Time Wasters - Any of the ladies willing to tackle the subject openly?

[Novatx]

Encountered another time waster handle just4fun. I post an on ad on Thursday for FRIDAY AFTERNOON availability (date included). Get a request from just4fun requesting 9 or 10 am. In the back of my mind I'm wondering (wtf didn't I clearly say afternoon in my ad?) so I politely reply that afternoon is when I can meet, like 3 or 4 pm at the earliest. Just4fun agrees saying "oh I can make 3pm work for you baby" and "I'll drive to medical center for you" and all this jazz.

I asked him to send a number where I can contact him. He sends number and come Friday morning when I type his number in my iphone to start a message thread to confirm our 3 pm appt , low and behold if he's already in my contacts along with a slew of previous messages from a few months ago when he stood me up the first time.

So, I thought to myself well we will start new, and I delete our old convo and send a text "hi it's nova I already had you programmed". He asks AGAIN if we can do earlier (I'm thinking is this dude out of his mind??) I AGAIN POLITELY reply 3 pm is the earliest. He says oh that's too late for me.

At this point I lost my patience. So I ask him then why did you agree if you knew you couldn't? You should have said yesterday! I told him he's being a time waster. I reminded him that my ad says AFTERNOON and what's the point of requesting morning?
I also told him where you learn to read? He gets his little panties in a ruffle and pops his little girl attitude saying "WTF are you 12 and now I see why they talk about you like that" (I still have the texts) I literally LMAO (how *they* talk about me) so I tell him that HE is the on acting 12 , reading ads that say AFTERNOON and pushing morning. I also told him I can read BCD (which in reality I can not) as a slug back to his "how they talk about you". Any way I have the texts AND pm's so feel free to see them.

I'm really a nice woman I don't bite
I just have zero tolerance for nonsense especially if you wasted my time before.

If I post an ad with 6pm availability, don't request a 10am! I do cater to morning requests with at least 3 days advanced notice. Most girls have their schedule in their showcase

[Guest101114]

Oh my gosh Novatx... You're putting this information on an information board? I hear that's not popular for us ladies!! Hehe jk.

Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

Ha! Good thread... This is why I don't offer 30 minute dates at all anymore and also the reason why I hardly entertain 60 minute appointments.

Originally Posted by Whispers

Can you expand on that? What is it about the short appointments that lends itself to this particular issue?

Do they overstay their welcome? Expect a lot of conversation in the days that follow? or believe that in those 30 minutes the two of you connect in some manner and belong together?

Originally Posted by Whispers

You never shared with us how they waste your time.

Hmm... Whispers... If I was on my laptop I would probably just go crazy with examples hehe but I only have my iPhone right now.

To answer shortly.

Do they overstay their welcome? Yep, I've had plenty of guys do that. Session time starts when you walk in the door. This is business... Not friend finder.

Expect a lot of conversation in the days that follow? I don't really mind talking/texting on the phone (or in a session hehe if you want to use your session to pillow talk and not do the dirty deed (hehe) feel free too (figuratively) but do not get offended if I start hinting that it's time to hit the road.This is something I hate because we have rates for 1 hour, 2 hours yet if we ask you to leave 10 minutes after an hour is up we get labeled as a time watcher... Yet, I actually gave him an extra 10 mins!! Oh, and I call bullshit to girls that say they don't watch the clock or don't have a clock in the room... Hotel room usually have alarm clocks that clearly state the time and if you work from a house I'm sure you have a stove microwave (most hotels have these too!!) and um, you can always look at your phone if you want... Or if you want to hid it just wait until he goes to the restroom lol.
Oops, I'm getting away from the question hehe... Anyway, texting days to follow... If I reply it's because I have time and want to. If I don't maybe I don't want to or maybe I just have my flip phone turned off or put away.

believe that in those 30 minutes the two of you connect in some manner and belong together? Oh god yes... I've gotten I'm in love with you more than a few times in the hobby. Not just I love you either... I wanna be with you... I want a relationship... I don't want you to hobby... I can pay for your stuff... It goes on and on and on with that one.

Guys, if you agree to pay me $5,000 a month I will rock that month or however long you want me too (2 months $10,000... 3 months I'll even give you a $1,000 discount lol) hmmm... http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=921297&highlight= But don't expect love, me to move in, or do bareback full service... That means no falling in love, no marriage and no kids lol. Hmm, nah, I think you'd rather pay a few hundred and save the rest or spend it with different girls!!

Good thread? Yes! Great thread! Most certainly!!

[Novatx]

Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

Oh my gosh Novatx... You're putting this information on an information board? I hear that's not popular for us

Yeah I thought about it first. I figured this is the best place instead of starting a big ol thread like SOME people.

[savak]

Originally Posted by Novatx

Encountered another time waster handle just4fun. I post an on ad on Thursday for FRIDAY AFTERNOON availability (date included). Get a request from just4fun requesting 9 or 10 am. In the back of my mind I'm wondering (wtf didn't I clearly say afternoon in my ad?) so I politely reply that afternoon is when I can meet, like 3 or 4 pm at the earliest. Just4fun agrees saying "oh I can make 3pm work for you baby" and "I'll drive to medical center for you" and all this jazz.

I asked him to send a number where I can contact him. He sends number and come Friday morning when I type his number in my iphone to start a message thread to confirm our 3 pm appt , low and behold if he's already in my contacts along with a slew of previous messages from a few months ago when he stood me up the first time.

So, I thought to myself well we will start new, and I delete our old convo and send a text "hi it's nova I already had you programmed". He asks AGAIN if we can do earlier (I'm thinking is this dude out of his mind??) I AGAIN POLITELY reply 3 pm is the earliest. He says oh that's too late for me.

At this point I lost my patience. So I ask him then why did you agree if you knew you couldn't? You should have said yesterday! I told him he's being a time waster. I reminded him that my ad says AFTERNOON and what's the point of requesting morning?
I also told him where you learn to read? He gets his little panties in a ruffle and pops his little girl attitude saying "WTF are you 12 and now I see why they talk about you like that" (I still have the texts) I literally LMAO (how *they* talk about me) so I tell him that HE is the on acting 12 , reading ads that say AFTERNOON and pushing morning. I also told him I can read BCD (which in reality I can not) as a slug back to his "how they talk about you". Any way I have the texts AND pm's so feel free to see them.

I'm really a nice woman I don't bite
I just have zero tolerance for nonsense especially if you wasted my time before.

If I post an ad with 6pm availability, don't request a 10am! I do cater to morning requests with at least 3 days advanced notice. Most girls have their schedule in their showcase

let me translate for the rest of us.

"yeah i do have bcd access and ml lounge even though im a provider, but im making that shit up also"

you gone fucked up now sweet heart.

[Guest101114]

Originally Posted by Novatx

Yeah I thought about it first. I figured this is the best place instead of starting a big ol thread like SOME people.

But... You could get some attention Novatx... Hehe, I'm just having some fun... Thanks for the information.

[Novatx]

Originally Posted by savak

let me translate for the rest of us.

"yeah i do have bcd access and ml lounge even though im a provider, but im making that shit up also"

you gone fucked up now sweet heart.

No I do not have access to BCD or Men's area. However if you believe that this board has any kind of privacy , well you probably believe in Santa Claus too and you probably believe that the ladies you've seen and stolen time from are enjoying your company and overstayed time!

[savak]

Originally Posted by Novatx

No I do not have access to BCD or Men's area. However if you believe that this board has any kind of privacy , well you probably believe in Santa Claus too and you probably believe that the ladies you've seen and stolen time from are enjoying your company and overstayed time!

so tell me nova what other details have you read about my reviews, why dont you tell me everything about my last review?

youve broken a sacred balance with your lastest admission of having bcd access when you shouldnt. youve fucked up real hard sugar tits.

if anyones a timewaster, its your ass, cause your a guaranteed ball buster for potential male clients.

youve got nothing and nothings got you. we can see your bullshit it surrounds you.

[Desperado]

Originally Posted by Novatx

No I do not have access to BCD or Men's area. However if you believe that this board has any kind of privacy , well you probably believe in Santa Claus too

Interesting

[Novatx]

Originally Posted by savak

we can see your bullshit it surrounds you

And who is we? I just see you yapping.

[Novatx]

Originally Posted by Desperado

Interesting

Yeah it's very interesting I agree! Like when I started a thread in LADIES SECTION about a member here and sweet Cara responded to it. With in minutes after her response that certain member contacts her regarding her response to my thread. So yeah, nothings private and aside from that incident, it doesn't take a genius to know that NOTHING on the net is 100% secure!

Anyway this thread is about time wasting hobbyists so I'm gonna stay on topic

[savak]

Originally Posted by Novatx

And who is we? I just see you yapping.

dont try to front , youve already got the inside story. you just admitted to us all of us here that you do.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Novatx

Yeah I thought about it first. I figured this is the best place instead of starting a big ol thread like SOME people.

wait..... i started a bil ole thread..... Was that aslam?

[just4fun]

I refuse to dignify this immature drama queen's BS with a response! Oh wait guess I just did : ) But I have already moved on and saw a very beautiful, classy, and fun young lady from this community today. She was awesome! Review to follow, and have a great weekend everyone!!

[Zhivago52]

At times I may be perceived as somewhat incommunicato, it's because I don't like wasting the ladies time or mine. I may send a PM or two to determine general location of an incall or availability, but if it's not going to work, it's not going to work, time to move on.

I usually give it two PMs as a general rule, then it's time to set it up with a date and two options for time. Once a date, time, location are determined, it's go time!

[handyGiraffe]

Originally Posted by Novatx

No I do not have access to BCD or Men's area. However if you believe that this board has any kind of privacy , well you probably believe in Santa Claus

Novatx is exactly right----
Nothing any of us do on this board is private and nobody has the right to expect anything you say on here to be private---

By the way...she has nothing but excellent reviews from some long term mongers....