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Guest062114-5 · 12-13-2013, 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

LOL I am spitting pepsi all over my keyboard!!!
Empty & Magnetron have some silly avatars....and they are "matching up humourusly where they are placed in this thread"!!!!

Anybody know the difference between a southern girl *& a northern girl????

Northern girls tell the boy "you can"...........and a southern girl tells the boys "all yall can"!!!

+100

I love the all y'all commentary when it was totally tongue in cheek... But all y'all have fun...

xo...xo...

Eccie Addict · 12-13-2013, 03:54 AM

I guess a true deal breaker for me is no msog in an hour+ session. However that is not set in stone, depends on the girl, rate and how bad I might want to meet her.

Guest062114-5 · 12-13-2013, 06:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I guess a true deal breaker for me is no msog in an hour+ session. However that is not set in stone, depends on the girl, rate and how bad I might want to meet her.

So, how does this translate to the civilian world? You wouldn't continue to sleep with a girl if she wouldn't have sex with you multiple times a night? Do you have an overall dealbreaker about having sex? Just curious.

Eccie Addict · 12-13-2013, 08:52 AM

I would say no that wouldn't be a deal breaker outside our lifestyle.

I can deal with cigarettes if its sex only but likely not if a long term relationship. Will not deal with drugs regardless whether its one night stand or long term. I can handle drinking as long as its not ridiculous even though I don't drink....

There may even be some deal breakers depending on certain circumstances....

jdough1211 · 12-13-2013, 09:55 AM

I can't stand absolutely atrocious TCB skills. Also, when a provider posts or PM's in multiple colors and fonts along with ridiculous symbols, I'm out. In addition to bad hygiene and upselling, I abhor when I'm contacted out of the blue by an unknown and unreviewed provider without her being referred to me by one of my regulars.

Guest062114-5 · 12-13-2013, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by jdough1211

I can't stand absolutely atrocious TCB skills. Also, when a provider posts or PM's in multiple colors and fonts along with ridiculous symbols, I'm out. In addition to bad hygiene and upselling, I abhor when I'm contacted out of the blue by an unknown and unreviewed provider without her being referred to me by one of my regulars.

So, how does that translate to the real world? Any civie deal breakers? Or is a civilian a deal breaker in itself?

Eccie Addict · 12-13-2013, 10:27 AM

No bbbjnqns

I just reread the insomnia thread

Marshpirate · 12-13-2013, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by LilMynx69

So, how does that translate to the real world? Any civie deal breakers? Or is a civilian a deal breaker in itself?

Good morning Mynx!
I have been on the civie train for a few years. Most have been initiated in social situation, a couple on POF. NSA does not mean NSA. Unfortunately it is very difficult to maintain a relationship without someone breaking the ground rules set at the beginning. It has happened to me, almost causing a catastrophe.

I've decided to go the provider route. So civie is a deal breaker.

Guest062114-5 · 12-13-2013, 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Marshpirate

Good morning Mynx!
I have been on the civie train for a few years. Most have been initiated in social situation, a couple on POF. NSA does not mean NSA. Unfortunately it is very difficult to maintain a relationship without someone breaking the ground rules set at the beginning. It has happened to me, almost causing a catastrophe.

I've decided to go the provider route. So civie is a deal breaker.

What about a civie who then promised to charge you $?

Marshpirate · 12-13-2013, 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by LilMynx69

What about a civie who then promised to charge you $?

If she is someone I had been seeing, probably not. I guess you mean the kept, or SD type of situations?

Mynx, you making me have to think now!
If I wasn't on antibiotics, I'd go pour me a Patron Silver right now.

My best answer is, women like you are far and few between. The NSAs I have experienced almost always developed a need for more and more of my attention. Some guys can deal with it, some cannot. It all depends on the demands of attention at home and work. I hope I was clear on this.

I tease you on making me think, but I actually enjoy these discussions. Thank you.

Guest062114-5 · 12-13-2013, 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I can handle drinking as long as its not ridiculous even though I don't drink....

Darling Bunny, I think I found my new designated driver...

Guest062114-5 · 12-13-2013, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Marshpirate

If she is someone I had been seeing, probably not. I guess you mean the kept, or SD type of situations?

Mynx, you making me have to think now!
If I wasn't on antibiotics, I'd go pour me a Patron Silver right now.

My best answer is, women like you are far and few between. The NSAs I have experienced almost always developed a need for more and more of my attention. Some guys can deal with it, some cannot. It all depends on the demands of attention at home and work. I hope I was clear on this.

I tease you on making me think, but I actually enjoy these discussions. Thank you.

I like making you think because you do it so well. I didn't really have a specific situation in mind (e.g, SD, kept), I guess I really meant to ask if you had any deal breakers if you were suddenly single and looking. It's a hypothetical after all.

Guest062114-5 · 12-13-2013, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

No bbbjnqns

I just reread the insomnia thread

I'm happy to amuse you, darling bunny! I'd be whining about my insomnia again, but I'm a little stuffy and I'm taking some NyQuil...it's not nearly as tasty or effective, though.

Marshpirate · 12-13-2013, 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by LilMynx69

I like making you think because you do it so well. I didn't really have a specific situation in mind (e.g, SD, kept), I guess I really meant to ask if you had any deal breakers if you were suddenly single and looking. It's a hypothetical after all.

Suddenly single huh?
I am almost 50, my SO is 12 years older than me. I would be looking for another version of her, only younger. She tries, but she is unable to fit into that role anymore. Diminished romance and passion. Thus, compatibility. It still does not change the way I feel about her.

Of course, all of the normal no smoking, drugs, addictions and self destructive behavior breaks the deal. But compatibility would be important.

Also, to be single again, I would still pay for trysts, with select providers until I found someone. Whether it be a kept or SD relationship or another NSA or a standard GF, I cannot say.

Guest062114-5 · 12-13-2013, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Marshpirate

Suddenly single huh?
I am almost 50, my SO is 12 years older than me. I would be looking for another version of her, only younger. She tries, but she is unable to fit into that role anymore. Diminished romance and passion. Thus, compatibility. It still does not change the way I feel about her.

Of course, all of the normal no smoking, drugs, addictions and self destructive behavior breaks the deal. But compatibility would be important.

Also, to be single again, I would still pay for trysts, with select providers until I found someone. Whether it be a kept or SD relationship or another NSA or a standard GF, I cannot say.

Very interesting. Thanks for the honest answer...