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Or, book an encounter with each of them at different times..
call it your own personal, Hobby Rodeo.
...and when you're with one of them, enjoying your visit...and it's happy-time...and you two are in the hamster position, and you have a firm grip on their hips, lean over and say, "You know, (enter the other woman's name here), was right about what she said about you".... and then hang on for dear life, cuz you're about to get a quick lesson in the art of Rodeo, particularly, in trying to hang on.
Psychological projection was conceptualized by Sigmund Freud (6 May 1856 – 23 September 1939) in the 1900s as a defense mechanism in which a person unconsciously rejects his or her own unacceptable attributes by ascribing them to objects or persons in the outside world.[1] For example, a person who is rude may accuse other people of being rude.
Why? Because that's precisely why there IS an Ad section...to let her familiar friends know that she's in-town/available.
Heaven forbid she sends out a private group message. The whiners would come out in droves, pissing and moaning about unsolicited messaging...not so much from her familiar friends, but let it slip that she sent out an unsolicited private message to a group of guys and she'd be raked over the coals.
Wouldn't she, Still Looking??
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Sending out a solicitation PM? Oh yes that would offend some guys for sure. Shit if I RTM'D PM'S from all the ladies that contact me I'd have a new part time job. Truth be told I love it. While guys are perched like vultures in the Welcome section I just sit back and read my PM'S. They all wonder how in the hell did SL get to her first? Some guys cut off their nose despite their face!
What if a girl (who claimed to be low volume) made herself seem exclusive like does'nt "work" much,
but when you finally got that coveted appointment, although none of her profiles state it-
she informs you you HAVE to do a multiple hour session to book with her.
What to do you?
Nobody can "force" me to do much; if you WANT to do the longer session, that's what you do, otherwise you move on...
I honestly don't understand the problem. Most guys who are going to want to book with such a "low volume" provider are going to be the type who want longer appointments.
No Nikki, apparently getting fucked silly for hours on each at each appointment is NOT bad, that makes a girl low volume...right?!?
I know one thing- THAT makes my 2 appointments a day really not seem like such of a big deal now, IJS!
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Originally Posted by Candi Staxx
Right, totally fair!
Do you think thats something the provider should have disclosed first?
Before making you jump through hoops with screening and taking much time.
Do you feel maybe she should have that on her profile somewhere?
Do you feel like its an automatic upsell when as soon as its time to set appointment she lets you know the only way your playing is you HAVE to pay for several hours. She's low volume so thats what you have to do to see her.
Is that wrong? Would you right away feel like you were being scammed basically?
What if a girl (who claimed to be low volume) made herself seem exclusive like does'nt "work" much,
but when you finally got that coveted appointment, although none of her profiles state it-
she informs you you HAVE to do a multiple hour session to book with her.
What to do you?
Well CANDI, I guess since you could not find a way to get rid of the competition by YOURSELF you found another way to do it:
Originally Posted by Candi Staxx View Post
Thank you Whispers! Keep doing what you do here! Its more important than some realize.