Recent References

[BigDeal]

Question for the community here??

Haven't hobbied much lately and been maybe a year since I personally done a review.

Also gave up my P411 recently as price went up and found I wasn't using it much.....

A touring provider I gave 3-4 references to...... asked that they be within the last 6 months....
and since they were not she decided not to see me...no biggie but

Question I have for the community is what difference does a reference make if it is from 6 months ago vs 1 year ago??

I realize everyone has their comfort levels...but don't get this one

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

The main issue will be memory. If it has been more than 6 months since I've seen someone, there is a good chance I will not have a good recollection of our encounter.

[Tiffani Jameson]

That too Sins, but it's more about having a recent account of your behavior. Girls have been robbed by once good clients. Once-good clients get addicted to drugs and their behavior and expectations change. I have the memory of an elephant. Even if I receive a reference for a gentlemen outside of that period of time (and I have), I can recall your general personality and likelihood of any sudden life changes. But it's up to the lady to see you.

As far as the theory that clients who take breaks from the hobby and/or infrequent clients could be working with LE, I don't subscribe to. If you're not P411 verified, and you don't have recent references, the only thing you can do is meet an established, non-dramatic, trustworthy companion to screen you and be a reference.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

The main issue will be memory. If it has been more than 6 months since I've seen someone, there is a good chance I will not have a good recollection of our encounter.

Hay Sins,

I thought you wrote everything down about a client after a visit with a number of cross index references.


I write everything down, I can't trust my memory as i grow older.

JR

[KenMonk]

Apparently p411 isn't working when it comes to provider updates. I tend to see the same ladies and it hasn't allowed them to update when they last saw me. Need to get at Gina to see whats up.

[Helicopter206]

With my Reputation, None of the Providers will forget me. I'm just that good at what I do.
They like what they do, and I like to do them to.
Slow and Easy.
Hard and Fast.

[KenMonk]

Originally Posted by Helicopter206

With my Reputation, None of the Providers will forget me. I'm just that good at what I do.
They like what they do, and I like to do them to.
Slow and Easy.
Hard and Fast.

You're half right, providers never forget you.

[Audrey Astor]

Originally Posted by KenMonk

Apparently p411 isn't working when it comes to provider updates. I tend to see the same ladies and it hasn't allowed them to update when they last saw me. Need to get at Gina to see whats up.

I just did one Ken, and it seemed to work ok. Maybe there was a glitch going on?

For the OP, I agree with what the other ladies are saying. Of the ladies I know that have been shorted, or their donation not left (myself included), it was by a regular. I also know of a girl who was raped by a regular. It seems like 99% of us are here to have a great time, but some blow it (or not) for the rest of you good guys.

Sorry love... There is a good group of professional ladies in KC. I would advise to pick a WELL ESTABLISHED, WELL REVIEWED lady, who AGREES to PROVIDE REFERENCES, who has her act together enough to answer her phone, return emails etc. It does you guys no good, to hand over all of your info when you are trying to get a future reference, if the lady refuses to provide references to peers. Keep that in mind as well. Have fun!

[theG]

I had this exact issue come up yesterday. I wanted to see Kaylea, she is gorgeous, but she messaged me back asking why I didn't have any ok's over the past 6 months. Oddly, I have seen several ladies but I didn't know you had to have these ladies update the ok.

[Emmie]

Originally Posted by Holly Love

I just did one Ken, and it seemed to work ok. Maybe there was a glitch going on?

For the OP, I agree with what the other ladies are saying. Of the ladies I know that have been shorted, or their donation not left (myself included), it was by a regular. I also know of a girl who was raped by a regular. It seems like 99% of us are here to have a great time, but some blow it (or not) for the rest of you good guys.

Sorry love... There is a good group of professional ladies in KC. I would advise to pick a WELL ESTABLISHED, WELL REVIEWED lady, who AGREES to PROVIDE REFERENCES, who has her act together enough to answer her phone, return emails etc. It does you guys no good, to hand over all of your info when you are trying to get a future reference, if the lady refuses to provide references to peers. Keep that in mind as well. Have fun!

+1000

[BigDeal]

I'm sure her also being a touring provider ...she doesn't know about the GREAT BigDeal.....Ill see if Malwoody will vouch for me...He wrote a review on me in the last 6 months...maybe that's what killed it for me

Dammit he's my Newman!!

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by BigDeal

I'm sure her also being a touring provider ...she doesn't know about the GREAT BigDeal.....Ill see if Malwoody will vouch for me...He wrote a review on me in the last 6 months...maybe that's what killed it for me

Why am I thinkin' that, at this point, Malwoody might not even recall seeing you..?!?!?!?

[jayhawkrobbie]

Originally Posted by theG

I had this exact issue come up yesterday. I wanted to see Kaylea, she is gorgeous, but she messaged me back asking why I didn't have any ok's over the past 6 months. Oddly, I have seen several ladies but I didn't know you had to have these ladies update the ok.

I wasn't aware of that either...so a provider can update that they've had a more recent session with you and then it gets reflected with a newer OK date?

Originally Posted by BigDeal

I'm sure her also being a touring provider ...she doesn't know about the GREAT BigDeal.....Ill see if Malwoody will vouch for me...He wrote a review on me in the last 6 months...maybe that's what killed it for me

See, I'll bet that's the problem, you haven't been reviewed by Malwoody in over a year. Perhaps if you see him again, he'll update your OK.

[dirty dog]

Originally Posted by Helicopter206

With my Reputation, None of the Providers will forget me. I'm just that good at what I do.
They like what they do, and I like to do them to.
Slow and Easy.
Hard and Fast.