Discreet vs. Promiscuous Photos

[big country]

Originally Posted by JS42

A few additional pics wouldn't hurt, without showing the identifiable parts. Just maybe alittle more of you to give a guy a better idea of your build. I agree though, I don't want a woman to show everything, I enjoy leaving some to the imagination.

The guy who told you to drop your rates is a rude asshat. If he can't afford you he needs to find someone else that fits his budget. And if he can afford you, that's even worse.

The endless debate over the bartering goes on and on, Just because you pay ad rate I would not go as far as dissing him. After all maybe he got the 50 off.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

hell yeahhhhh lol
I loved the shoes!

What shoes?

Honey,

Your rate structure is your rate, pretty simple. The photos ... same thing, they are yours. I would prefer taint photos but the photos you have are nice, too.

[Mizzou82]

Originally Posted by HoneyBeeVa

I was recently told by someone after they viewed pics on my website that I needed to "show more" and lower my donation. . . . . ??? Privacy, discretion and respect go both ways. Not that I should have to explain, but I have the pics on my site the way they are for a reason. Not showing certain parts of my body doesn't mean I'm hiding anything - it means I am not showing those hidden parts as they would reveal my identity in a way that would blow my privacy out of the water. Some folks do have tattoos that can easily identify them - some providers choose to show theirs and some do not.

I agree that your pics should be however you like them to be. And by the way, way to get everyone to view yours , lol. All I can say is that I look at the pics both for a feel for the lady's personality and to ascertain if she is my body type. There are lots of mentions by members in various threads about the tummy. Even more about ass, which your pics tell all a guy all he needs to know. I look for full body pics, clothes or not. If you are inclined to ever change or add to your pics and you have an identifying tat, maybe wear a skin tight garment.

I'm sure there are clients out there that prefer a lady NOT show everything. Whatever happened to the element of surprise?

I like to have a little left to the imagination before a visit, but sadly, more surprises when I got there were negative, as apposed what I'm sure would be a nice surprise when meeting you.

[DallasRain]

Pyramider...image #3 has kickass heels!!! lol

I think Honey needs these too....so fucking badass and sexy

[offshoredrilling]

this thread needs some pic's. Taint ones would be best.

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

No, you just acted like your usual asshat.

yeah, asking someone why they get so upset from an anonymous poster, from an anonymous board?
LOL
yeah, you know stress hurts,. right? so why people stress themselves out over nothing, perplexes me and if you point it out,. some people say, "
oh, good point, it doesnt matter! I feel better already

and other people get mad at the messenger

I didnt change reality by reporting reality, I just changed the perception of reality

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[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by big country

The endless debate over the bartering goes on and on, Just because you pay ad rate I would not go as far as dissing him. After all maybe he got the 50 off.

the whole message

Originally Posted by HoneyBeeVa

I was recently told by someone after they viewed pics on my website that I needed to "show more" and lower my donation. . . . . ?

sounds like a PUA-type attempt to make the girl feel bad(for no reason) and then lower rates( so he can see her and feel like he got a deal)

it wasnt a dude on the phone or in person, so I'd gonna bet it was a dude just trying his luck with the negative email/bargin hunting-approach, which he tries on all the girls

cause why not try? its a numbers game, if it doesnt work,, he'd just PM/email someone else.
no harm
so why is the provider upset and taking this so OMG SERIOUS!?
heart on her sleeve.
I wonder if when she gets flipped off when driving,(even though she didnt drive wrong) if she bursts into tears? I knoe I cried when the old hooker called me an asshat

[Nia Baby]

Do what makes you feel comfortable baby girl! Some guys are so harsh!!

Originally Posted by HoneyBeeVa

I was recently told by someone after they viewed pics on my website that I needed to "show more" and lower my donation. . . . . ??? Privacy, discretion and respect go both ways. Not that I should have to explain, but I have the pics on my site the way they are for a reason. Not showing certain parts of my body doesn't mean I'm hiding anything - it means I am not showing those hidden parts as they would reveal my identity in a way that would blow my privacy out of the water. Some folks do have tattoos that can easily identify them - some providers choose to show theirs and some do not.

I'm sure there are clients out there that prefer a lady NOT show everything. Whatever happened to the element of surprise?

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by pyramider

What shoes?
Honey,
Your rate structure is your rate, pretty simple.
The photos ... same thing, they are yours.
I would prefer taint photos but the photos you have are nice, too.

pyramider's first three points are valid.
His last point is excused as he simply sees everything through taint colored glasses as he is the "Theologian of Taint".
But, it is good to see him wandering north of the southern republic spreading taint.

For me, I like legs, and you easily have that covered, to the extent that I had to take a second look to find the shoes.

[TemptationTammie]

There are some places that can edit tattoos depending on sizes of them if that is the issue.
I personally do not sent photos to anyone. I have restriction on my hobby phone so that I cannot send or receive pictures.

[Guest030824]

If it is a tattoo you need to hide a flower, a paper fan, a pillow or turn so it doesn't show. But speaking for my self I would like to see the contours of your body. You can bet if it is a small baby belly the reviewer will let it out of the bag. Again find some professional that takes boudoir photos they are accustomed to hiding or covering thing as needed.
For the price of your time that is up to you alone. Charge all you can get away with you will soon know what is correct. There is a retired provider that if she came back I would hock the farm to be with her one more time.

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by tucson

Charge all you can get away with you will soon know what is correct.

This is exactly right
which is why I will try to get the price down, because, well, why not?
The provider is trying to get all she can, why am I not allowed to try,.
so when an ad says NO Barging, I take that as a "suggestion"
same as a provider says, NO TEXT"

In my brain, a law/rule has repercussions, otherwise, its just a suggestion that doesnt need to be followed.

I asked a provider that, after the session was over. it went like this

me-(putting BC away) were you mad I sent ya text?
her:-huh>
me-your ad says NO TEXT,( used air quotes) so why did you respond to my text?
her-I dunno

[HBG Platinum]

I appreciate ALL the responses. I made this post as I am new in KS from the East Coast. I am very well established there and am trying to adjust to the ways of the Midwest. I did lower my outcall rate for the Wichita area and it hasn't seemed to make a difference. . . . perhaps I should have left it as it was because depending on the donation, folks that are not serious about meeting up are weeded out.

Bigcock you said "why were you offended?
Why are you caring what what annoymouse internet poster says?
dont wear your heart on your sleeve.

this is the female equivalent of what men oay for, isnt it?
men want to bang and women want the emotional support

so this thread is about some small slight that made you feel BAD, so you post to get love/support
LOOL
awwwww how sad"

My response to you would be I am not the kind of woman to argue with anyone via the internet. I never said I was offended and you made an assumption saying that I posted to get love and support. I do not wear my heart on my sleeve but if I did, that would be my choice too. You don't seem like the nicest person. I'm not sure why you were so harsh, but I accept all feedback, good and bad.

Ladies thanks for the advice and shoe love. I love shoes! They make me feel sexy, I just don't OD on buying them. I used this board when I was in VA but need to rely on it more heavily here in KS. I am trying to get a better feel for this board and its community and I think some of the responses are helping me learn quickly. I know there are great people and a few bad ones everywhere, so I'm just going to take it for what it's worth.

My post was not meant to offend anyone or get sympathy; Aren't I allowed to post and interact with the community like everyone else? Geeeesh.

Thank you to the gents that have met me and know I'm a nice lady. Much love to you ;D

[HBG Platinum]

Thank you for the feedback. I appreciate it and it is very helpful.

[HBG Platinum]

Thank you for your post Tucson. I have a flat stomach so I don't need to hide that - or anything for that matter. I am a former US Marine and obtained some tatts during that time. I also have memory based ink of lost family members and significant life events. My tattoos reflect who I am today and how I got to this point as a woman. It is more difficult for me to hide my tattoos in any specific shot that shows most of my body due to ink placement. I have read the responses and am taking them all into consideration as I'm contemplating my next photo shoot.