Is IT NECESSARY

[Guest052616]

Originally Posted by bladtinzu

I am truly sorry this happened to you DD.. Some guys cannot for the life of them comprehend that this is in fact a business and fail to separate emotions from the equation. Just because a chick gives an outstanding BBBJ does not in any way shape or form make her attracted to you outside of the business relationship. But some guys get all infatuated easily and it always ends badly. It is fucking business!! Or better yet the business of fucking.. Not some "Dating Game". Honestly if a guy wants more they really need to take a sabbatical from the hobby and hit up the dating sites which are so plentiful.

Agreed... although there is one or two that id like to tie up, throw in my closet... and allow out when my sexual needs need tending to... shit i almost feel like i should be paying them!!

This one guy tho..suddenly wanted to call me by my real name...and would get mad if i didnt contact him to book. Its like me getting pissed at pizza hut for not calling me and asking me if i wanted to come get some pizza. Its a business... u want it.. YOU call it and book it..

I already have my stunt cock if i need a quick cock fix... actually would have 2 if i could get one to move to oklahoma... grrrr

[Rockydoc]

Blad, I gave suggestions that increase the likelihood the lady would want to see you again. I agree if she is high volume, or needs money she will not be selective. Some girls are selective and low volume. Some are busy and hard to schedule. These things cam help move you to the top of the list or cause the provider to go above and beyond for you. None are required and none should be expected by her except for good hygiene and not being rude. There is no requirement to be nice, but it can pay dividends. Clearly, however, there is a line that should not be crossed. We should not expect to be included in their real world lives and vice versa. That line was clearly crossed in the above story of DD.

[bladtinzu]

Originally Posted by Rockydoc

Blad, I gave suggestions that increase the likelihood the lady would want to see you again. I agree if she is high volume, or needs money she will not be selective. Some girls are selective and low volume. Some are busy and hard to schedule. These things cam help move you to the top of the list or cause the provider to go above and beyond for you. None are required and none should be expected by her except for good hygiene and not being rude. There is no requirement to be nice, but it can pay dividends. Clearly, however, there is a line that should not be crossed. We should not expect to be included in their real world lives and vice versa. That line was clearly crossed in the above story of DD.

Fair enough. My thing is thank god for P411. I can be opinionated here and it not limit my hobby ventures. I do feel sorry for those who have P411 tied to a specific screen name but that is their choice.

And I think we fully agree the line in the sand is not drawn in sand but concrete and should never be crossed like this guy did with DD. I avoid asking anything non session related and appreciate the same in a provider. I do not want to know how her real life is as it does not pertain to me getting off. It might sound cold or harsh but I have taken the view that this is a business with serious limitations that should not be breached out of respect for both parties. The real life information being out in this can only come back to haunt either party as there is always some low life who will out a person over some disagreement on an internet forum. Sad but true. I have a deep disdain for outer's but if the parties that are outed would have been more careful they would not have anything to out anyone with.

[holdmybeerwatchthis]

So many providers limit their menus to lfk. They should be ymmv as guys like me that are older than dirt pose no threat of an emotional entanglement from just closing their eyes and enjoying a real passionate kiss.

[Guest040816]

Anna Nicole married the elderly tycoon,,, emotional threat or money .
Either way you can lose ,,,,

[Guest040816]

Uhh Ohhhhh, double posted.

Anna Nicole married the elderly tycoon,,, emotional threat or money .
Either way you can lose ,,,,

[TechOne]

Originally Posted by Devon Derriere

Agreed... although there is one or two that id like to tie up, throw in my closet... and allow out when my sexual needs need tending to... shit i almost feel like i should be paying them!!

Just waitin' for my my shot, baby...just waitin' for my shot.

[bladtinzu]

Originally Posted by giteneny

Just waitin' for my my shot, baby...just waitin' for my shot.

Don't you mean "shots"?

[Guest052616]

Originally Posted by giteneny

Just waitin' for my my shot, baby...just waitin' for my shot.

well ill let you know if i get any cancellations. I hope i dont.. Otherwise... hopefully ill leave some gents addicted to my derriere and sexual appetite and you all will invite me back again soon... and ill for sure let you be the first to know.

[Guest040816]

I am not,,,, won't,,,, focus attention on the provider.
Her TIME is money ,,,, not allowing myself to get hustled in the game,,,, the friendship thing is an illusion a provider establishes for keeping strings attached. Just an excuse to keep tabs on you,,,, RL doesn't mix with business.
Girls do have resent when some men don't reciprocate,,, can't have your cake and eat too.ijs,,,
GFE gets complicated, he pleases her and falls in llove through sex. Wk hormones comes from feelings of attachment related to personal feelings.
Business opinions shouldn't affect another customer,,,, feelings involved or just the dick?
He gets attached to seeing her and then you have problems,, she will tell him what ever he wants to hear. Mixed signals ?
Get ready for the claws,,,, Ohhhhh
A waitress isn't eating the Lobster I bought,,, she eagerly feeds me the Lobster.