Is it penis ADD or something else?

[JennsLolli]

I feel late to the party, as I see that this discussion has taken several turns, but I had some opinions about the original post, so I figured it didn't hurt to speak up.

I assume that a lot of men consume providers in the same way that I consume porn. I might go into the ballgame thinking that I want to get off to "sensual solo play" or "erotic couples anal" and wind up getting off to two army dudes attempting to fuck a blow-up doll while their older superior talks dirty about it. Go in looking for "sensual ATM" and wind up at MILFy stepmom walking in on her teen step-daughter blowing steady before she decides to teach her how to do it properly. Desires cover a large range and it's always a crap-shoot as far as what I both seek and wind up blowing my load over...so I understand how that would reflect hobby activity.

THAT being said, there's also a variety of hobbying styles. Some men know that they will see x providers this month to cover x needs. But they might find a trampy civvie gal or might get busy with work or their wives might start putting out. Other guys hobby like it's a science or a true hobby. You'll see organized to-do lists, both activities and ladies, and scheduled play times each month regardless of if the date is set or not. Some are on a search for the next ATF, or ForNowTimeFavorite. Hell, I've had guys who have tried to book me over the past 7 years but who have always pulled away when I'm in town.

And on a side note...I do find it weird to admit that when I provide I know that I'm considered a commodity of sorts to most of my clients. And really, I'd retire over such a realization if I weren't accepting of the fact that this happens in the real world just the same. If I'm gonna get off on blowing married dudes in suits while pulling a full time job, might as well make a full time job out of getting off on blowing married guys in suits. It's hardly a career move, but it works for me for the time being.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Listener

I simply don't book providers charging $350 unable to hold a candle to so many available more attractive and talented $200/hr providers I book regularly. Power to em and what they charge. I just don't book em.

How about you list just a few of these providers for us... ME!

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by JennsLolli

I feel late to the party, as I see that this discussion has taken several turns, but I had some opinions about the original post, so I figured it didn't hurt to speak up.

I assume that a lot of men consume providers in the same way that I consume porn. I might go into the ballgame thinking that I want to get off to "sensual solo play" or "erotic couples anal" and wind up getting off to two army dudes attempting to fuck a blow-up doll while their older superior talks dirty about it. Go in looking for "sensual ATM" and wind up at MILFy stepmom walking in on her teen step-daughter blowing steady before she decides to teach her how to do it properly. Desires cover a large range and it's always a crap-shoot as far as what I both seek and wind up blowing my load over...so I understand how that would reflect hobby activity.

THAT being said, there's also a variety of hobbying styles. Some men know that they will see x providers this month to cover x needs. But they might find a trampy civvie gal or might get busy with work or their wives might start putting out. Other guys hobby like it's a science or a true hobby. You'll see organized to-do lists, both activities and ladies, and scheduled play times each month regardless of if the date is set or not. Some are on a search for the next ATF, or ForNowTimeFavorite. Hell, I've had guys who have tried to book me over the past 7 years but who have always pulled away when I'm in town.

And on a side note...I do find it weird to admit that when I provide I know that I'm considered a commodity of sorts to most of my clients. And really, I'd retire over such a realization if I weren't accepting of the fact that this happens in the real world just the same. If I'm gonna get off on blowing married dudes in suits while pulling a full time job, might as well make a full time job out of getting off on blowing married guys in suits. It's hardly a career move, but it works for me for the time being.

If you're willing to suck dick, there will always be someone that will let you.

[cinnamonshark]

Originally Posted by JennsLolli

,,, Other guys hobby like it's a science or a true hobby. You'll see organized to-do lists, both activities and ladies, and scheduled play times each month regardless of if the date is set or not. Some are on a search for the next ATF, or ForNowTimeFavorite...

Ummm...have I been sharing my secrets with you?

[Listener]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

How about you list just a few of these providers for us... ME!

All you have to do is step outside of the Eccie box as I've done for years. This tight knit Eccie environment has a distorted sense of market value.

Why do you think all providers who join the Eccie community suddenly hike up their prices for the exact same or even more limited service?

You even see Eccie providers occasionally posting ads on BP of all places at lower rates.

SL you are the king of session bookers. How could you possibly not already know this?

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Listener

All you have to do is step outside of the Eccie box as I've done for years. This tight knit Eccie environment has a distorted sense of market value.

Why do you think all providers who join the Eccie community suddenly hike up their prices for the exact same or even more limited service?

You even see Eccie providers occasionally posting ads on BP of all places at lower rates.

SL you are the king of session bookers. How could you possibly not already know this?

LOL well I did but I was hoping to sucker you into giving up on some leads. You can't blame me for trying... right?

SL at one point was Catholic....so he goes to confession. "Father bless "me" for I have sinned again. I had sex with one of the young ladies". Which one asks the priest. "I'm afraid to tell you father". He asks... Was it Claire? Was it Scarlett? Was it Nikki? Was it Toyz sister? "I'd rather not say father". So off I go. My wing man Cinnamon Shark was waiting outside and asked "Well did you tell him?" I said "no but I got FOUR GOOD LEADS!".

[Listener]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

LOL well I did but I was hoping to sucker you into giving up on some leads. You can't blame me for trying... right?

You've gone through so many providers I don't know if there's anyone left except for the newbie providers lol

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Listener

You've gone through so many providers I don't know if there's anyone left except for the newbie providers lol

TEAM SL does have a training division

[Toyz]

NOW look what you've done?!? My Sister wants a goddamn T-shirt...

[JennsLolli]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

If you're willing to suck dick, there will always be someone that will let you.

It's funny that you mention that, because pretty much all of my exbfs (3/4) were totally not into getting their dicks sucked. And in all honesty, I'd rather give than receive any day. A few civvie friends have appreciated my efforts, but never as much as the 40 something suits with vanilla wives who are afraid of cum. So...I guess I found my calling? See also: lingerie, body rubs, hjs, candles, music, toys. In the hobby world I'm able to identify and define my sexuality in very clear ways then attract men who are into that. In the real world, I get "why are there so many straps, how do I take this off?" or "why did you even bother to set the mood, you knew I was gonna fuck you" or "can we just cuddle?" Sigh.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by JennsLolli

It's funny that you mention that, because pretty much all of my exbfs (3/4) were totally not into getting their dicks sucked. And in all honesty, I'd rather give than receive any day. A few civvie friends have appreciated my efforts, but never as much as the 40 something suits with vanilla wives who are afraid of cum. So...I guess I found my calling? See also: lingerie, body rubs, hjs, candles, music, toys. In the hobby world I'm able to identify and define my sexuality in very clear ways then attract men who are into that. In the real world, I get "why are there so many straps, how do I take this off?" or "why did you even bother to set the mood, you knew I was gonna fuck you" or "can we just cuddle?" Sigh.

As a Man Whore I face some of the very same challenges! I feel your pain.