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					Originally Posted by  TheAntichrist666
					 
				 
				Don't help anyone in the hobby, my advise to you. Help those that care about you (like your family and close friends). 
			
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I agree. Don't help any providers with anything ... pay their hourly rate when spending time with them and that's it. Most of us can easily make 6 figures so there is no "legit" reason for any provider to need a hand out. Tell her to get off her ass and put in a hard days labor just like you do. 
I'm sure you'd never let your 6 figure earning account, attorney or doctor talk you into giving/lending them money and it should be no different with a provider.  The money is easily available for us to make.