? What if there are cameras? (LOL) Ok...the camera thing doesn't worry me that much with the lady's here but it's still in the back of my mind.

I guess we all have concerns about what we do but that is just part of it. We weigh the facts and play the odds. I don't think I would be in the hobby if it wasn't for ECCIE and the lovely lady's here.

[willro]

I've had incall visits at a lady's residence and at hotels. It doesn't matter to me as long as the place isn't a dirty shit hole or unsafe. I frequently have outcall to my hotel when I travel. Only once have I invited a provider to my home. You have to have some level of trust established before that's ever a good idea.
If I were the provider, I would be very cautious of using my home for business. I'd get to know a client a little before taking the chance. Most guys you will meet here are fine, but there's bound to be some nut job stalker registered here somewhere. You don't want to discover him after he's in your living room. Save the in home visits for the 2nd or 3rd time you have a date with the guy.

[Yusif]

Personally I would think if your comfortable with a client then the house is the place to be. New clients of course the no tell motel.

[Guest010421]

Ladies, please do not think that I'm picking on you......the quotes below are just some things that struck me while reading this thread that I feel the need to comment on. My comments are not directed to anyone in particular, only the topic at hand! Most importantly, I agree 100% that each individual has to decide what is best for them and their situation.

Originally Posted by Ivanna kumalott

I feel my home is a bit too much info. THINK AB IT, the guys know where we live, what we look like, what we drive.....etc..

This is one of the reasons I never hobby at my home. I prefer to keep my real world and hobby world completely separate. Not to mention, I believe that I owe it to my "mini me" to provide the safest, most secure, stable environment possible. How can I ensure I am providing such if I have strangers in and out of the home?

Originally Posted by TaraBlonde

Then you have drug dealers and pimps and random dumb shits hangin out at in the parking lot, hallways, lobby, etc @ any given time.

Personally, I feel where you chose to book your incall is key to avoiding these issues! If it's not somewhere I would be willing to stay while traveling on vacation....then it's not somewhere I'm going to book an incall.

Originally Posted by Ivanna kumalott

The only bad part of a room is if your clients all cancel. Then u have a room for nothing. Example yesterday, I had 4 gentleman cancel back to back.all because i was n a roomSo there I was with this room. So making enough to cover the room is good, but hell, momma needs a new pair of shoes...

Tighter screening methods will help alleviate this issue to an extent. I haven't had many issues with last minute (after getting the room) cancellations nor NSNCs. Maybe I've just been lucky but I believe that it's both the way I screen and the caliber of guys I cater to.

[LittleRockLover]

Very well said Felina on all points above... My sentiments exactly.