NBA POLICY

[suiram77]

I am sure I can do alot of things Alyssamarie but I am not the provider you ladies are so its on you to state who you see or don't but I get the point you was making but this is not just for me its for all my AA brothers. See look at it like this a women has in her showcase rather if she do greek or not bbbj or cbj, gfe or no gfe, swallow or nqbs then why not list what race you do not service its the same thing love and its very easy to do . There is no way nobody can try to spin this to make it work for them its simple you post it like other providers no AA men and I keep right on trucking chu chu!!!! LoL take care.

[Alyssa Marie]

Suiram, I understand your frustrations. Really, I do.
Two days ago I had someone book with me. Everything was done. He asks, "can we have a quick phone call when you have time tomorrow? I said, sure.. How about 1pm?
He calls me at 1pm and asks if I have any tattoos. That is his deal breaker.
Why would he not say that at the start? Not after ten messages..
Who knows. It's not like I can have them removed...
But it's life.

I don't see couples, but I don't have that in my profile. If someone asks I usually just say, "sorry no, but try.. (And insert name)."

If you get a no, just take them off of your options. A lot worse things could waste 10-20 seconds of your life. You're bound to "lose" (I think it's more like use, but) time in your life when you search for anything.

By the way, I was totally being sarcastic about writing that under your handle.

[suiram77]

Once again love I don't have a problem with the no I really dont give a shit who fucks a dog or a cat just put it where others can see it and I don't have to get a no because I want pm or call. Once again no black man should get a no if he knows how to read but if the provider don't have a nba policy on display then to me that provider is not off limits to no race its all fair game.Also you mentioned couples lol sorry babe seeing couples or a certain race is not the same thing at all sorry boo.

[Randall Creed]

Fuck all that NBA shit, man. That shit don't mean shit to me.

If I want the pussy, she's gonna GIVE me the pussy.

Just saying.

[Alyssa Marie]

It's not the same thing as race, but it's another type of disqualifier. There are endless disqualifiers.. Some that may make sense to the masses, some that may not.
Anyway, you're not going to be happy until every provider who doesn't want to see black men (or are you sticking up for all races that providers do not want to see?) actually posts it, so you're just never going to be happy in that regard. I'm sorry, but it won't happen. You will not get 100% agreement with this.. So... That's that.

[suiram77]

Child please you are tearing my stomach out over here. Ms.Lady first off I am not looking for any agreement nor do I care if the ladies do it or not, it was just a suggestion to post it if they know they Don't see AA MEN and that way the Black men that do respect the policy want call or pm them. Besides think about it this way want that be kind of crazy for them to tell 5 to 7 Black guys a day no I do not see AA men when they can just say oh wait let me add that to my showcase and in most cases issue solve Hello!!!. But you seem to turn all this around like if I am upset or frustrated or something trust me boo I am good,you have to remember boo that this is all said through post meaning no one knows how a person expression is when they are typing something it is just like a text,so there for you are reading it way out of context like if I am upset about it and that is funny to me because I am not. You have express your opinion I read it and I respect it but it will never change what I originally started this post about and that is because what I am saying only makes sense. So once again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if you don't want AA men to contact you then just state that like all the other providers has and if you never do then that is cool GOD BLESS YOU!!!!! just don't act like we was suppose to assume you do not see AA. just FYI Ms AlyssaMarie there are girls who get an attitude when a black guy call them and act like he was suppose to just know what race she do not see and that to me is crazy as cat shit.That is the reason why I started this post not for drama and back and fourth with anybody about it.If you believe any other certain way about this topic then you have that right but so do I and since I am the one that started the post I have the right to offend what I am saying. Ms AlyssaMarieGFE no matter what ever else you say about it I D G A S Kisses!!

[Alyssa Marie]

Wow. And with that, goodnight.

[suiram77]

Well thank you finally.

[Guest062114-5]

Perhaps some ladies don't have a strict NBA policy but they are turning you down and using that as a reason? How should they handle that?

I feel for you, but I find your posts a bit hard to read. I might jump to the conclusion that I wouldn't connect with you based on that. I'm experienced enough to know that is based on other things besides race like background, education, etc. and not race. But not everyone is me...

[threepeckeredbillygoat]

If a lady posts it, people talk shit. If a lady doesn't post it, people talk shit.

It's a loose loose situation. They would rather hear shit talking people bitch about them not posting it than listen to shit talking people call them a racist.

Go figure.

[Tony Gambino]

Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

Fuck all that NBA shit, man. That shit don't mean shit to me.

If I want the pussy, she's gonna GIVE me the pussy.

Just saying.

wow that's not creepy at all Rambro......

[gimme_that]

Not all ladies will put that they don't see a certain race. Its up to you to ask as a client.....just as its her responsibility to ask if its an overt concern while she's screening you.

Some ladies won't put that they won't see certain races just to avoid the stigma of being racist or having a pimp as soome ladies with NBA policys have. Some hobbyist who happen to be white might not want to support the ignorance of seeing a lady who wouldn't see any race. So why would a lady post her racial preference on her profile willingly to lose potential suitors who wouldn't know or care in their case anyways.

Also not posting their preference can also lend itself to when things get slow for them......piggybacking and later allowing black clients on some shady ymmv stuff. It happens........

[Guest062114-5]

Excellent points as usual, gimme_that.

[Glenn Quagmire]

Please post on the super-thread. That is why it was stickied. I have grown weary of a new thread on this every two weeks.

NBA - Preference Vs.Prejudice Vs.Racism Superthread



Thank you.

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Glenn Quagmire

Please post on the super-thread. That is why it was stickied. I have grown weary of a new thread on this every two weeks.

NBA - Preference Vs.Prejudice Vs.Racism Superthread



Thank you.

I have to admit that was my first inclination, but there are some interesting different points brought up that might just get lost on the super thread.

I mean, it could get merged...but it really doesn't bother me here, like they usually do, lol.