Getting use to rubbers again??

[Craps7]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

2. Stop masterbating or watching porn....as it may desensitize you to "real" sexual situations and mental and visual stimulants and feelings you gain naturally.

Haha. Yeah right...

[chibbwluvr]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

This is the number one method my gents use when not use to rubbers...a warm, wet mouth can be just as good!

+1

Honestly this is pretty much the only way I go these days since I know I won't last long inside the bag. It's probably become self fulfilling at this point since I think about it so much, but on the upside - BBBJs!!

[daty/o]

Had/have the same problem. The condom is like a second layer of skin, insulating and desensitizing. Try a very thin, non-latex condom (but not lambskin). That will allow the transfer of more natural body heat. And putting a small amount of good lube on the inside increases sensitivity by allowing friction against your skin and not the second skin. Works kinda like a female condom.

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by ttexastt

This is in absolutely no way seeking BBFS

After a couple of back to back long monogamous relationships I thought of condoms as a thing of the past. However, things have changed and these days they are a must. Be it in hobby, POF or just casual hookups in general.
While in the military I had become quite use to them and could get the work done without much of a issue. Now is a different story and they are like novacane... and god forbit I have a few drinks before hand.. Could be in cardiac arrest before getting the demons out.
You guys have any experience with this? Tips?

This is actually a great question. I have seen hobbyists who seem to "go limp" once a rubber is used. I understand that a rubber is not commonplace in many vanilla/civilian relationships, but it is absolutely mandatory in seeing a provider and/or any stranger that you are about to have sex with!

If the thought of using a condom is a challenge, there is nothing like a warm & wet mouth! As far as keeping a hard dick up for penetration, you'd be surprised what a cock ring could do. Also, a good lover is quick about putting the condom on with her lips during mid-bbj. If all goes well, you'll be inside of her pounding her away as if you didn't even put a condom on.

Happy New Years!

[Guest112814]

Originally Posted by daty/o

Had/have the same problem. The condom is like a second layer of skin, insulating and desensitizing. Try a very thin, non-latex condom (but not lambskin). That will allow the transfer of more natural body heat. And putting a small amount of good lube on the inside increases sensitivity by allowing friction against your skin and not the second skin. Works kinda like a female condom.

GREAT points - never would have thought the non latex and lube on the inside could make that much of a difference but it does.

Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

This is actually a great question. I have seen hobbyists who seem to "go limp" once a rubber is used.

Also, a good lover is quick about putting the condom on with her lips during mid-bbj. If all goes well, you'll be inside of her pounding her away as if you didn't even put a condom on.

Very true - the time between no activity (for me BBBJ) to sex is critical. Take 20 seconds to apply the condom and I'm done, not happening. Some ladies are VERY skilled at putting it on with their mouth (actually happened today ) that with the right condom and putting it on with her mouth and then mounting me I'm good to go with zero down time. From my experience, the more skilled and experienced providers understand this is common and can have you going like a champ.

[Guest092216]

ONES brand are beasts!!! And they make lube

[Guest020720]

Originally Posted by thathottnurse

ONES brand are beasts!!! And they make lube

And they have an ultra thin one now too. hooray!

[tsaints01]

The cover is for your little head! So before you begin your session take a few minutes an admire the sweet beautiful lady you are about to do

[Guest092216]

Originally Posted by tntangie

And they have an ultra thin one now too. hooray!

I know! I wish the ZEROS came in the funny pic packages. Those are hilarious!!!

[gimme_that]

Thins are cool for some guys I guess....


But "magnum thins" were invented by "the man" to keep a brother down. That was a bad idea by trojan. Those things pop so easy. I just stick to the regular ones.

[Guest020720]

Yeah, thins and magnums do not go together.

But the one brand has their own version of a magnum that I really like.

Ends up though that any time I buy the one brand of those (in a 3 pack), one guy goes through all three in a one hour session. I'm like, really? Did you need to put it on, take it off, put it on, take it off, and put it on, take it off and finish in my mouth? I really like these condoms man, but buying a bunch of 3 packs at the store is a little odd to explain.

I know, I know - online shopping. But I'm low volume. Plus I'll be about to go to school again soon, so I'll be super low volume. What am I gonna do with a bunch of condoms sitting around my house? I'm surely not having sex! Yes, seriously. I stay focused on school, not dating.

[pyramider]

I focus on taint ... ijs.

[bjfever]

I'l be the first to admit i hate condoms, but they are a must in the hobby. When u have been in a long term relationship and not been using them its hard to get used to, and I've went limp more times then i would like to count in the hobby. Bsb is excellent at keeping it up, nothing like a wet mouth to get u there, i think we used a box of them in our session. Try a larger size, the tighter they r on me makes it harder to keep it up. Cbj is definitely a turn off.

[Audrey Astor]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

I like using condoms. They increase my stamina which allows me to try more thing physically.

Stuff that may work.

1. Put a little water based lubricant inside the tip of the condom before you slide it on. Sometimes that will help with the feeling.

2. Stop masterbating or watching porn....as it may desensitize you to "real" sexual situations and mental and visual stimulants and feelings you gain naturally.

3. See ladies that will allow usage of a female condom. Buy them fresh, keep the reciept and don't tamper with the packaging.

These are all good tips. Skyns seem to work well for some as they don't seem to cut off circulation at the shaft. Also like stated a little condom friendly lube in the tip helps. Also proper installation can be an issue, too tight or too low on the head, will be an issue. Good luck finding one or some other fun services that get the job done!

[Matt Groening]

The secret to using condoms is the lube up like a motherfucker before you put it on. Don't just put on a little lube... cover yourself in the stuff. Then slide on the cover.

Trust me, the difference between doing this and putting on the cover with little or no lube --or just your natural lube-- is like the difference between night and day. At least it is for me.