The following is one of the best thought out description of the hobby. It is also an excellent tribute to all young mothers who will stop at nothing to look after their children. Everything in life is about taking care of the children, all of us need to remember that.
Gemma is not the first mother to to anything possible to take care of her kids. Some of you guys need to remember this, and give the ladies the respect that most of them deserve. Yes, I said most of them because there are those who attack the guys, and rob them. But, that is the minority.
The observation are:- most of these ladies have children
- when the children are older a lot of the ladies retire.
- one finds good and bad people in all areas of society
- education does not guarantee obtaining a job
- claiming your superior status as a male does not make it so
From Gemma:
GED?? Lol.. I graduated High School, went to college, lost my virginity, joined the AF, then I started escorting at the age of 28.
........... I don't market myself to everyone....obviously. And I know i'm not as intelligent as some but I make use of what I do possess .... COMMON SENSE... It turns out to be very valuable in this line of work and life.
Its too close to the holidays to be this angry. We all have problems Jayhawker but nobody else is trying to hurt other people. Nobody is trying to hurt Lacey. Dahlia was actually trying to help her. It wasn't this serious until you blew up.
I hope your Holidays are safe and filled with happiness!
Gemma
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I got out of the military after my 6 years, honorably discharged, because it was hard to be in the military (active duty) and a single mother. Shortly after, I lost everything and my kids and I were homeless for 3 days with only the clothes on our back and our car. Nobody would offer us a place to lay our heads so I started escorting and had a house for my kids that week. We had no furniture, no clothes and no food. My kids had no toys or blankets or beds but I did everything I could to replace those things and provide stability for my family.
I didn't do this for shits and giggles and I don't care about diamonds or fancy cars. But I cared enough to get off my ass and do something. There's my reason. I was dealt a bad hand but I make it better and honestly the people I've met in this hobby help make it better. This was the place where I could go and nobody judged me. That's why you have such a hard time here, you are both simple minded and judgmental.... of the ladies especially.
I'm ok with my life. Are you ok with yours?
It is tough trying to raise kids even with a good partner. Raising children alone is tough. Believe me I know about that. Without the grandparents I don't know how I could have made it.
Lighten up guys. We need each other. We know the hobby can help get on with life when life is rough. Guys need sex, it is how we are made. But the better part of life is developing a relationship that establishes a family.
Now for the philosophy of JR:
Life is like a rubber ball.
When life slams you down,
what matters most is
how high you bounce.
JR
