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mr5436 · 07-01-2014, 11:22 AM

I have seen a particular provider in the area two times in the last month, and tried to see her again last night. I drove 30 mins to get there each way and spent an hour waiting in the parking lot before accepting that I had been blown off. She sent a text about 30 mins after our scheduled meeting time saying that her phone was dying and I didn't hear from her again.

I see that she posted a new ad this morning on the forum, though I still haven't heard from her. I had a good enough time with her on the first two visits, although she was late to both of them. I just don't feel terribly hopeful or inclined to pursue any kind of compensation from her--I know when to cut my losses.

I'm just wondering what would be the acceptable/appropriate course of action for making this known to the community. I would like to respond to her ad and put her on blast for it but I don't want it to be seen as some empty accusation. Frankly, I think a negative review would be justified but I'm not sure if I can actually write a review for a session that never took place. I wrote her a positive review for the first visit, but not for the second. The second time the session itself was decent enough, although she was also two hours late for it with the usual excuses I have come to know. I feel I could write her a negative review for that visit just based on her lack of communication, but is it acceptable to include what has happened after the visit?

This is very frustrating for me, especially given the fact that she has the nerve to post a new ad the very next morning. Any suggestions would be much appreciated.

ElisabethWhispers · 07-01-2014, 11:40 AM

I'm just speaking as a member and nothing more, but I might suggest that you make a post about it in the private men's area and then? Just let it go.

Being stood up, and it works both ways ALL of the time, is just part of the whole.

Sorry that happened to you. I know that it must be very frustrating, heck, I was NCNS'd yesterday.

Sometimes, especially with work being so spartan at times, it's difficult to understand why someone would turn down the opportunity to entertain, especially with someone who is becoming a regular.

Best,
Elisabeth

Tsmokies · 07-01-2014, 05:41 PM

Sorry that happened, butt I think you waited around way too long. I also think your spending way too much time on what didn't take place instead of what can and does take place in DFW.

oldbutstillgoing · 07-01-2014, 11:09 PM

Follow directions and post a thread in Co-ed about the NC/NS. Then drop it and move on. Lots of great providers who want your money out there.

RideFreeInTexas · 07-02-2014, 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing

Follow directions and post a thread in Co-ed about the NC/NS. Then drop it and move on. Lots of great providers who want your money out there.

^^This^^ Since a session did not take place, you can't write a review. What you experienced was a NC/NS (no call/ no show). Those get reported in Coed.