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Guest113018-1 · 08-06-2014, 01:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Prolongus

Ah yes...the better offer. I don't blame you girls for canceling my one hour at the last minute because a guy wants to see you for two hours. Don't blame you a bit.

Hello plan B.

I have not NC/NS anyone nor has it happened to me, but I did have to cancel once and have been cancelled on few times, only once at the last minute. I often hear about plan B, I want to know how plan B works. Do you schedule with plan A and then schedule with plan B incase plan A doesn't come through. If plan does make it do, do you then cancel on plan B, telling her that planA didn't bail on you or do you NC/NS on B. Seems to me the only logical Plan B would be the AMPS or a studio that you have been to in the past, or a provider you have seen that you know usually available on short notice. Not something that is preset. Am I right or wrong?

ForeignPlaytoy · 08-06-2014, 01:35 AM

For me, plan b would go like this.
Hobby guy 1 "Hi, Ms. X, I may be available tomorrow around 4pm, would short notice work? I may not know until close to that time?"
Ms. X. "Sure hunny, let me know about 3/3:30 if you can, if not it's okay, I will be at my incall either way"
Hobby guy 1 "Thanks, I will let you know. If not tomorrow, next Monday for sure."

Hobby guy 1 sets a possible with Ms. X.
His plan A, Ms. Zee, comes through and he doesn't need plan b. He calls Ms. X to let her know he can't make it. So to make it up to Ms. X, he sees her next Monday.

Lol, hope that helps.

Xoxo
Tay

pyramider · 08-06-2014, 06:13 AM

I thinck the NCNSs are done more by the fucktards than the ladies. How many times has a traveling lady left an area without money due to being booked up and then getting NCNSed by all of them? Or the fucktards that just get cold feet with established ladies.

HoneyRose · 08-06-2014, 08:44 AM

Random thoughts on how this type of thing shows in the real world (and it baffles me just as much as the NCNS in this world!)

**Contractors who start the work and then disappear ~~ stop answering phone calls . I just pay Handyman Connection their high fees because someone WILL show up LOL! (If one guy's truck breaks down/horse get sick/friend needs bailed from jail, the company will send someone else).

Has anyone watched "Holmes on Homes"? Contractors starting a job and not coming back is a recurring theme.

**A club I belonged to out-of-state held a picnic in the park. I FLEW in for the event! (yes, I'm that responsible), and there was about a 90% no-show of the people who had confirmed they would come.

I felt so bad for the hostess! She had way too much food and was wandering around trying to get a phone signal to see if people needed directions. Whenever she reached someone they had a "Sorry I can't come" response. No reason they couldn't have let her know earlier.

**The Real Housewives of Orange County get PAID to be at each other's events. One poor girl was on her birthday party bus waiting and waiting (only one out of five ladies came). After an hour past the departure time, she texted one (Tamara, a 45-year-old woman) and was told "Sorry. My child woke up with a fever this morning so I can't go out."

These are just some random examples of how prevalent it is for people to think nothing of NCNS and not feel any sense of responsibility over it.

Prolongus · 08-06-2014, 08:59 AM

For the record, I didn't NCNS Tay, either. (We're whittling it down...)

When I mentioned Plan B earlier, the way I do it is like this: I usually make an appointment early in the week for later in the same week. If I get all the way to a couple hours before and she has to cancel (or I don't hear from her) then I hit up some old reliables. Usually works.

Some guys make multiple appointments for the same time; I don't. Just don't think it's fair. After a while the guy will get a rep for canceling too much. Right, ladies? Lol

Roger.Smith · 08-06-2014, 09:22 AM

Some people are just flakes. I have a few acquaintances (won't call them friends) that will invite you to go out then not show with some lame excuse. Then the same people get mad when they find out you had a get together but didn't invite them because they always flake out.

Some people don't know how to say "no" because they don't want to disappoint others. Some people are just inconsiderate and never think about how disrespectful it is to leave someone hanging. No one likes to be stood up, especially when you have other things you could be doing.

Ajanino · 08-06-2014, 02:12 PM

London Bridge is a NC\NS repeat ofender

pyramider · 08-06-2014, 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by HoneyRose

**The Real Housewives of Orange County get PAID to be at each other's events. One poor girl was on her birthday party bus waiting and waiting (only one out of five ladies came). After an hour past the departure time, she texted one (Tamara, a 45-year-old woman) and was told "Sorry. My child woke up with a fever this morning so I can't go out."

These are just some random examples of how prevalent it is for people to think nothing of NCNS and not feel any sense of responsibility over it.

Actually Heather let Lizzie know ahead of time she could not make it. Her friend Danielle told her she would meet them at the first stop. I cannot remember what Shannon's excuse was.

Barrymccockinner · 08-06-2014, 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by pyramider

Actually Heather let Lizzie know ahead of time she could not make it. Her friend Danielle told her she would meet them at the first stop. I cannot remember what Shannon's excuse was.

Chuck Norris called. He wants your man card returned. . .

Tara Evans · 08-06-2014, 05:36 PM

Sorry that keeps happening to everyone. I have been in this business awhile and have never had a ns written on me ever. Have I had it happen to me yes. Sometimes things come up I understand that. But if I am ever late I will always let them know and I would hope vice versa. For example today had a guy from here set up and appt. And guess what he never called. But what can you do.

pyramider · 08-06-2014, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Barrymccockinner

Chuck Norris called. He wants your man card returned. . .

My Nurse Ratchet forces me to watch these bitch fests. No watch means no meds and no taint.

daty/o · 08-06-2014, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Prolongus

For the record, I didn't NCNS Tay, either. (We're whittling it down...)

Herb, I swear I was never in aisle 7

DarkeyKong · 08-06-2014, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Ajanino

London Bridge is a NC\NS repeat ofender

I sense some shit is about to go down!

samantha thom · 08-06-2014, 11:59 PM

There are flaky people in general. Not just the hobby. I have never NCNS anyone in the hobby or real life. I am very organized and responsible to 'not show up' for no reason. That's just baddd!!! If I ever NCNS anyone, there is a good chance that I am probably really really sick, injured or … worst case scenario. :/

Alyssa Marie · 08-07-2014, 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by pyramider

My Nurse Ratchet forces me to watch these bitch fests. No watch means no meds and no taint.

My goodness, I may find you obnoxious - but I'm glad you get this!

A happy wife is a happy life!

Make us happy. Let us watch our tv, say, "nice dress" once in a while.. Even if you mean it to the lady on the tv (just be sure we are wearing a dress) and buy us a pair of shoes once in a while. Simple. You get blowjobs.

Don't. Make. This. Complex.

Women love gifts and compliments, men love dinner and blow jobs.