Providers and SO's

[pokerguy22]

Hi ladies. I know how it is for us hobbiest and finding the time to sneak away from our significant others. I was wondering about your side of the fence. Any of you ladies have significant others? And do they know the specifics and turn a blind eye? Or do they not know at all? Just how do you ladies go about it?

[Arverni]

Don't think many providers are going to volunteer that info.

I lived with a provider for two years though. I met her as a client and because she worked in a "health spa" ... I knew the other girls and their situations too. It never bothered me what my girl did ... I'm just not wired that way and I felt pretty secure that I could "compete" with any of her clients so I never got jealous or anything.

Other girls had SO's that either knew ... a few of them had SO's that didn't. A few of those got "discovered" by their spouses and it was 50-50 if the guy would stay with them after he found out. One gal was a Navy wife who only did provider work when her husband was deployed - but that was at least once a year and back then, either for 3 months or 6 months.

My girl always kept me happy by going way overboard on the sex. She always wanted me to have a quality experience and she treated me like a King. Sometimes if she had an overnight she'd ask one of the other girls in the spa if they would drop by and "babysit" me. It was pretty awesome.

[DallasRain]

I am in a VERY open minded relationship....so no worries here {lol}

I could never "hide" anything that important from my SO...it is too much fun to share the darkside of life WITH him!

[pokerguy22]

Arverni that sounds pretty damn cool.

Dallas I like the way you think.

[Nicolet]

I'm single and I'm not sure how I would handle being in a relationship while in the hobby. I will admit that I was no different than most SO's in that I didn't give my man what he needed when he needed it. However, I have learned SO much since my short time in the hobby! If I were to find a man who was confident in himself to know he was the love of my life and still allow me to hobby, he would be in heaven! I'm one of the old fashioned girls, a cook in the kitchen, a lady in the parlor, and a slut in the bedroom!

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by Nicolet

...... I'm one of the old fashioned girls, a cook in the kitchen, a lady in the parlor, and a slut in the bedroom!

BINGO !!!!!