I need a little help please

[Ur_1_only]

Originally Posted by Overhere

I saw her today. No issues. Review to follow.

Glad to hear that Overhere... Contacted her and hope things go smoothly for a Saturday appt... We shall see...?

[tbone77494]

She put up the same ad taking none of the friendly advice.

[Ur_1_only]

Yes I saw the ad Tbone...

Disappointing... ��

[blowpop]

You're getting excellent advice. Follow it. How you take care of business is 50% of your reputation. Service is the other 50%. Without both being good, lots of reputable guys are going to look elsewhere.

No one has said this yet (unless I missed it) but perhaps your location is part of your problem? You're in a working class part of town, limiting your appeal to clients in the Galleria area, the Woodlands, and other typically white collar areas. Maybe you'll find clients more to your liking if you move further north?

(Disclaimer: I'm further north, and think you're hot.)

[Eccie Addict]

BP she started a location thread once before and believe me we tried hard to get her closer to us lol.....

No dice yet though.

[sinyouguy]

As a client who has been interested in you- I dont write you off because of the occasional bad comment you may get. All of your reviews look positive (except the no shows) So I just factor that into my selection process. I cant really imagine how crazy it must be keeping up with the mass of emails and texts form multiple dudes from various sites can be. Ive even gotten lost in the shuffle PMing you trying to set something up.

But sometimes planning a visit to a provider requires strategic planning from us...(work or S.O. issues) so a no show really really upsets us. Not to mention we were excited to see you- I dont spend 300 bucks in an hour doing anything else-for us a session is special...so its more than just a lost hour if you dont show.

As far as going bare full service - thats crazy- do not do that for all our sakes. Perhaps they are trying to get one over on the "new girl"

[milagro1970]

I'm sorry that you've been experiencing some grief, babe. I've seen you a few times, now, and I can honestly say that I look forward to our next visit.

[SofaKingFun]

Hun, all of the advice in the world isn't going to help you if you don't use it. You've been offered some very good, very valuable suggestions from some trusted, and well respected members; some of which have been through exactly the same things you're currently having to endure.

How you choose to use this information and how you choose to proceed
is entirely up to you.

You've asked for help and you've received it. Please give what's been offered some serious consideration. Dont casually dismiss it. Use what you wish and what you feel works best for you, but regardless of what you choose, it's going to take some effort on your part, as well; primarily, discipline.

As has been mentioned numerous times already, you must keep your appointments.

If you aren't able to do this, you are going to have problems and you're going to have backlash.

W/re: to the BBFS requests...
Perhaps if you were to tone down the "COMPLETELY OPEN MENU", in your showcase profile, that might help cut down on some of those requests. Reading that from a guy's perspective, might suggest something that
you never intended. Guys are simple creatures with vivid imaginations....so perhaps by putting a little less emphasis on that,---simply by not capitalizing the letters--- might help in that regard.


I wish you well, my dear. Many excellent suggestions have been laid upon your lap. You can choose to use them wisely, put forth some effort, and easily move past all of this. Or you can choose to do nothing and disregard them, only to find yourself right back here again looking for someone else to blame. Life is about choices, making the right ones, and then following through with them.

Again, I wish you well.

Regards,
SofaKingFun--Fantasy League Armchair Quarterback/Sports Agent

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[Guest082318]

You're hot, rates are fair and from your reviews you sound like fun. My only advice would be to do some screening before giving out a number. About a week ago I texted you late around 2 am and we started to arrange a meeting then you said you were really too tired to meet which I really appreciated the honesty. Much better than sub par performance or you falling asleep. You also didn't check if I was who I said I was. Use PMs for initial screening and contact then provide a number.

Keep up the good attitude and you will be fine. We still need to reschedule some time

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by KaitlynDior

What is the best way to handle a situation where ECCIE is getting held against you?

Ignore. There are too many gentlemen who respect ladies to take any shit off anyone!

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by blowpop

Maybe you'll find clients more to your liking if you move further north?

Hurry while the real estate is still affordable, and keep UTR.

[Guest010115-3]

Wow, so much good will here. If I may add, don't let ecce talk get u down, advise is advise, take it or leave it. Am sure these guys will still see u even if u ncns. Guy r like that. The only thing is an ncns eliminates a certain type of gentleman from ur clientele and ur left with mostly time wasters and non-professional people, then soon enough u adjust Ur rates because the professional gentleman is gone and now u have the medium or low professional group. That is the progression of an ncns provider. Business does not die, it just changes.

If ncns is the only thing u do bad, then u r doing well for Ur age group, this hobbying is full of ncns from both sides including older providers. Open menu is not the problem, just stand firm, some of us know that an open menu does not include certain things and if someone assumes wrong, just put him back in line and be consistent about that. One thing that will kill Ur business is, if after spending time with u, someone leaves more sad than when they came in. Happy hobbying to all and don't take eccie too seriously, it's jus another way for u to get clients. Do keep in mind that foreplay begins with initial contact, not when I open the door to Ur place. U should b pleasant from point of contact until goodbye while still playing it safe. That is how u become an atf.

One more thing - HAPPY NEW 2014!!!

[bigbadbill969]

My bad for defending her on here. Yesterday I contacted her to remind her of an appointment we had for today and I gave her my location. She replied that she does not do daytime outcalls. I then asked to see her that night because I prefer my place. I did this even though I prefer early appointments and even though she had previously agreed to do the appointment as outcall. She then asked for my address which I provided. I then texted her twice asking what time she could be here. no reply. then she asked "how long can you see me" I responded at least an hour maybe more. Again i asked, many times, when she could see me and no response. I understand these girls have lifes outside the hobby but that apparently was not the case in this matter. my last communication from her was about 5pm and at 6:23 she posted on a thread on this site (obviously she was not doing the family thing and was in hobby mode). I texted and called numerous times attempting to finish out appointment arrangements with no reply. Finally at 12:15 She calls and says she just saw my messages and had left her phone in the other room. I am not naive and I know better. She then suggested coming by at that hour. I told her after waiting more than 7 hours I was not in the mood. To me this is not just about getting a nut. It is about sharing with someone you desire also (if I just want a nut Pornhub is free and easy). Why would I want to share my desires and 250 with someone who was not even considerate enough to reply to my question when we were in the process of setting an appointment. I guess it is easy to be understanding until it happens to you......Bill

[Mojojo]

Response Kaitlyn? This will be 3 or 4 that go unresolved or replied to.

[silverstate53]

Blow is so right on with his advice - listen to him Kaitlyn