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Old 01-03-2014, 02:24 PM   #16
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I'll take a hj from a sexy lady who knows what she's doing over a bj from someone who clearly doesn't any day of the week.
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Old 01-03-2014, 02:33 PM   #17
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If I can figure out how to post a video (when on my real computer) I will do so.
As someone above stated, it would definitely be the slow, teasing, edging type of HJ w/ the eye contact. *chuckle* Otherwise, it wouldn't be much different than a guy taking matters into his own hands :-/

I hope Jenns adds her input - I do believe this particular 'give and take' could be a pretty toe-curling, sheet-grabbing experience if the woman is completely focused on bringing her lover to the brink again and again...

Ha! I got so caught up in the visuals in my head that I forgot that I had to conclude my point *blonde moment*

Done.
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Old 01-03-2014, 03:34 PM   #18
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Have to agree with most folks that a bj is strongly preferred (though is there really a 'bad' orgasm). Though the hj and finish in this video would probably be a great compromise

http://xhamster.com/movies/2318511/n...rm_sample.html
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Old 01-03-2014, 07:10 PM   #19
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OK, I like HJ's and in some ways they can be more fun/satisfying than oral. Instead focusing on the obvious(I have hands, can do it myself), handjobs are a contextual thing.

The handjob you got from a girlfriend in your car or maybe in a state park and she's humping your leg or you're fingering her and both of you are still in jeans. Just me?

My personal feeling is that handjobs have way more potential for variety than a bj. She may use two hands, or only one leaving the other hand free for ???. Also there can be more direct eye contact, dirty talk, neck biting or whatever if you are laying side-by-side. You can keep your clothes on, or take them off, or maybe CFNM is your thing. Touch of tease and denial? Domination? Light CBT? These are just a few possibilities and they aren't even getting into the actual techniques available. Plus there are all sorts of places you can finish on if the lady is willing. Face, stomach, tits, ass, etc...
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Old 01-03-2014, 08:16 PM   #20
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I have to say that I have experienced this once, I hooked up with a girl in college and the first night we were together she gave me an hj that was absolutely ridiculous! It was better than I could do my self and for a guy that's been doing it since he was 12 that saying quite a bit. Later in the the relationship she gave the best bj also. There are just some women out there that are intuitive lovers and very selfless and giving when being intimate. They are rare and hard to find but they are awesome. Not to advertise or suck up but Claire is definitely one.
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Old 01-03-2014, 08:17 PM   #21
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Why settle for one when you can have two slow, silky, deleribate hands and a set of skilled lips to worship you with?

I could give hj all day long! I worked at a jack shack for s while, when I was very young. I paid attention and would like to think it taught me a lot about the different tecniques and self love you guys give to your cock.
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Old 01-03-2014, 09:12 PM   #22
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BULL !!!
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FUCKING !!!
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SHIT !!!!
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I'm not saying you didn't read that, but the survey is bullshit.

However, a handjob may be a useful part of a session as long as it's only a part of a session including BBBJ and other activities.

As to doing it well:

Don't use it to try and make the guy finish quickly or instead of getting down to the real business.

Eye contact, and body contact, cuddling, etc. at the same time.

Maybe some teasing. A few strokes with a pause, etc. Getting the little Guy up and down a few times during the session can be part of the fun of the session.
Call it like you see it epic reply thanks for being honest gotta love it
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Old 01-03-2014, 09:47 PM   #23
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Why settle for one when you can have two slow, silky, deleribate hands and a set of skilled lips to worship you with?
Yes please...with the song Control by Nine Inch Nails on a one hour loop.
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Old 01-03-2014, 11:18 PM   #24
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I've had some pretty awesome bj and hj. But for overall experiences including super teasing I'd give the edge (no pun) to hj - if we are talking about the best I've had from each.

Now, about that "no one can give me a better hj than I can give myself" - totally not true for me. Maybe I just suck at it... (definitely no pun)
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Old 01-04-2014, 03:38 AM   #25
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What is a hand job?
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Old 01-04-2014, 07:54 AM   #26
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I prefer a BJ
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Old 01-04-2014, 12:50 PM   #27
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Did the survey also say an IOU is better than CASH? LOL
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Old 01-04-2014, 12:55 PM   #28
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I have to say that I have experienced this once, I hooked up with a girl in college and the first night we were together she gave me an hj that was absolutely ridiculous! It was better than I could do my self and for a guy that's been doing it since he was 12 that saying quite a bit. Later in the the relationship she gave the best bj also. There are just some women out there that are intuitive lovers and very selfless and giving when being intimate. They are rare and hard to find but they are awesome. Not to advertise or suck up but Claire is definitely one.
Awwww, thank you Sweetheart!
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Old 01-04-2014, 06:07 PM   #29
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Ohhhhh HJs!

I didn't discover sex until college. Well, that's a lie. I didn't start making out with boys (and girls for that matter) until college, so I skipped over the "just touch it, baby, I love you" phase that most people hit in their teens and went straight to the nerd-party beej. Although, now I really, really want to dust off my "True Love Waits" ring and go around giving handjobs in the back of shitty cars. That being said, I became fascinated in HJs in the past year. The man attached to my favorite cock (he's too not bad, either) sent me porn from the Queen of HJs and two hours later I was still watching...in a scientific way, not in a masturbatory way. Oh, and I discovered high-end lube. Aaaaand now I just want to give them all the time.

As with oral sex, I'm only able to do so much while wearing the provider hat. I mean, book me for two hours every week for a month and I'm sure I'd be able to come up with a HJ routine that's 90% of my best work. But without high legit intimacy levels and familiarity with a particular fuck-stick, I'll usually opt to slip it in someplace wet and warm in the interest of the male's enjoyment. See also: why true cock-worshiping is difficult to accomplish (at least for me) in the hobby setting.

When it comes to the HJ vs BJ, who knows. I don't have a penis, but I know with the equipment I do have I prefer a mediocre fingerbang to an above average labia licking any day. But again, I have different parts. I HAVE had FWBs over the past year request a HJ over a BJ once in a blue moon and I know my endurance with HJs is much, much higher as is my ability to pull (snicker) more tricks. And yes, the better eye contact for each and every move certainly assists in the edging for most men. See also: why some men are better at receiving head than others.

Really though, for the boys...if you haven't had a mind-blowing HJ, go get you one!
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Old 01-04-2014, 08:17 PM   #30
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No worries Claire I just call'em like I see'em
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